Topic: Have you ever had a sugar daddy or sugar baby? (Read 3266 times)

I use to have a couple. I was in trouble, and needed fatherly advice, and someone to help me pay for my apartment. I'm not smart with my money, and now I'm broke again....should definitely get another one.  


EDIT:
I just want to edit this, and make something clear: There's a fine line between a prostitute, and a sugar baby.

DEFINITION OF A PROSTITUTE(Provided by i.word.com)

pros·ti·tu·tion
\ˌpräs-tə-ˈtü-shən, -ˈtyü-\
noun
: the work of a prostitute : the act of having sex in exchange for money
: the use of a skill or ability in a way that is not appropriate or respectable

DEFINITION OF A SUGAR DADDY (provided by thefreedictionary.com)

sugar daddy
n. Slang
1. A wealthy, usually older man who gives money or gifts to a younger person in return for sexual favors or companionship.
2. A wealthy male benefactor to a charity or other cause.

Sugar babies do not HAVE to engage in sexual acts if they do not want to.



When I was a sugar baby, the two older men that became my sugar daddies actually approached me first. They were ever so polite, and wonderful father figures. Both already had kids, but one was recently widowed, while the other one still had the wife in the picture. As I spoke to both of them in one on one sessions, I began to trust them so much, which ended up resulting to me telling them my struggles and my family situation. I had told them all the pain I had been dealing with from my family and that I moved out when I wasn't completely ready. Moved by my story, they both gave me over $1,000 dollars to keep living on my own. I had no sexual relations with them. They never asked me for anything. The most sensual contact we ever had were hugs, cuddling, and talking about our personal problems to each other. Nothing else.

No.
It's a sin to have something like that.

Interesting story, Thanks! I wish u all good.

I use to have a couple. I was in trouble, and needed fatherly advice, and someone to help me pay for my apartment. I'm not smart with my money, and now I'm broke again....should definitely get another one.  


EDIT:
I just want to edit this, and make something clear: There's a fine line between a prostitute, and a sugar baby.

DEFINITION OF A PROSTITUTE(Provided by i.word.com)

pros·ti·tu·tion
\ˌpräs-tə-ˈtü-shən, -ˈtyü-\
noun
: the work of a prostitute : the act of having sex in exchange for money
: the use of a skill or ability in a way that is not appropriate or respectable

DEFINITION OF A SUGAR DADDY (provided by thefreedictionary.com)

sugar daddy
n. Slang
1. A wealthy, usually older man who gives money or gifts to a younger person in return for sexual favors or companionship.
2. A wealthy male benefactor to a charity or other cause.

Sugar babies do not HAVE to engage in sexual acts if they do not want to.



When I was a sugar baby, the two older men that became my sugar daddies actually approached me first. They were ever so polite, and wonderful father figures. Both already had kids, but one was recently widowed, while the other one still had the wife in the picture. As I spoke to both of them in one on one sessions, I began to trust them so much, which ended up resulting to me telling them my struggles and my family situation. I had told them all the pain I had been dealing with from my family and that I moved out when I wasn't completely ready. Moved by my story, they both gave me over $1,000 dollars to keep living on my own. I had no sexual relations with them. They never asked me for anything. The most sensual contact we ever had were hugs, cuddling, and talking about our personal problems to each other. Nothing else.

No. Actually I don't want to experience it.

Let me explain some more. These men that paid for my rent and school books were just men that cared about me. Obviously they weren't my parents, but they were parent figures. My actual parents didn't do anything for me at the time, because I moved out without telling them. I moved out just nights after a very brutal altercation that involved the entire family aiming against me, simply because I was very conservative and personal that resulted in them giving me a black eye, and a twisted arm....

It's not like I hid anything serious. I was just going out to party and well, be a teen.

Clearly at the time, I couldn't look up to my actual parents, or ask for money from them....those were dark days....

I'm sorry but...I cannot understand anything you're saying.

Well you didn't take any money from him, or he didn't gave you any presents right? You were just friends and his dad was a bad man who thought that you hang out with his son for his money. We are talking about receiving presents without giving anything your case is just having a friend that had a little more money than you had and had a bad father who didn't liked you.

Wait a minute if you have parents and they pay for many of your stuff because you don't have a job that means that you have a sugar daddy or sugar baby. WTF!? If that is the case why don't you use just the word parents? Surely they will pay for pretty much everything when you don't have an income, they love you but they aren't your sugar daddy or sugar baby for sure

They are basically parents, that give you money AND gifts as you please, or what's in their budget. It's like charity. They give, because they love. It's not like they'll give to anyone though. They usually need to like you personally first, before they start helping you financially. It's like a friend helping you out to make ends meet.

They are basically parents, that give you money AND gifts as you please, or what's in their budget. It's like charity. They give, because they love. It's not like they'll give to anyone though. They usually need to like you personally first, before they start helping you financially. It's like a friend helping you out to make ends meet.

No matter where you start, the key is to start building capital NOW, even if you have nothing. That means putting part of any income away to start making it work for you. With under $1000, one could buy a couple of small, revenue-generating websites with minimal maintenance. After 6-12 months, reinvest the initial investment. Keep accumulating.

Look for high-demand items that can be flipped. Once you've accumulated the capital, you can start flipping cars, for instance. Work at it for 5 years, you can likely start flipping condos.

Or look for high-demand services that are unlikely to go under. Without any serious economic collapse, for instance, cleaning services are in perpetual demand where I live (USA). With minimal capital input -- a used van, payroll for 3-5 employees, and cleaning supplies -- you have a business with very minimal overhead.

Just kicking around ideas....

Most sugar babies come from terrible family backgrounds. They don't have the stability or guidance to find consistent pleasing revenue. When I get a sugar daddy again, I would want someone that had connections to help me launch my therapy and fashion designing career.