Topic: Have You At Any Point In Time Blame Who Taught Or Led You To Gambling? - page 3. (Read 1056 times)

I cannot blame anyone for showing me the way to Know how to gamble, rather i will be thankful to such a person because he wanted me to be happy in having fun through gambling and there's no bad or evil intention in that, atferall he never forced me against my wish, but after then, how have i been able to gamble responsibly, how was i able to make my decision on the kind of gambler i want to be, i can't blame someone else because of my personal attitude towards how i accept gambling.

Someone who gambles because of an invitation from their friend is their own fault because they are already interested, if for the initial defeat I think it is only their introduction to gambling. And if they continue to gamble and experience defeat and maybe I don't think it's reasonable if they blame their friends because it's of their own accord, even if they are not interested they can reject it at the beginning of the invitation of their friend who invites them to do gambling, if only for curiosity they can do it alone, losing or winning is not a problem as long as they don't gamble continuously, so if they become addicted in my opinion it is because of their own fault. I think if they blame others it is not natural.

Without a doubt the environment can shape the beliefs and actions of a person, so in the places where gambling is forbidden by the culture, religion or both, a person will grow up thinking it is wrong and doing what they can to avoid it, but at the places in which the opposite happens and gambling is encouraged as a way to increase the economy activity there, then a person will grow up thinking gambling is a good thing and that they should be free to enjoy it whenever they want.

I very much agree with what you say, for me to be in the position of the person who told me or took me to a casino for the first time, I don't blame anything, I don't know if you have ever Been in your life other than in the field of gaming. They have shown you a dangerous activity, but you have had the power to know how to control the activity or simply to say that no, since I was very little I always went out and played soccer, in fact there is no better way than playing Soccer in the street , because You learn not to be afraid of anyone, not even adults, nor anyone in the way you play, in my case I always went out to play, but one day a couple of young people played with us, and they had the peculiarity of being very well dressed, with a lot of money, and they had the skill to ask if we wanted to have money like that at our age, obviously everyone said yes, but as they did, the business was simple, just carrying drugs from one place to Another , I remember very well the astonished faces of all of us, we were 8-9 years old, the kids who arrived were About 15 years old , but all of us told him no , thank you very much but no , so everything in this life is about Taking Decisions , and Knowing how to say no.

It may be that this decision leads us to success or failure, but even if they show us what is available, we must know how to choose. In the event that they take a person to a casino and that person becomes addicted, it is not the fault of the person who took it led him , it is the fault of the most person, because that person did not force him to play, he only led him and showed him another world, where you see a lot of money and it is possible to win, there is nothing wrong there, we must always have an attitude When faced with certain events that arise in life and if we make decisions , we have to face that decision and not blame others if things went badly for us , because it is our Own fault , so that is Applicable to the topic, to the casino and to life.

The environment. The place I grew up can be called a heaven for gambler. It is the most gambling friendly environment there is. You wouldn't find a single person who doesn't gamble or actively connected with gambling activity. Although we have law and regulation regarding gambling and the government are also strict of it, still it is  not implemented properly. People are gambling in the open and there is nobody to stop them. From very young people to old people. If anybody to be blamed, I would blame my environment.

It seems a little crazy to be mad at the person who put you on to gambling. That’s a dangerous attitude to have where you blame others for your personal decisions. I think people would be much better off learning to accept responsibility for their own actions and taking the consequences without trying to find someone else to blame.

Frustration of losing your bet can actually make someone to over react on certain things that they would normally not behave in such manner. This is the case with most gamblers that didn't gamble what is in their mind but where influenced by someone else that they listened to. And some gamblers want everyday to turn out good but at a bad betting day, they have irrational behaviour that you won't imagine. So we don't have to blame people when our actions doesn't turn the way we want them.

I guess almost everyone, at some point, almost wants to feel this way, where you get introduced to something even if it's not gambling, and when ever you lose so much money in that stuff, you start feeling other wise and want to tear the next person apart.

It happens not just in gambling, and in most cases where the opposite happens, only a few people really accord that respect to the person who brought them in as the guy behind the success; instead, it's always a self-appraisal.
 
Me personally, I have not felt this way before. Maybe I have not really lost an amount that is large enough to trigger my anger up to this length; that could be the case, and if I'm any way I have to do that later, I might put my blame on the forum, as I have been trying out a few casinos I found on the forum lately, just to have a first-person experience with them in order to know what type they are.

The problem with other newbie gambler is they pointing out the mistake they made to other people so that they can justify what they do and have a person to blame on what they are now experiencing. But if we look at the situation on clear mind we can't really blame the person who teach them regarding on the mistake they made since they have mind to think what's best for them but they choose the worst.

Funny to hear that they create drama then if that happens much better if we stay away of that type of person since they only there for good things and blame people once they suffered for the mistake they made. That's why sometimes we should know the more the attitude of the person we are dealing or teaching on so we can avoid this mistake and give us bad remarks to other since we can't control the mind of other people to believe on what they say about us for teaching them to gamble.

Not at any time  should anyone be blamed for anyone's loss in gambling because anyone going into gambling should  be aware of the risk as there are only two options in gambling which is either you win or loss and I don't think I've heard of a time when a gambler has been made to gamble under duress which simply  means that anyone going into gambling should be aware of the risk involved before getting involved.
One funny thing about all this thing is that, no one gets to hear all this dramas when the winnings are coming but the moment the losses starts coming,  we begin looking who to point fingers at which isn't right

I see some people who always blame others loosely for whatever things they didn't make or when they lose their money in cock fighting and they are pointing their fingers at others while freeing themselves from any blame. This kind of person will never grow and will always left by his friends because of his attitude and bad vibes. It's really hard to be with this kind of people because we all know that it's not always a sunny day in our life and there will always come a gloomy moment when we want to have some companies who can advise us for good.

You remembered  to blamed your freind who introduced you to gambling when you started to lose in gambling. Did you also remember him when you won at some point? It should not be one sided, whenever you win you should learn to appreciate him as well. Conviction is the most important thing here. You may be introduced to a certain things but your success and failure depends on you. Since your the one who manage your gambling portfolio. Whatever you do, all blame should go directly to you.

If you look at it in another perceptive, it might be you who persuaded him to teach you how to gamble. Maybe youve seen that he has won multiple times and that's when you were convince you could start your own gambling journey.

It's normal for a teenager blaming someone for their losses especially if that friend is the one who introduced the game. Their minds are not mature enough to understand that gambling is a way to lose, once you decide to gamble, you are allowing yourself to lose your money. But at this current, mature age, its very inappropriate if you still blame other people for your losses. You should not be gambling in the first place if you resort acting that way.

Good thing that never happened to me even the first time I've played gambling. I know that gambling never guarantees profits, so let's play gambling games with caution.

I only but lead myself into gambling, so if there is any one to blame when there is a huge loss, it's no one but myself. But then though, even if someone had lead me into gambling, I still would have blamed myself for every loss that I believe is or was not supposed to happen, and this is because, I myself is supposed to be the captain of my own ship, I am supposed to control myself, atleast, one who introduced me into gambling did not force me into it, I probably showed interest in it, that is why he or she decide to show me the way into gambling, so it makes absolutely no sense to turn around and blame him or her for leading me into gambling when clearly, he or she wasn't the one forcing me to play the games I did play.

Anyone gambling with the right mindset will never blame the person who lead them into gambling, if anyone actually did.

Most people, when they make a mistake, instead of realizing that the fault lies solely with them and taking some steps to avoid similar experiences in the future, look for someone to blame. In my opinion, this approach does not allow you to analyze what the problem is and eliminate it. It is up to each of us to decide how to act, but I always try to recognize my mistakes and not look for someone to blame. This is the only way to really become a better person.

In my opinion, it is very unreasonable to blame people who have introduced gambling to us, because the person who decided to gamble is ourselves, so it is unreasonable if we blame other people for the decision we have chosen, everyone must responsible for the choices they have made so it would be better for us not to blame the person who introduced us to gambling and if we choose to gamble it would be better for us to be able to control ourselves in the games we play, don't let us not be able to control ourselves of course this will very detrimental to ourselves.

sometimes a gambler who loses his mind will just blame anyone after losing a lot of money.
I mean a gambler who has lost control and experiences very high emotions after losing a large amount of money he will not be able to control his emotions well and blame anyone close to him, even his own family will become victims of these emotions so it is natural for a gambler to do this blaming someone who introduced him to gambling and lost a lot of money.

It is not recommended to do things like this because gambling is a choice that we have chosen beforehand so we should be able to accept any risks without having to blame other people.

If we have lost in gambling, we should not be blaming anyone who told us the path to gambling. I am sure no one can force anyone, Maybe the person gambling have a good experience but the one who got into gambling by his reference, may not experience the same wins and results.

Also, everyone gambles after knowing what he is doing with his money, so it's childish behaviour if any starts blaming others if he lost his money in gambling.

By the way, if he started to win and earn a lot of money from gambling, would be thankful or appraise him to the person who bought him to gamble, i guess "No", so why blame on losses only?

Everyone need to take responsibility for their mistakes and failures and stop playing the blame game. As far as you were not made to gamble under duress, then no one should be blamed when things do not go as expected.  If the outcome of these games were good,  no one would have been blamed. 

Gambling is one industry that offers free entry and exit. When the game is no longer favourable,  you can always exit. The decision to stay back is made solely by gambler. If he cannot gamble in moderation, it is solely his duty to seek for help rather than point accusing fingers.

What do they blame them for? They only teach or inform about gambling. And we ourselves are the ones who actually have the decision to enter the world of gambling or not. because after all, before gambling, of course we already understand our own characteristics. So, yes, we ourselves have to be responsible for the decisions we make. Unless they promise various things if you follow them, this might be different, especially if they use tricks to get us to gamble. In this case, we ourselves also have to be alert and smart about all kinds of unreasonable invitations.