Topic: Have You At Any Point In Time Blame Who Taught Or Led You To Gambling? - page 8. (Read 1056 times)

It's because that we know that we should be accountable for our actions. If the time comes that you're thinking of the person led you to gamble should be blamed. We've got freedom and free will to follow what's introduced to us.

And like what everyone is aware of gambling, we're all in it to have some risk and no matter what the result is. It is our fault.

Whether it's a good or bad result, we're the ones to spin the roulette and roll the dice and bet with the games that we've been gambling. The person who introduced us have nothing to do with it.

 If the gambler really enjoy the gambling,then the answer will be No.I had just check the poll vote just now,nearly 88.5 percentage of the people vote for No.So being a gambler we are really enjoy the game here,sometimes gambling give us the profit.Sometimes we are forced to loss huge money,but the fact is we enjoy the gambling at the end of the day.If the gambler considered the gambling as money making tool,they will come in the 7.7% of the poll vote.We should consider the gambling as the entertainment purpose,the difference beween the gambling and other game was gambling had involve of the real money.So if the loss happened the gambler start to blame the gambling site and the person who teach him gambling.

Sometimes when the results aren't in my favor. And that's the same for everyone I guess that when we gamble and we win, there's no blaming to be remembered of who's taught us to gamble. But when we're losing and we're having bad beats then that's the time we're thinking that whoever taught us to gamble specific games is the one that comes to our mind and we'll always have the words like, "if I have just not learned this...." then we'll be on the right place and we won't be dealing with losses.

Anyway, that's how it feels for the most of us, deep inside we're feeling the regret and frustration but we're just transforming it into words like that for us to release the frustration or even anger that we're having. I guess on this one, this is a normal thing and for us that struggles to have that moment that we're fighting ourselves to it and looking to blame not just ourselves, we'll definitely move on eventually.

My answer for the poll was sometimes and let me explain why I choose that. I was not introduced to gambling or referred to it by someone. But some people around me were gambling and I got inspired by them and started the gambling journey. They did not teach me how to gamble but their actions around me led me towards gambling. Without any proper knowledge and experience, it was hard for me and no one told me that gambling is only for entertainment. I was running after money because I thought it was a quick money making scheme.
And after some time, I won and lost many bets. And at a point I was addicted to it. I became so depressed after losing everything in a gamble. After that I made the decision to quit the gambling. So whenever I look back I think to myself that if I haven't met those people, I wouldn't be gambling in the first place. I regret the decision for being around them. Now I have realized that it was my own decision and I made the choice. I used to blame people but now as I have recovered from that situation, I try not to blame anyone.

Many of us that are gambling today were led by friends or family members which is why we still see ourselves gambling today. I started to gamble after I have seen friends making consistent profits from it and it intrigue me wherever they show me their results. Gambling can be profitable to us even though we don't know how to bet and go about it. What is important is the people and friends we have around us that can always direct us on how to bet and use strategies to bet on some certain games. Many people that are still gambling today with big winnings do not even have broad knowledge about what they're betting on.

Though for me no one introduced me into gambling just that I saw a friend that plays gamble and wins sometimes then he will take me out where we will chill and enjoy ourselves so i started developing interest and I was now following him to gambling hall then I normally make predictions myself and I win sometimes and lose most times but I just took it as fun since a lot of people were gambling together with me so I just normally have fun doing it and I always scrap out an amount that i will gamble with so as soon as I exhausted the amount I budget to gamble with I will just sit and watch others playing gamble.

It was that same Friend of mine that started regretting when he got addicted to gambling to the extent that he mostly sells his properties just to raise money to gamble so a day we went to gambling hall and he lost his salary at a spot while gambling so he started accusing the person that introduced him into gambling that had it been the person didn't lure him into gambling that he wouldn't have gotten himself involved in it. But for me everything that one does in life is just by choice irrespective of the person that persuaded you into it so it's left for you do accept or decline to it.

Once we enter into gambling, we should be aware already that we are going to lose most of the time, and never expect to stay in profits consistently. With that realization, blaming another gambler is not my thing. I should be responsible of all my actions and never put any blame to any person who lead me into gambling. That is why we should learn to set limits in gambling and practice discipline when gambling, if it's hard for you to do that, then you should not be gambling in the first place.

Gambling is always a choice, and if you see yourself often losing, that's not because your friend has pushed you into that, but because you allow yourself to fall in the trap of gambling.

I didn’t start gambling early, I started gambling a few years ago. I was in my higher education before I started gambling, but the funniest part is that nobody introduced me to gambling, I learned gambling myself. I do see advertisements for some online gambling websites in my country, so I decided to register and I started gambling. Since I wasn’t expecting money from gambling, I deposited just little amounts of money, and I didn’t even gamble with the money all at once, I was gambling gradually with it, but I lost most of my gambling. I knew I could never make money from gambling.
 
But right now I do gamble with the little amount that’s going to affect me if I lose, so if I have anyone to blame, then I will have to blame myself for learning how to gamble, but I have never regretted why I learned how to gamble. Seriously, gambling is great entertainment for me, it has kept me busy whenever I am bored.
 
If you are being introduced to gambling, since the person didn’t force you to gamble always, then you don’t have to blame the person, and even if you are being forced to gamble, you should be able to make decisions yourself, you should know when to stop gambling. I'm sure if you are always winning in gambling, then you won’t blame anyone for that, but maybe because you are losing, that’s why you want to put the blame on someone else.

I don’t think your situation is any different from a lot of people. People would always seek to blame someone else for their misfortunes despite knowingly partaking in such activities that brought them such misfortunes.
When I got motivated enough by a mate then to stake my very first bet, I was quite ignorant but I knew very well the game could go either way and I wasn’t upset nor did I blame anyone else when I eventually lost out on that bet.
I must admit, I felt a little bit bad I let myself be persuaded in parting with my money to lay a bet that ultimately resulted in a loss. But I definitely didn’t blame anyone else.

When it comes to gambling involvement then there's no one had led me to learn up on how to play yet i have personally or learn up things in my own specially on online casinos on which it isnt really that hard to understand on how to play such games.On the time that i do touched up sports betting then this is where it would really be needing up some analysis on which it would really be that pretty normal.
Blaming others just because you are losing too much in gambling? It doesnt really have any sense. Why? you are the ones who have decided to play even more and not into that someone who had introduced in the first place.
Yes, he might be one of the reasons on why you do able to learn up gambling but it would really be always depending on you on how you would interact with it.

You arent forced on playing so and it is really that according into your own will if we do speak about blaming out someone then it is really just that an excuse for yourself on
pointing out your fingers just because you had made out the bad decision on which i do see for it not to be right at all. You are the ones responsible on the things
that you are really that been experience.Everything is accordance into the actions you had made.

In actuality, losing a bet means losing everything altogether, so even if the bettor places the blame on the person who first exposed them to betting, nothing will change. The bettor even consented to wager on a mutual basis, therefore they have no right to hold grudges against anyone. That is wise, friend. A lot depends on how you handle your losses. If you don't exercise enough self control when gambling, there will be issues because it requires careful thought. It's true that nobody is pressuring you to gamble; you are free to live your life as you desire.


Very funny question but true if the person that introduced the bettor to gambling i disagree if he will quite gambling, especially when the bettor has tasted money, he will want to win more money.
Not that anything but that is just people's nature people love money and want to get money 

Voting for many votes NO.

This means that many people who gamble are not based on others or their invitation is purely because of their own will so they do it, as for other people inviting while first you don't know what should be able to refuse before you start addicted, but I know it's hard to do that but I myself have no one else to teach so I never blame anyone.

Never. I am filly aware that I placed my bets by my own will and initiative. Things are still in our hands; whether there is someone or no one who taught you about gambling, we have our own decision whether to be dragged into it or not even if they pushed you to do so, it still depends on you if you would  continue. Once you are making bets alone then that's you who are playing; without any influence or hearsays. Being involved in this activity or industry in general is not a bad thing however if you became greedy because of how you view gambling, that is solely under your will and desire. Same thing with vices wherein you may imitate it from other but the longevity of its stay in your life, is something which should be concerned by you.

The person who lead you gambling.

Should blame and punish themself. I a gambler, I never ask or trying to lead everyone or my friend doing gambling because I know is bad and can effect to them. Even my self hiding my gambling activity from everyone.

I still gambling at these time sometime, for the last 3-4 years don't have any debt at all.

This thing happens not just in gambling but also investment introduced by friends and if it turns up to something without gain the person who introduced it will be hold responsible for the continuous loss. That is why it is important people should not be desperate just because they want to make money from gambling and go into it. It something that knowledge needs to be gained to minimise losses that will occur.  Whenever gambling loses is much it is just better to have a break or quit because playing continously will cause regrets and pains. People needs to always have the mindset of playing with the amount they can afford to lose.

I may blame one if they are the ones betting my money without my knowledge but the fact that I'm playing my own money it is my loss. No, I wouldn't be blaming someone who taught me how to play. At the time when I was taught to play and gamble, I enjoyed it.

Whether I become a gambler for life or not, I will still be grateful to someone who taught me. Although that guy treated me like a weener, I voluntarily became his sidekick working in his shop.

I wouldn't go that far and blame them only because they're the ones who helped me start gambling. If I have to blame someone, it's only myself because i'm the one making the decisions, and i'd rather spend this time making solutions for my gambling problem than feel annoyed about someone from the past who introduced gambling, knowing it won't change anything. I remember experiencing this kind of scenario with other topics and it only helped me learn how to move on because it could become a habit if you can't adapt and continue to blame others for what they did.

No. I don't think I have ever been in a situation where I have willingly chosen to blame any loss to someone or something else but my back luck. Though, I can understand someone who is losing an considerable amount of money may need a way to unlash their rage and disappointment for their own bad luck by screaming and blaming whoever introduced them to gambling in the first time.
Because it can be a very strong feeling to realize how much one has lost and the almost bull chances of getting some of it back, by gambling more.

It is better to avoid to find yourselves in that circumstances and try to find other ways to vent our feelings when we have a bad luck streak/session some day.

At young age I knew about sports gambling from a friend who made some funds through gambling. He talked to me about gambling, as a way I could be making some fund, instead of asking for fund all the time from my parents. Then, I had no funds or device to gamble on the site, he showed me. Through his guidance I was able to learn how to play big odds on teams that seem vulnerable to their opponent. To maximize my win, if they eventually won. When I began gambling, that very site wasn't functional anymore. But, I don't remember blaming anybody about my gambling habit. I took it upon myself, as my responsibility, despite being introduced to gambling by somebody else. The last time I checked he's no longer a gambler. Already moved on with his career. Hence, he wasn't addicted, just did it as a way to make money. Neither I'm I addicted to gambling. The fun of calculating the right slot on a roulette game still makes me enjoy playing the game. Although, with little funds that'll amount to huge money if summed up today. Yet, the fun of it, doesn't ring any alarm of regret or stretching out blame on my friend. If I had not controlled the way I gambled, or lost huge amount of money in a single day. Definitely, I'll blame the friend that introduced me into such a lifestyle. It's actually the reason, me as a person, doesn't direct anybody into gambling as a method of earning money. I'm surprised that a good number of friends who made money via gambling, stopped along the line. With no going back, at the top of their of mind. I prefer letting people choose what, how, and when they want to spend their money. Especially regarding gambling.

Well, we can't deny the fact that when we're young we do like adventures and those thrilling moments and I think gambling with yourself as well as with yourself is similar to that. I'm not that type of individual that will try to blame into something that I have control over, I can ignore him/her to gamble so it's solely on my decision that I'll get into something. Yeah, we can't avoid temptations most of the times even in gambling but blaming is on another level I guess on point of view.