People making well reasoned arguments are great discussion and knowledge contributors, but they still need to be examined to see if they are ulterior motive driven.
Normally, a logical argument stands or falls by itself, and has no bearing to its author. That said, I have no motive. I'm not involved in crypto, apart from studying it. I discuss crypto essentially to improve my own understanding of it, which is my only motive.
A mathematical proof can be checked by itself, just as a cryptographic proof. In the same way, a logical argument, even though not watertight, is of the same nature. The arguments I'm putting forward are exactly those that convince ME of what I'm saying. If you can punch a hole in it, you might convince ME that I'm wrong. I would then be grateful.
So lets say 100% of miners have good connections with themselves (not relying on incompatible node relay), and start producing bigger blocks. The other nodes are now unsynced. Nodes (which included exchanges) will now have to upgrade. Bitcoin has successfully forked. The old fork is essentially dead, unless someone thinks their CPU's/GPU's/USB asics can move it on to the next difficulty adjustment.
Yes. I think that is logical, no ? If you are waiting for blocks that are not mined, your node simply stops. And if you try to mine them yourself, you *become a miner*, and you've made a new coin.
I probably need to thing more about the situation involved where there is a split in mining power. Here, user nodes could have a say in the outcome of what is considered bitcoin, and what is considered bitcoin 2.
I've been following the ETC/ETH split as it unrolled, because it was an eye-opener for me. It was a fascinating time to follow. I don't know if you "were there". I had bought 5 ETH to play with a month before or so, and then found myself being owner of ETC and ETH.
When there are TWO coins, that is a full hard fork, the end result is determined by the MARKET. If the market makes an obvious choice for one or the other, one might die ; but ETC survived on less than 10% of mining power and market cap. This is probably why people talk of 95% (hopeful) consensus before forking if you do not want 2 prongs.
That said, bitcoin is nastier in this respect than ethereum, because ethereum, like most more modern alt coins, have continuously adjustable difficulty ; while bitcoin has these 14 days which can be very, very long if your hash rate available is lower. So if a hard fork keeps this aspect of bitcoin (a hard fork can change ANYTHING, so just as well the difficulty adjustment), and you are left with only 10% of the hash rate, that branch will have a hard time surviving, with a block only every 100 minutes on average, and 5 months for the next difficulty adjustment. So most probably, bitcoin has a build-in forking protection unless the forkers adapt this.