The same way we see so many men who are addicted to gambling on the streets, maybe so also we would have been seeing addicted women as well, if the number of women in gambling is the same, or even slightly close to the number of men in gambling.
I do not think so that if we had more numbers of women in gambling than men that we still see them addicted, in the first place we won't see more numbers of women above men in gambling because there are particular ways of life expected by the sex of persons. Gambling is already a dominated area by men just like the society ascribed prostituting to women. No hard feelings to the women folks but growing up I have known women being the ones known with such "trades" even though it is the men who patronize them. This is the way the society is but we could just see a little changes here and there which would be known as an aberration to the norm.
I understand what you are saying that women have different thoughts from men in terms of spending money and women will prefer to spend their money to go somewhere to buy clothes or buy food and men do not have such thoughts.
In terms of controlling women's emotions, they also think more realistically that it would be better if the money was used for their needs rather than for gambling.
From this it is very clear that out of 100% of female gamblers only 10% and 90% of men