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September 06, 2017, 12:00:36 PM
A very influential factor is emotional condition of gambler. Duration spent on gambling and burden of mind greatly affects  final balance a game. Gambling maybe not a mistake if we have target profit that isn't too big.
legendary
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September 06, 2017, 10:43:52 AM
Yes, it will not be so easy but if you are a lucky person and dedicated to gambling it is worth it to stay. There are lot of gambler that are rich bexause they're wise.

Its quite the opposite - wise men dont gamble they use their wisdom elsewhere and make money via that hard work that they put in. They dont put in money and let luck take its roll. People who gamble even if they are wise they will make mistakes if they play for long and allow their emotions to take over. Also a wise person will understand the consequences of gambling and that there are other methods of making money.

I agree more towards your stance. The wise wont gamble. Those who gamble and get rich is because they usually gamble with others and not against the house. And everyone should know the games are designed to make you lose.
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September 06, 2017, 06:05:11 AM
To get rid of gambling you need to take your free time with some very interesting hobby so that you do not even have time to think about that you can play the game again.

As usual, this is a way but if you want to get rid of gambling totally. I suggest that allocate your money or budget it with the right way. Don't give a way that you'll have spare money to be put in gambling. It's better if you'll save that in bank or invest that somewhere not in gambling capital but you can just use it for trading of alt coins which is a more productive thing instead of gambling.
It's hard to focus in a lot of things and your plan to quit could not be possible if you still prioritize gambling and you cannot let go of the fun.
Think on the other side, gambling is fun but there is a reason why you have to quit, it's not good in your finances therefore you have to quit as early as possible. Gambling addiction cannot be easily healed if you won't replace something more special that will make you focus and enjoy instead of gambling, having said that you have to look for that kind of interest of yours.

It may be hard to focus with some other things when you are about to follow your plan of quitting gambling. And you must change the way of thinking that you mustn't be prioritizing gambling anymore. What's the use of it if you want to quit but you keep on thinking about it. If that still doesn't work, try to dedicate your time on your job.
I must say this is the only one way of quitting anything. Quitting smoking, drinking, gambling and many other alike things would not be easy if you just think of quitting them. Practical quitting is the demand. You have to make your mind ready to quit immediately. That how you will leave it.

Correct, you must be dedicated on quitting it and not just saying that you are going to quit gambling. Words without action is basically useless, it is like you are just fooling yourself. I know that is it going to be hard quitting gambling right away especially if you had lost too much money on it, but that is life, we have to accept it and move on.

and if you need help from other people then you can asked them to help you and you don't be shy or else because its for yourself too. we need to try for daily and never stop if we want to quit from gambling. i realize that it will be difficult if we are an addicted gambler but with other peoples help, i am sure that we can forget about gambling and we can enjoy our new habit for the better life.
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September 06, 2017, 06:04:30 AM
Yes, it will not be so easy but if you are a lucky person and dedicated to gambling it is worth it to stay. There are lot of gambler that are rich bexause they're wise.

Its quite the opposite - wise men dont gamble they use their wisdom elsewhere and make money via that hard work that they put in. They dont put in money and let luck take its roll. People who gamble even if they are wise they will make mistakes if they play for long and allow their emotions to take over. Also a wise person will understand the consequences of gambling and that there are other methods of making money.
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September 06, 2017, 01:03:32 AM
To get rid of gambling you need to take your free time with some very interesting hobby so that you do not even have time to think about that you can play the game again.

As usual, this is a way but if you want to get rid of gambling totally. I suggest that allocate your money or budget it with the right way. Don't give a way that you'll have spare money to be put in gambling. It's better if you'll save that in bank or invest that somewhere not in gambling capital but you can just use it for trading of alt coins which is a more productive thing instead of gambling.
It's hard to focus in a lot of things and your plan to quit could not be possible if you still prioritize gambling and you cannot let go of the fun.
Think on the other side, gambling is fun but there is a reason why you have to quit, it's not good in your finances therefore you have to quit as early as possible. Gambling addiction cannot be easily healed if you won't replace something more special that will make you focus and enjoy instead of gambling, having said that you have to look for that kind of interest of yours.

It may be hard to focus with some other things when you are about to follow your plan of quitting gambling. And you must change the way of thinking that you mustn't be prioritizing gambling anymore. What's the use of it if you want to quit but you keep on thinking about it. If that still doesn't work, try to dedicate your time on your job.
I must say this is the only one way of quitting anything. Quitting smoking, drinking, gambling and many other alike things would not be easy if you just think of quitting them. Practical quitting is the demand. You have to make your mind ready to quit immediately. That how you will leave it.

Correct, you must be dedicated on quitting it and not just saying that you are going to quit gambling. Words without action is basically useless, it is like you are just fooling yourself. I know that is it going to be hard quitting gambling right away especially if you had lost too much money on it, but that is life, we have to accept it and move on.
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September 05, 2017, 11:46:10 PM
To get rid of gambling you need to take your free time with some very interesting hobby so that you do not even have time to think about that you can play the game again.

As usual, this is a way but if you want to get rid of gambling totally. I suggest that allocate your money or budget it with the right way. Don't give a way that you'll have spare money to be put in gambling. It's better if you'll save that in bank or invest that somewhere not in gambling capital but you can just use it for trading of alt coins which is a more productive thing instead of gambling.
It's hard to focus in a lot of things and your plan to quit could not be possible if you still prioritize gambling and you cannot let go of the fun.
Think on the other side, gambling is fun but there is a reason why you have to quit, it's not good in your finances therefore you have to quit as early as possible. Gambling addiction cannot be easily healed if you won't replace something more special that will make you focus and enjoy instead of gambling, having said that you have to look for that kind of interest of yours.

It may be hard to focus with some other things when you are about to follow your plan of quitting gambling. And you must change the way of thinking that you mustn't be prioritizing gambling anymore. What's the use of it if you want to quit but you keep on thinking about it. If that still doesn't work, try to dedicate your time on your job.
I must say this is the only one way of quitting anything. Quitting smoking, drinking, gambling and many other alike things would not be easy if you just think of quitting them. Practical quitting is the demand. You have to make your mind ready to quit immediately. That how you will leave it.
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September 05, 2017, 06:50:29 PM
Yes, it will not be so easy but if you are a lucky person and dedicated to gambling it is worth it to stay. There are lot of gambler that are rich bexause they're wise.
That is, if you're really lucky. If not, then who says you're not? You cannot quantify luck and you can never determine it so it's better to take the risk. It's okay to lose as long as you know what you are doing and be smart in the decisions that you do.

Dont play for profit and hope that we are lucky because we will not be lucky. When we choose to play for fun then it will be much better, when we play for fun we are not really going to hope that we win money but what if we are lucky and we win some money? that would be very great for us right ?
Just stick to your purpose when playing gambling, that what is is the devil which will make us lose in the end.
We win and we did not quit because we think what if we win more but in the end we lose, that's sad right, also when we lose we still
gamble as again we think what if we get our loses back but what happen in the end is we lose everything we have.
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September 05, 2017, 06:28:30 PM
It is really not easy to give up gambling especially if you are targeting to win back some of your loses. For that case the only way for the person to give up gambling is when he or she doesn't have any more balance to play with or to gamble with it. But for people who always winning it is easy for them to give up gambling because they didn't lose any, they don't have any regrets that is why it is easy for them to give up gambling anytime.
i also agree with you that it is not easy to quit gambling, and specially for those people who are addicted to gambling in fact when we become addicted to gambling then we even find it harder to stop gambling for a single day and want to play it again and again, in fact for every time we are expecting that one day we will make a big profit from gambling and it will change our life, but i think it can be happen in rare cases, while most of the people lose money in gambling.
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September 05, 2017, 04:18:55 PM
It is really not easy to give up gambling especially if you are targeting to win back some of your loses. For that case the only way for the person to give up gambling is when he or she doesn't have any more balance to play with or to gamble with it. But for people who always winning it is easy for them to give up gambling because they didn't lose any, they don't have any regrets that is why it is easy for them to give up gambling anytime.
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September 05, 2017, 04:15:26 PM
You cant do it alone, you need support, you need someone to tell you what your doing is wrong and you need someone to tell you that you need to stop, its like addiction, you cant rehabilitate by your own self, you need help from someone like a friend or relative.
Yes, your correct that one person who is addicted in gambling should need someone to help him to give up in gambling, because this person is verry addicted in gambling and he can't do giving up on it, because he can't control by itself. It is important that having a someone to advise the person can't give up in gambling and someone who explain which is good or bad. But, for me the best way to giving up is to avoid in gambling and by set the limit in oneself.
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September 05, 2017, 01:23:47 PM
Yes, it will not be so easy but if you are a lucky person and dedicated to gambling it is worth it to stay. There are lot of gambler that are rich bexause they're wise.
That is, if you're really lucky. If not, then who says you're not? You cannot quantify luck and you can never determine it so it's better to take the risk. It's okay to lose as long as you know what you are doing and be smart in the decisions that you do.

Dont play for profit and hope that we are lucky because we will not be lucky. When we choose to play for fun then it will be much better, when we play for fun we are not really going to hope that we win money but what if we are lucky and we win some money? that would be very great for us right ?
legendary
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September 05, 2017, 01:03:48 PM
Of course, to refuse gambling is very difficult for yourself, because it is a kind of dependence that does not seem to be a dependency, but on the contrary the player hopes to work a lot of money.

Those who consider gambling as a soruce of income or think that they will earn profit from it majority of the times fall in this prey and get hooked to it . This getting addiction to this is very easy in suh terms as they will keep coming inspite of huge loses and will take more debt from others as well to play the games . Thus witting becomes really difficult for such people unless they have strong will power to quit themselves .

An addiction should be healed by a proper way , we can see there's a lot of psychiatrist , a gambling problem specialist etc out there.
Simply go to them and pay for cure is really worth , rather than suffering worse and worse.
Strong will is not enough , you need a real action such as what i have mentioned above.
I'm curious, what other ways can you cure an addiction? Because you said proper way. Is there any improper way? Psychiatrists can really help you in a neurological level or meaning, in a deeper thinking. It's not enough to just have someone to talk to (if you are deep level addicted). You should do something about it if you want to be fixed.
When you come to a psychiatrist or any other professional gambling healer you have done "something" .
And if you read carefully i have explained everything that i know based on some people around me who have experienced it.
Give it a try and let's talk again later. Goodluck crwth.

So you mean a person should undergo rehabilitation all about how to give up gambling easily although it's hard for him. For me it doesn't need a mandatory to call for a psychiatrist in order to help those hard decisions to be managed well as giving up is the main concern here. A person should be willing to change his life before undergoing counceilings.
How could you be able to have a will when you did not put an effort?
Going for counselling is one of the effort and i strongly recommend to do it.
Rather than do nothing just rely on your own self awarness i think there's no harm.
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September 05, 2017, 09:09:15 AM
Yes, it will not be so easy but if you are a lucky person and dedicated to gambling it is worth it to stay. There are lot of gambler that are rich bexause they're wise.
That is, if you're really lucky. If not, then who says you're not? You cannot quantify luck and you can never determine it so it's better to take the risk. It's okay to lose as long as you know what you are doing and be smart in the decisions that you do.
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September 05, 2017, 09:06:12 AM
Yes, it will not be so easy but if you are a lucky person and dedicated to gambling it is worth it to stay. There are lot of gambler that are rich bexause they're wise.
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September 05, 2017, 08:18:44 AM
Giving up gambling is not easy especially when you became addicted to it, and when you're still earning from it. When you want to give up gambling, you should look for new ways on how you will entertain yourself.

I think most people lose money in gambling more than what they can win and so they are not likely to be on a green streak for long before they go broke and end up with a debt. There can be people who are really lucky but like always luck is slippery and soon they will also learn their lesson. The fact that people remain addicted is that they cant deal with losses and move on but they will chase losses and lose more in turn.
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September 05, 2017, 08:08:43 AM
Hi guys and girls! After making quite a lot of money then losing it and crying about it half the afternoon I have decided to give up gambling for good.  Its not for me in have a much too addictive personality. So now I just plan to work for casinos but not gamble.

The thing is you know you should cash out but you always want just that little bit more and then u lose the whole lot. I'm stupid and greedy. Right after I lost i put more in and doubled it then I went all in and lost it. So yes u can make a killing gambling with such a small about like a few dollars but then u lose all u make and waste a lot of time and energy and end up getting upset. Also i shake like mad when I gamble and I hate that. I tremble. When I lose I can't believe what the screen is telling me.

So any thoughts ? Ways to stop ? Ways to gamble with play money ? Maybe there are dust gambling casinoes I can use? U know just for fun and for the fix. Smiley
Addiction on something especially on gambling is not that easy to do in just one twinkle on an eye or one click, you should do it step by step. The more you run away from it the more it nears you. So, instead of running away from it you need to face it, you need to survive no matter what happen. It is very difficult for you to remove it  because it was become your usually hobbits. Sometimes, even you are trying to quit gambling but when you encounter again some gambling site or something that are connected on gambling you are like person who are very thirsty in water that needs to take even a very small amount of water. That's how gambling works in your life. So, you need to overcome.
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September 05, 2017, 07:31:37 AM
It definitely isn't. After you have earned some profit in the short while, its the best time to bag your winnings and get out, but most people fall short there. Gambling just becomes too addicting and that makes them go into long term gambling, and I can guarantee, that in the long term, if you get greedy, you will definitely lose all your earnings to house edge. This definitely is the reason why people aren't able to leave gambling before they have lost all their investments, and ultimately end up losing a lot.

Most people dont quit when they have win some money. Alot of people will continue and try to get more once they have win some money, alot of people then will lose the money that they have won. It is not that giving up gambling is easy but it is that alot of people choose not to quit because they want to get more
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September 05, 2017, 05:19:19 AM
It definitely isn't. After you have earned some profit in the short while, its the best time to bag your winnings and get out, but most people fall short there. Gambling just becomes too addicting and that makes them go into long term gambling, and I can guarantee, that in the long term, if you get greedy, you will definitely lose all your earnings to house edge. This definitely is the reason why people aren't able to leave gambling before they have lost all their investments, and ultimately end up losing a lot.
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September 05, 2017, 04:31:50 AM
To get rid of gambling you need to take your free time with some very interesting hobby so that you do not even have time to think about that you can play the game again.

As usual, this is a way but if you want to get rid of gambling totally. I suggest that allocate your money or budget it with the right way. Don't give a way that you'll have spare money to be put in gambling. It's better if you'll save that in bank or invest that somewhere not in gambling capital but you can just use it for trading of alt coins which is a more productive thing instead of gambling.
It's hard to focus in a lot of things and your plan to quit could not be possible if you still prioritize gambling and you cannot let go of the fun.
Think on the other side, gambling is fun but there is a reason why you have to quit, it's not good in your finances therefore you have to quit as early as possible. Gambling addiction cannot be easily healed if you won't replace something more special that will make you focus and enjoy instead of gambling, having said that you have to look for that kind of interest of yours.

It may be hard to focus with some other things when you are about to follow your plan of quitting gambling. And you must change the way of thinking that you mustn't be prioritizing gambling anymore. What's the use of it if you want to quit but you keep on thinking about it. If that still doesn't work, try to dedicate your time on your job.
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September 05, 2017, 04:08:05 AM
To get rid of gambling you need to take your free time with some very interesting hobby so that you do not even have time to think about that you can play the game again.

If the person is having a problem with addiction then they must try to understand the reason why they are addicted. Many people gamble for fun and not for earning money. If that is kept within limits then its not bad, however if they gamble for money and then they continue just to chase losses then its bad. One must control that type of habits which makes them lose money unnecessarily. Rather live happily on what you earn.
Do you really think an addicted gambler will find time to understand why he's having problems with his gambling addiction ? I believe it will be impossible because due to lack of self analysis they got into gambling addictions still expecting the same must be completely meaningless.

When people go gambling without any limit then after some time giving up gambling will be completely impossible for them. So, keeping some limit from the beginning itself will be the only solution to give up gambling at any time.
every gamblers have its own reasoning just to justify their bad habits including denying what are they coming thru i think giving up is not that easy
and for sure they will keep on finding many reason to continue while even in many ways of trying to give up.
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