Topic: Help someone in the year 2024 (Read 423 times)

I don't see the reason why someone will get the opportunity to help and they will not help; it is never a good idea; it is a very bad idea, and I see it as wickedness because if people have not helped them too, they should not have gotten where they may be. No matter how smart someone may be, someone may have contributed to their life too,so why do they get the opportunity and refuse to render the help? Let us know that helping others really plays a very important role in the development of a country, society, and even family. If they don't help others, it will be hard to get a better environment in this life. But one reason why some people are not encouraged to help more is because people who they want to help are not ready to help themselves.

Wetin you dey try to talk here bro? This thing is not peculiar to only us in Nigeria. E dey everywhere and in fact na wetin oyibo use to overtake us be that and dem still dey do am up to now. Na oyibo dey do am pass sef because dem no wan teach us how to make good use of our resources. Our refineries wey no dey work, you think say na normal things? Dem no want us to be independent completely.

I'm not against helping someone but person go dey careful on who to help because helping someone this days come with a lot of consequences if care is not taken. Especially for this our country wey everyone is so desperate to make it even at the detriment of others including person wey show them way. We don hear and see cases of such where person dey set up him helper just to take over his position. Na why many people no like to dey share update again because people fit put sand for your garri. As we know, privacy is power and they can not destroy what they don't know.

And again make we also know that nobody owe us anything. Na this entitled mentality dey stop some people from hustling on their own and create unnecessary enmity with people who no feel like helping them. If people help you out, accept it and if they no help you, life goes on.


This one no follow because person wey need help how you dey expect make he help someone when they need help too? This natural law no dey always play out as expected and if you even observe very well, na good people dey suffer pass until God comes through for them sometimes. Offering help is a thing of choice and you don't need to offer one before you get in return. Although, helping someone when you get means is a good thing but it's not a guarantee that you will also get help when you need it.

This is very common among Nigerians. They hardly share ideas or opportunities that make them rich with people. Even in business, they will never want to show you the way out. They will rather constantly give you money than showing you the way to the opportunity. This is another year, like OP has said let's try to bring someone up by showing them the way not by constantly giving them money.

There are some people, no matter how you try to help them, they will never appreciate and you need to allow them to go through some things that will make them to know that is not easy to help. But the best help someone can give to you is to teach you how to fish not how to eat fish which are part of some of the things I enjoy so much in this community and, if you are ready to learn from those that are above you, I think you will grow.

Any help that will cause you tear, avoid such a help because it will lead you into frustration and the person you sacrifice your tears may not value your sacrifice than to join other people to bring your business down in the society.

Apart from say showing off fit make the person wey you help feel bad, e fit still put you for place wey you go dey in danger. I no see any benefits of showing off say you help person, the only thing wey the person fit get na pride, and people wey get pride many of them dey fall like ogbonor. So pride sef no even good for us. Even the bible sef talk am say if we dey do our alms for our right hand say make our left hand nor know. Meaning if we dey do good to Mr A make Mr B no know.some person sef na because of their character naim make people no dey help Dem, after you tell Dem to keep am on a low, e go just be like say dem they use tv broadcast take they advertise the good wey you do, and that thing no too good.

In actuality, you can't help or even vouch for everyone all you can do is your best, and I'm convinced that any sensible person will accept any favor without taking offense after all, many individuals enjoy taking advantage of others. Rich people will always lend a helping hand to those in their immediate family, and most of them won't want to make the announcement because doing so will draw attention from other people. They Always give an explanation for their actions. And most times people they love to render help to the most in their relatives and it might just be that they want to reduce the poverty in their family. I don't see the relevance of helping someone and then showing it off. Does not make any sense to me because it might even make the person feel bad.

Such is life my brother. Make we no allow love wet we show somebody and the person was ungrateful, then e go come make us make decisions no to show help again to anybody. If you reason say person no appreciate wetin you do and you don decide not to help, make you know say you too you no deserve help from people too, because as we dey for this life, everyone needs help. Make we just continue to do the one wey we go fit do. Though we need to dey careful with the people we dey help, but e no mean say make we no dey help again.

No be small thing my guy, no he everybody go fit handled some kind of things way others dey do to get money.
Person fit dey sell pure water in bags as supplies but if the person go tell iem friend about the business and how iem dey get iem profits, the friend fit look am as let down (like how iem go go dey supply pure water to people). But on a norms to be useful in life is a good thing and mostly when we share ideas with people that are mean to get money (I mean people way really dey mean to make legit money (hustling spirit).
No be to tell person about good ideas or good way to make money, na if the person go really do am, but if you done talk am be say you done talk am, na for am to decide.

Op, you don tlk well, e dy good to be a source of help to people wey need am, but you also know say na human we be, e dy very discouraging to help person again wen one ingrate don show you shege, but e go take only someone with a heart of gold to help again.

So most of this people wey dy wicked or wey no dy gree help person I no dy too blame dem, because na one ingrate make him or her dy act dat way

I think everyone has a way of handling or dealing with things,  that is to say that it's not everyone you think is bragging is really doing that because most of them are not...,  that's just their life and some people brag not because they want to...  But because they have really seen things that left them with no choice  and some people it's their thing right from birth.
However, some people don't share ideas because they don't want the people  they are sharing it to be more than or greater than them tomorrow and some doesn't because the people they are sharing it to can't utilize what is been shared thereby making the idea shared look like nothing and it won't be nice after sharing or giving someone something that will be useful and at the end it turned to be nothing the person who shares the idea won't be happy.
My advice is make yourself relevant and available because someone who will help you will definitely help you no matter what, it will only take time but trust me if you are capable of handling any relevant idea or opportunity you are good to...

I'm telling you my dear, it is not as if people  are not willing to help. The truth is that we are in a difficult time that people are striving for themselves to provide for their family.  The economy is just too hard which is affecting every class of citizens in the country.  Make people understand say things hard just incase they feel or think they are not receiving help from people,  this shouldn't let their mind to be bothered, everybody dey try to meet up with one or two.

Very difficult to carry just everyone along, even when lending someone a helping hand they may not want to take it seriously or some may be too lazy to perform.

It's good to help those who are also ready to help themselves. Some even after helping them into the light they become the same person who will pull your legs out because you thought
them your own way and they now have few details about you.
We can also observe it in the music industry, after getting into the light some loose respects for their bosses and this will reduce the kindness of that person to help another

No go help who you no supposed help oh, people dey wey you wey help them rise na that same people go be the tools wey go want bring you down tomorrow. Na make when it come for helping people you just gat know say no be everybody you go gat give help.

And one thing be say if you don't decide say you no want help person make you no go the still talk big big talk for the person front, no go the give am lamba and fake promises wey go the raise him hopes.

My two cents be say e good Wella to help people from grass to grace because the greatest development in life no be structural development but nah human capital development be the best investment for the future because we no know how tomorrow fit become for us and our children.

My brother na for the head of the nail naim you knack so. E dey very good to help people even if you nor dey expect anything from that person sef for the future, but the truth na be say we nor know where help dey come from. Tomorrow that person wey you help fit recommend you to person wey fit change your life for good. So e dey very good to help, but make we still know the kind of person wey we dey help, because this life na soso evil and ungrateful people we dey see around. Even for the bible after lord Jesus healed the 10  persons with leprosy, only one naim come back come say thank you. That kind person I guarantee you say if e ask for another thing e nor go hard to give that kind person.

Na true be that, doing good na the best thing in life, we should all know say is only God that can repay any good deeds not human being, so make we no dey expect any good thing we do in return from the person we help, and we should all know that any good things we are doing should be for the sake of God because HE is the only one that can pay you back with happiness, expecting return from anyone you help will all landed you in a disappointment, there is a saying that giver never lack but you have to believe in this faith before it can work for you, but remember for the sake of God, then your mind will be free and will be at rest.

Expect the subject matter is illegal or the source is not clean. Personally, I don't think people hide stuff again because most things now require you growing a network of people whether people with close interest or people who can help you do those things when you're not around. Infact personally I think the best way to build and grow wealth is even by bringing people into the space and expanding your work force and to some extent get free time for yourself.

In as much as it's good to help people it's also good to be aware of whom you are tryna help because some people are just ingrates, no matter how good you are they will still mess up the least you have done for them.

I can remember my dads favorite phrase "It's good to be good", yes it's always good to do good because you don't know who will favour you, it may not be the person you helped so just do the best you can!

I think OP deserves a merit for this because it's Christmas and it's a season of love, someone should show him some love!

It is best for a person to go about his business and work hard in order to achieve our goals in life. Relying on others who possess more than you is not a good idea, and those who do not wish to help others or who have never had anything to begin with forget that life is full of surprises and that those who have today may lose it or have it transferred to someone else.They simply live their lives as they choose, and you have no idea whether the individuals you assisted today will be the ones to aid your children tomorrow. The most terrible aspect of our country is that individuals are graduating on a daily basis, there are no jobs for them, and the government refuses to look over them.

The bad economy of the country no d give people that kind mindset again to the reason on how them go take help their fellow being this time around because of the hardship wey the hover around the country. Nowadays, everyone the face their family and cut down their level of spending and rendering help to the other. So if peso wey you expect to help you no help by next year, no take am personal cos ground no d run smooth for everyone again. The rich and poor the complain for this present economy and anyone wey help you in a little wey d can, appreciate them cos it is not easy again for everyone. Peso no know how 2024 go be for Tinubu government. We pray make em d fine for all of us and we go fit help in a little way we can but if anyone of us no fit help the way we are supposed to, make peso no go pressure himself or herself to.

Don’t make it sound that it is necessary to help everyone that you come across in this life. And the day you give an helping hand don’t make it look like a favour that you’re expecting something in return from them. The day you begin to have such mindset, you’ll begin to hate on many people that you’ve helped and think that they’re also financially buoyant to help you also when you’re in need. Charity is good but it is not compulsory if you don’t feel like, but the best of those are the ones that give and expect nothing in return. Help people for the sake of humanity and not the sake of what you stand to get in return.