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April 18, 2017, 08:32:35 AM
Giving up gambling was not an easy to give up once you become an addict gambler. Because of the addiction that has been planted into your behavior character you always look for the  satisfaction of your personalities when it comes to gambling.

If you are that person that has some other priorities and gambling isn't your top priority. I know you can give up it for real, what you just need to do is to take that a little by little because there's no instant getting out in gambling addiction. That can make it up by gradual giving up, just know your priorities and choose those important ones.

Give up gambling is normal for you and me, but it is not easy for addicted persons. Because when a gambler has been addicted than nothing more priority he has except gambling. Addicted person can't give up, because in the end he think that may be he will win the next bet, till the end, everything has been finished but give up is not finished for addiction.   

give up gambling is not impossible for gamblers, even though gambling addicts. But it's not easy to give up on gambling for gambling addicts. The phrase "not easy" has a different meaning to the "can not". Not easy means you can still be stopped, but it is difficult, there must be intent and earnest effort. However, the sentence can not mean whatever you do you'll never be able to do it. Like the fly without any tools, you can never be.
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April 18, 2017, 07:47:55 AM
Give up gambling is normal for you and me, but it is not easy for addicted persons. Because when a gambler has been addicted than nothing more priority he has except gambling. Addicted person can't give up, because in the end he think that may be he will win the next bet, till the end, everything has been finished but give up is not finished for addiction.   

For addicted like me, I dont really have to quit gambling or anything. I just need to suppres my desire to gamble. I cant limit my desire to gamble however I can lower the amount that I use to gamble. Im sure that this has help me alot although Im still gambling right now however I dont really lose anything even when I lose
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April 18, 2017, 05:23:28 AM
Giving up gambling was not an easy to give up once you become an addict gambler. Because of the addiction that has been planted into your behavior character you always look for the  satisfaction of your personalities when it comes to gambling.

If you are that person that has some other priorities and gambling isn't your top priority. I know you can give up it for real, what you just need to do is to take that a little by little because there's no instant getting out in gambling addiction. That can make it up by gradual giving up, just know your priorities and choose those important ones.

Give up gambling is normal for you and me, but it is not easy for addicted persons. Because when a gambler has been addicted than nothing more priority he has except gambling. Addicted person can't give up, because in the end he think that may be he will win the next bet, till the end, everything has been finished but give up is not finished for addiction.   
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April 17, 2017, 10:01:00 AM
The only thing that I can advice you is to take a self control. You must cut all the strings between you and gambling or much better to diverse your time to other things. As you said you always start gambling with a small amount of your money but ends up losing it all. You must set goals or lose point so that you will not get rekt.

Having brackets or limits on how much to lose or to spend in gambling is important,setting limits before playing is a must, because once we played we might not notice we were spending too much and we almost lose all,have set control and watch your limits while playing.

I agree, because you can control how the things works here in the gambling world, but it depends on the people, if you are not that addicted to it, then I am sure this way will work, after you lose the amount that you have set to spend on gambling on a day, then you will quit it in an instant and will try again another day, but if you are addicted, then it will be the other way around.

Though others might just make an excuses, or ways to continue gambling even though they are losing what they can't afford, they are always saying that you will win in the end if you are not going to quit gambling and keep on trying everyday, which I could day that it is a very wrong idea.
- Right, giving up gambling depends on ourselves, a lot of people realize their problem, they know they are addicted to gambling but they still can not give up gambling because they have no willpower, they do not have the help of the family and they really do not want to give up gambling, gambling is still too attractive to them. The biggest enemy of us is ourselves, if we can not master ourselves, we will never give up gambling, the problem is in ourselves, we should not blame the gambling addiction
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April 17, 2017, 05:43:04 AM
I bet some gamblers tried to quit gambling but they can't do and they just accepted the fact it's part of their life. Thinking in a positive way will overcome regarding this matter, even your into deep in gambling you can give up easily. Using any excuses will never help, everybody knows that gambling is something you can beat.

I have saw some people who have admitted that they will end up their gambling and they now are not gambling while some people cannot think like those and cannot stop so they have to limit their gambling and have to spend a smaller amount of money in gambling.
it is my personal experience that for so many time i decided that give up gambling, but for every time i cannot succeeded, as I only quit gambling for some moths or even for a year, but after that I started gambling again, and therefore now I totally changed my strategy about gambling and try to play in a limit.
The sudden big loss will make people stop gambling immediately, and I think you had this type of experience that is why you stopped few months and started again and now had control of games. But if it happens, in the beginning, we can stop gambling. Once you addicted can't lev gambling, it is very tough to come back from this addiction.
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April 17, 2017, 05:11:07 AM
I bet some gamblers tried to quit gambling but they can't do and they just accepted the fact it's part of their life. Thinking in a positive way will overcome regarding this matter, even your into deep in gambling you can give up easily. Using any excuses will never help, everybody knows that gambling is something you can beat.

I have saw some people who have admitted that they will end up their gambling and they now are not gambling while some people cannot think like those and cannot stop so they have to limit their gambling and have to spend a smaller amount of money in gambling.
it is my personal experience that for so many time i decided that give up gambling, but for every time i cannot succeeded, as i only quit gambling for some moths or even for a year, but after that i started gambling again, and therefore now i totally changed my strategy about gambling and try to play in a limit.
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April 17, 2017, 12:56:55 AM
The only thing that I can advice you is to take a self control. You must cut all the strings between you and gambling or much better to diverse your time to other things. As you said you always start gambling with a small amount of your money but ends up losing it all. You must set goals or lose point so that you will not get rekt.

Yeah, right, because if we are going to try some other thing where we could earn money in an easy way but is much safer in gambling, then we could probably quit gambling step by step, and we will just woke up one day, we quitted gambling already. Because in my opinion, being addicted on gambling is not really worth it, it is not bad to gamble as long as you have control in yourself, because if you don't have any, then you are just going to lose more than you could never imagine.
Once you are addicted already, you cannot enjoy gambling anymore, the urge to gamble is always in your mind and your life is not well balance when you are in the situation. For gamblers, we have to be very careful also despite we are having fun since gambling is a risky game and we have to avoid ourselves to be addicted, think of the risk to manage it.
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April 16, 2017, 10:04:01 PM
The only thing that I can advice you is to take a self control. You must cut all the strings between you and gambling or much better to diverse your time to other things. As you said you always start gambling with a small amount of your money but ends up losing it all. You must set goals or lose point so that you will not get rekt.

Yeah, right, because if we are going to try some other thing where we could earn money in an easy way but is much safer in gambling, then we could probably quit gambling step by step, and we will just woke up one day, we quitted gambling already. Because in my opinion, being addicted on gambling is not really worth it, it is not bad to gamble as long as you have control in yourself, because if you don't have any, then you are just going to lose more than you could never imagine.
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April 16, 2017, 09:35:21 PM
The only thing that I can advice you is to take a self control. You must cut all the strings between you and gambling or much better to diverse your time to other things. As you said you always start gambling with a small amount of your money but ends up losing it all. You must set goals or lose point so that you will not get rekt.

Having brackets or limits on how much to lose or to spend in gambling is important,setting limits before playing is a must, because once we played we might not notice we were spending too much and we almost lose all,have set control and watch your limits while playing.

I agree, because you can control how the things works here in the gambling world, but it depends on the people, if you are not that addicted to it, then I am sure this way will work, after you lose the amount that you have set to spend on gambling on a day, then you will quit it in an instant and will try again another day, but if you are addicted, then it will be the other way around.

Though others might just make an excuses, or ways to continue gambling even though they are losing what they can't afford, they are always saying that you will win in the end if you are not going to quit gambling and keep on trying everyday, which I could day that it is a very wrong idea.
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April 16, 2017, 09:22:38 PM
The only thing that I can advice you is to take a self control. You must cut all the strings between you and gambling or much better to diverse your time to other things. As you said you always start gambling with a small amount of your money but ends up losing it all. You must set goals or lose point so that you will not get rekt.

Having brackets or limits on how much to lose or to spend in gambling is important,setting limits before playing is a must, because once we played we might not notice we were spending too much and we almost lose all,have set control and watch your limits while playing.
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April 16, 2017, 09:07:22 PM
The only thing that I can advice you is to take a self control. You must cut all the strings between you and gambling or much better to diverse your time to other things. As you said you always start gambling with a small amount of your money but ends up losing it all. You must set goals or lose point so that you will not get rekt.
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April 16, 2017, 08:50:43 PM
I bet some gamblers tried to quit gambling but they can't do and they just accepted the fact it's part of their life. Thinking in a positive way will overcome regarding this matter, even your into deep in gambling you can give up easily. Using any excuses will never help, everybody knows that gambling is something you can beat.

True, but mental illnesses should not be treated too differently to physical ones.  You could imagine someone with depression being told "it's all in your head"... well I guess when you drown it's "all in your lungs".  Gambling addiction is a serious problem which thousands of people suffer from every day.
the ratment is available for all of the illness so anyone can be treated for any addiction they have. If we will or someone else will try to teach the addict about the way gamble and tell them about other activities of the world then they will leave.
It won't be that easy when you are trying to quit something that is really a part of you already. It's one of those things that it is easy to say but really hard to do. People who own the casinos are really rich because of the income they get from people who are addicted. I understand that it's going to be really hard for them.
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April 16, 2017, 06:24:35 PM
I bet some gamblers tried to quit gambling but they can't do and they just accepted the fact it's part of their life. Thinking in a positive way will overcome regarding this matter, even your into deep in gambling you can give up easily. Using any excuses will never help, everybody knows that gambling is something you can beat.

True, but mental illnesses should not be treated too differently to physical ones.  You could imagine someone with depression being told "it's all in your head"... well I guess when you drown it's "all in your lungs".  Gambling addiction is a serious problem which thousands of people suffer from every day.
the ratment is available for all of the illness so anyone can be treated for any addiction they have. If we will or someone else will try to teach the addict about the way gamble and tell them about other activities of the world then they will leave.
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April 16, 2017, 06:11:47 PM
Giving up gambling was not an easy to give up once you become an addict gambler. Because of the addiction that has been planted into your behavior character you always look for the  satisfaction of your personalities when it comes to gambling.

If you are that person that has some other priorities and gambling isn't your top priority. I know you can give up it for real, what you just need to do is to take that a little by little because there's no instant getting out in gambling addiction. That can make it up by gradual giving up, just know your priorities and choose those important ones.
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April 16, 2017, 06:05:59 PM
Its hard to give up gambling when your already addicted,once you're busy to play gamble you never notice to control yourself. Its hard to give up if when it becomes your habit already,, you are seeking you win and you hoping that you will win, but you don't noticed that your money and property is slowly disappear and lose. The most thing you do is turn to something else the interest in gambling.
You are right, I have been an addicted gambler myself for a long time and I have really tried my best to overcome yet I am quite a little bit addicted yet, I mean I don't loose more than I can afford but yet I am loosing on constant basis, though that I can afford.

Actually when you have thoughts of quitting gambling you worry that you have lost a lot and once that is covered you will quit gambling, and guys believe me or not its hard to chase losses really.

People confuse gambling too much with a way to make money. It is not there to make money it is there to try your luck. So try your luck and then stop. Don't keep going. If you keep going you will lose and this is a fact. So if you don't win in the short term that gambling session stop. Try again later. Addicts too often stress over loses then gamble wildly losing even more in the chase to win back a loss.
yes in fact gambling  look like as one of the most easiest way of making money, but in fact it is not such an easy way of making money. in fact gambling make people addicted as it give them hope for every time that they will make more and more money for every next time but for most of the time they do not succeeded and so they become addicted.
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April 16, 2017, 05:16:03 PM
Giving up gambling was not an easy to give up once you become an addict gambler. Because of the addiction that has been planted into your behavior character you always look for the  satisfaction of your personalities when it comes to gambling.
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April 16, 2017, 04:49:03 PM
I bet some gamblers tried to quit gambling but they can't do and they just accepted the fact it's part of their life. Thinking in a positive way will overcome regarding this matter, even your into deep in gambling you can give up easily. Using any excuses will never help, everybody knows that gambling is something you can beat.

True, but mental illnesses should not be treated too differently to physical ones.  You could imagine someone with depression being told "it's all in your head"... well I guess when you drown it's "all in your lungs".  Gambling addiction is a serious problem which thousands of people suffer from every day.
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April 16, 2017, 04:37:30 PM
I bet some gamblers tried to quit gambling but they can't do and they just accepted the fact it's part of their life. Thinking in a positive way will overcome regarding this matter, even your into deep in gambling you can give up easily. Using any excuses will never help, everybody knows that gambling is something you can beat.

I have saw some people who have admitted that they will end up their gambling and they now are not gambling while some people cannot think like those and cannot stop so they have to limit their gambling and have to spend a smaller amount of money in gambling.
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April 16, 2017, 04:14:02 PM
I have friend, a poker player. Great tournament player, but his gambling spirit is strong. When tournaments are not available, he plays cash-game and lose big amount of money. Simply can not stop, he must play something. It is addiction and is very serious.
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April 16, 2017, 02:56:35 PM
Its hard to give up gambling when your already addicted,once you're busy to play gamble you never notice to control yourself. Its hard to give up if when it becomes your habit already,, you are seeking you win and you hoping that you will win, but you don't noticed that your money and property is slowly disappear and lose. The most thing you do is turn to something else the interest in gambling.
You are right, I have been an addicted gambler myself for a long time and I have really tried my best to overcome yet I am quite a little bit addicted yet, I mean I don't loose more than I can afford but yet I am loosing on constant basis, though that I can afford.

Actually when you have thoughts of quitting gambling you worry that you have lost a lot and once that is covered you will quit gambling, and guys believe me or not its hard to chase losses really.

People confuse gambling too much with a way to make money. It is not there to make money it is there to try your luck. So try your luck and then stop. Don't keep going. If you keep going you will lose and this is a fact. So if you don't win in the short term that gambling session stop. Try again later. Addicts too often stress over loses then gamble wildly losing even more in the chase to win back a loss.
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