Being a husband and a father is a big responsibility. If you're already in that phase, you should know how to manage and allocate your money and income. Gambling can be addicting but if you're a responsible husband and father, you will prioritize your family than gambling. This is what some people are forgetting. They always think that they can get their money back if they won. But no. In the first place, you shouldn't use the money for your family expenses in gambling. Everyone's free to gamble but it's only fine as long you have extra money. Don't use the money for your family in gambling because it's your family that will suffer.
A woman and wife are really practical when it comes to money, they always think of the family expenses, from food, Transpo, bills and all. They become really good at math when it comes to money. And as a gambler, discipline is a must.
Topic: Gambling effect to husband and wife - page 2. (Read 520 times)
It is all about how you can control yourself and knows the limit to spend your money.
I mean you must know how much the money that you can use for gambling. You also need to know when you are better to stop playing it. Once you can manage it well, I think it is no problem if you want to play gambling. For me, the problem is only once you forget anything because of gambling addiction.
*Remember that always make a priority for the family. Gambling mustn't make you forget more important things.
I mean you must know how much the money that you can use for gambling. You also need to know when you are better to stop playing it. Once you can manage it well, I think it is no problem if you want to play gambling. For me, the problem is only once you forget anything because of gambling addiction.
*Remember that always make a priority for the family. Gambling mustn't make you forget more important things.
Wife will make trouble for sure either you are gambling on real life or online. There would be two different problem, if you are gambling real life then mostly time you will late to return home especially on night. Of course she will fight with you if continuously happen. Other thing about money, perhaps she will ask about your money if you lost. On the other hand, even she will make trouble when you will gamble continuously on your pc/phone. Because you can't spent time with your wife, so she would depressed. Overall it's not very easy task to convince wifi if you are gambler. Most important is, you will not able to spent enough time with your wifi and that's the main reason she would angered.
Just a little bit OT. Are you in mobile which some words posted I do suspect were autospell?Wifi = Wife
Angered = Angry
Well, its just my observation though.Going back on topic where its normal for our wife to seek out for our income.
Our wife needs time and caress and if you do consume all of your time either on online or offline gambling then its just a normal
reaction.
It is common for a wife to asks where our money goes. It's our duty to be their provider and from the very start we know that it's our responsibility to do so. Like the known quote of "Happy wife, happy life".
Provide things for your wife and family so that she won't be a hindrance to your hobby as you gamble but don't go far and become addicted.
Provide things for your wife and family so that she won't be a hindrance to your hobby as you gamble but don't go far and become addicted.
Wife will make trouble for sure either you are gambling on real life or online. There would be two different problem, if you are gambling real life then mostly time you will late to return home especially on night. Of course she will fight with you if continuously happen. Other thing about money, perhaps she will ask about your money if you lost. On the other hand, even she will make trouble when you will gamble continuously on your pc/phone. Because you can't spent time with your wife, so she would depressed. Overall it's not very easy task to convince wifi if you are gambler. Most important is, you will not able to spent enough time with your wifi and that's the main reason she would angered.
Have you ever think what is the result of gambling for husband and wife?
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I think the following are some of effect in a releationship
1. Wife always ask where the money goes.
- this is a normal question , but once the husband got hook in gambling we heard this very often
2. Husband always checking where he is going.
- i know what you are thinking this is a question from wife if her man is cheating, but when her husband always give money she knows the salary, and found out he's in to gambling count this in
3. They always get into discussion
- this is one of the most common things we always hear from husband and wife , and its regarding money
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I think this is the top things when someone into gambling wife always had something to say and ask
as a friend my recommendation is that like in a liquor advertisement drink moderately in gambling
always have in control be happy but don't waste money.
what do you say
images from google istaka
I think the following are some of effect in a releationship
1. Wife always ask where the money goes.
- this is a normal question , but once the husband got hook in gambling we heard this very often
2. Husband always checking where he is going.
- i know what you are thinking this is a question from wife if her man is cheating, but when her husband always give money she knows the salary, and found out he's in to gambling count this in
3. They always get into discussion
- this is one of the most common things we always hear from husband and wife , and its regarding money
images are from google
I think this is the top things when someone into gambling wife always had something to say and ask
as a friend my recommendation is that like in a liquor advertisement drink moderately in gambling
always have in control be happy but don't waste money.
what do you say
This situation between wife and husband was very unpleasant to see, problems took them too difficult while being affected of gambling. As a gambler, you had chosen to take the responsibility between family and your hobbies with betting. Though it was with the involvement for money, if handled fairly it won't be worst in the long run and your family will stay stronger without any problems about gambling.
See, if the 3rd one was actually the first to be considered, none of the rest would happen. But instead, the first thing that occurs is the wife looks for the money which was used for gambling (which she did not have knowledge of), then proceeds to want to know what the husband is doing all the time with the money, and bam. It's always the discussion that is late, why can't that be the first to be considered in every event. With the discussion, the wife would know what happened to the money, the husband would explain why he does that, and no mistrust or whatever would friggin occur.
Gambling has a negative effect in marriage or for husband and wife because it can lead to divorce if one of their partners became addicted to gambling and all of their savings is loss, that is why if your partner is gambler you need to guide him/her just to be safe because both of you will end up bankrupt.
my recommendation is that like in a liquor advertisement drink moderately in gambling
always have in control be happy but don't waste money.
what do you say
always have in control be happy but don't waste money.
what do you say
Moderation is indeed the key in gambling. And not only from the funds/money point of view (which is lately expressed a lot - good - ), also from the time point of view (which seems to not be discussed enough).
If too much time is spent in gambling one can lose his friends (become a stranger) or can arise questions in the family (is he cheating?).
And the comparison with the liquors is good. Gambling is still "nice to have" now and then, as long as it's done with moderation.
When you gamble and you lose control of how you gamble, your wife will not respect you for this and you will lose control of your relationship with your family, so many relationships have been broken because of gambling, and this is something every gambler should be aware of, learn from the others bad experience and not from your own.
if we hide something from wife will ultimately have a negative impact on a relationship, especially about finances which I think is very sensitive. I'm sure most wives will forbid their husbands to gamble because they don't want to take big risks that can lead to addiction and even end up divorcing.
Taking your partner in confidence is the best thing in such cases. If you play gambling without telling anyone, then it will be a shock for the family when they see you lose big amount or surprise if you manage to win big amount. Also Husband should not be addicted in gambling and give proper time and finance to the wife and kids.
if we hide something from wife will ultimately have a negative impact on a relationship, especially about finances which I think is very sensitive. I'm sure most wives will forbid their husbands to gamble because they don't want to take big risks that can lead to addiction and even end up divorcing.
Your analogy sounded incomplete because you assume that its only the husband that can be gambling. Although, this is largely true as gambling has been associated to that gender but we have seen series of cases where the woman has been the menace of the home as a result of gambling and even some times the woman might be responsible for falling cheap of scams in the name of gambling or not taking a calculated risk thereby losing much money at once than all of the time the husband has engaged in gambling combined. Uncontrolled gambling is not good for anybody and that should be the message.
For as long as everything is done moderately and no other responsibilities and expenses are affected by the gambling hobby of either or both spouses, I don't see any problem at all. Problems arise when gambling is consuming more money that other expenses are affected, or consuming more time that family is neglected. Other than that, gambling is tolerable.
What if both the husband and wife are involved in gambling ? In that case no one can blame each other as both are playing the same games. In case any one of them in involved in gambling, he should get permission from his/her partner so that both know the risk involved in gambling. Also wife can help husband in making decisions in gambling games.
Its very hard to have this situation because high chances both would be broke in the end or they do simply lost money in longer runs which those
money should be spent out for their childs future but instead they do make it as a habit.Your partner should really know on what are the things you are
into so that you can support each other when problem do arise.
In my view?this is not the cause of gambling because this is about the persons attitude why he got hooked from gambling.
But what you have said are all true because the problem arise when a man/woman starts to get hard in gambling and the issues will come always and sometimes end up breaking apart ,mostly the wife leaves the husband for this reason.
But what you have said are all true because the problem arise when a man/woman starts to get hard in gambling and the issues will come always and sometimes end up breaking apart ,mostly the wife leaves the husband for this reason.
For as long as everything is done moderately and no other responsibilities and expenses are affected by the gambling hobby of either or both spouses, I don't see any problem at all. Problems arise when gambling is consuming more money that other expenses are affected, or consuming more time that family is neglected. Other than that, gambling is tolerable.
What if both the husband and wife are involved in gambling ? In that case no one can blame each other as both are playing the same games. In case any one of them in involved in gambling, he should get permission from his/her partner so that both know the risk involved in gambling. Also wife can help husband in making decisions in gambling games.
Not really I think if we as husbands can manage money, where is money for wife, where is money for household needs and where is money for us * husbands
those who have problems with their wives I think they can not control and continue to waste their money unknowingly because they have lost while gambling.
I only play with the leftover money if I lose I will not return the same day
those who have problems with their wives I think they can not control and continue to waste their money unknowingly because they have lost while gambling.
I only play with the leftover money if I lose I will not return the same day
For number 2 I guess it isn't for the husband but more often it's for the wife but that could be the case if the wife is the one that into gambling addiction. Well, if gambling for an instance is the one that supports the family this kind of situation may never happen, as you said if it just gambles moderately and not intend to lose the money for saving and day to day expenses no problem will arise.
Effects would be severe if you do already compromise the money which are intended for expenses and savings.Its normal for our wife to ask out on where's your salary and what are the thing you've been spending.They would find it out no matter how hard you do hide your gambling activity.
If you do let yourself being controlled by addiction then you would really come to this point where big problem arise between you and your wife/family.
The risk is that you might even lose them if you cant able to feed or raise them properly or buying out their needs.
It isnt bad to gamble but everything should be on moderation.Your wife wont really be that angry even you do gamble as long you do know your responsibilities as a father and a husband.
If you do let yourself being controlled by addiction then you would really come to this point where big problem arise between you and your wife/family.
The risk is that you might even lose them if you cant able to feed or raise them properly or buying out their needs.
It isnt bad to gamble but everything should be on moderation.Your wife wont really be that angry even you do gamble as long you do know your responsibilities as a father and a husband.
For as long as everything is done moderately and no other responsibilities and expenses are affected by the gambling hobby of either or both spouses, I don't see any problem at all. Problems arise when gambling is consuming more money that other expenses are affected, or consuming more time that family is neglected. Other than that, gambling is tolerable.
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