i try that already :
addnode
Attempts add or remove from the addnode list or try a connection to once. (code -1)
do no what the pb :/
When I check for valid peers I get this:

[
{
"addr" : "37.120.160.213:40002",
"services" : "00000003",
"lastsend" : 1416306369,
"lastrecv" : 1416306370,
"bytessent" : 4159941,
"bytesrecv" : 9898081,
"blocksrequested" : 0,
"conntime" : 1416302909,
"version" : 70005,
"subver" : "/GamersCoin:0.8.9.2/",
"inbound" : false,
"startingheight" : 708237,
"banscore" : 0,
"syncnode" : true
},
{
"addr" : "188.226.169.29:40002",
"services" : "00000003",
"lastsend" : 1416306369,
"lastrecv" : 1416306369,
"bytessent" : 9024785,
"bytesrecv" : 4625001,
"blocksrequested" : 0,
"conntime" : 1416302910,
"version" : 70005,
"subver" : "/GamersCoin:0.8.9.2/",
"inbound" : false,
"startingheight" : 708237,
"banscore" : 0
},
{
"addr" : "46.38.232.74:40002",
"services" : "00000003",
"lastsend" : 1416306369,
"lastrecv" : 1416306369,
"bytessent" : 3097056,
"bytesrecv" : 3136897,
"blocksrequested" : 0,
"conntime" : 1416302938,
"version" : 70005,
"subver" : "/GamersCoin:0.8.9.2/",
"inbound" : false,
"startingheight" : 708237,
"banscore" : 0
},
{
"addr" : "104.236.49.39:40002",
"services" : "00000003",
"lastsend" : 1416306369,
"lastrecv" : 1416306369,
"bytessent" : 3715201,
"bytesrecv" : 2896330,
"blocksrequested" : 0,
"conntime" : 1416303111,
"version" : 70005,
"subver" : "/GamersCoin:0.8.9.2/",
"inbound" : false,
"startingheight" : 708241,
"banscore" : 0
}
]
This means you should type:
addnode 37.120.160.213:40002 add
addnode 188.226.169.29:40002 add
addnode 46.38.232.74:40002 add
addnode 104.236.49.39:40002 add
If this fails, I recommend you to look at the sky and cry out in anger.