As for Lightning: yes, that's the only reason I'd use a hot wallet for daily transactions. If I want it to be the absolute fastest (in my humble opinion required for in-store purchases) and cheapest to send with the least amount of hassle, nothing beats it. It's not very secure if the device is compromised though (talking about security = software attacks / viruses).
So for any significant amount I'd just grab a hardware wallet that works with my phone.
This is pretty much the set up I use. A hot wallet on my phone for daily spending. Yeah, it's not super secure, but I don't download any junk on to my phone and I only keep an amount I can afford to lose on there, and I've had no problems yet. If I wanted to make a bigger purchase in person, then I'll take along a hardware wallet, perhaps even with the funds secured by an additional passphrase and a decoy amount of coins in the base wallet.
I didn't know about this, but can't you just use simple usb adapter and connected hardware wallet with your phone.
Not with iOS, since Apple locks down what hardware can utilize their ports. Neither Trezor device nor the Ledger Nano S can be used with an iPhone, for example, although all can be used with Android. The Nano X can only be used with iPhones because of its Bluetooth capabilities.
I consider PC even less secure than the mobile phone when it comes to keeping private keys securely.
I would not agree with that statement in general, computers can have much better encryption protection and they don't have backdoors like smartphones.
Depends on the context, I suppose. The average non-technical user with an outdated Windows PC but an up to date Android or iPhone is far more likely to end up with malware on their PC than on their phone. However, when considering airgapped wallets in the hands of someone who knows what they are doing, then computers are far more secure than phones.