Topic: Help someone in the year 2024 - page 2. (Read 423 times)

Nice talk bro, na waiting just dey mind to tell him you just talk like this so, help? My brother help na another risky thing for this life now, you fit help person make the person later begin dey see himself say him don make and no be you show am way to succeed, this thing's dey normally happen na and we dey see, you go help person and him go backstab you, we Don see that one too, so my brother sometimes you have to know the kind people wey you go help because of waiting go come back to you.

Although to help na normal thing and it is also another way to show love but if I wan help person I must know the person very well be because after you show person road and he succeed, him go jakpa dey enjoy him life and even forget say you dey exist, life is very simple but you gast use your brain too.

Op nothing comot for way thing you talk o, but na way thing people don experience for helping friends naim make some people stopped to they help their friends. You fit they help your friend when you get small thing wey they give you small money like to give am clothes and shoes to wear go where he wants to go, and even sometimes you they give am money to cook food chop for in house. But if this your friend come later see update wey blow am, in no go even reason your matter wey be they help am when he no get anything. Na because of these attitudes naim they make people no dey to help friends again, and they prefer to only help their family members now. Secondly, if you no follow your friends in the line of hustling wey them they hustle, e go hard before they go help you o because you no know what they are going through to make this money. Just know that help is not coming from anywhere unless you initial how you go carry comot yourself for poverty o.

Inasmuch is good to help people or lift people up with business opportunities and ideas it needs to be done right. You need to do such to people with like minds as soon will pull you down.
Study individual and tailor your help to them

its very necessary I help others rise with you, if you are the only one doing well financially in your circle and all you do is just gist with your friends and has never cared to carry them along you are endangering yourself big time. The truth is that you can't help everybody rise up financially and you can't always be their to provide financial advice to everyone that comes your way but its very necessary you guide the few ones who are sincere about their zeal to learn.

Put up one or two persons you can trust in your circle and build them up to becoming strong with you, they will feel that they owe you are lot and you will always have a trusted backup in times of difficulty.

It's better you don't even associate with people your financial state intimidates than associating with them freely and assuming they will always be happy with you even in their brokenness.

This one nah simple thing: as you day around people, wey no one see you prosper. You suppose to leave them na you too. Check am, we day together You no day help me, but you sabi day tell me. Watin you don achieve Haba no be say if you show me I no go sabi am oo but you no share how I go talk know am to me if I get that kind person I go just mute am neh because e no get use 

A wise men said, "If you are not given value at the place, don’t go back there again,” which is the truth because your rich friend will not check on you unless you are also rich, so let's also be thinking wisely because those rich or successful friends around you that refuse to help you or show you the way are not your friends but just your close enemies, so you need to stay away from them, and again, others might be afraid to share because they might think if you join them doing what they are doing, you will end up gaining more of them, and they will not like it because they won’t like to see you ahead of them.

What I will say is that to me, I will just go and find another way to also succeed in life, especially as we day this naija ways to get money plenty. Nah, only you don't want to join, but all I will do is make sure I look for legit and legal money and stay away from the illegal ones.

As for me if I help someone today I will never and I am not expecting any financial help from the person because of you put that at the back of your mind and help someone then the help is no longer valid to the way of the God. As others have said if you no brag your achievements to someone close to you, you achievements with your character go tell people say you get am. In dis days people no dey do like those days wey people dey tell others about their wealth to win girls but dis days only wears go tell Dem say u get am.

Helping people is good but instead of giving Dem money why can't we teach Dem how to fine money if the can do. Mostly teach Dem how to invest.

The issue with bragging depends on your own view, sometimes people don't even intend to brag or show off but the way they dress and appear might get someone else jealous and unknowingly to the person, and the other set of people they always want to brag about their achievement. I love seeing people like that cause I will love to do same likee if you're rich you don't even need to brag people will always see the wealth, if you're really talking about the rich ones it's very rare seeing such people, I will assume you're talking about the jealous ones who always want to paint others dirty and bad, talking about ideas and creativeness I don't know about others so I'm speaking for myself, if my friends around me will not add value to my life in terms of new ideas and creativeness I will prefer to cut such friendship cause now what's the essence of making many friends and still yet there's no value added to your life it makes no sense, I'm not trying to say our friends should be blamed for our wrong decisions or act but we should make friends that add value to our life,  The best thing to do this new year is to avoid such people and focus more on new year goals.

Sometimes helping someone sopos be something we do to people wey dey in need. Because most people no the value of wetting them dey do for them except with option. like for example if person dey teach you work or dey give you free money, you no go appreciate wetting him dey do. but when you don dey struggle on your own you go know say life no easy . So the option wey some people dey like na make you serve somebody sothat you go use the kind intimidation wey you dey see come ginger urself up to push harder. so to me refusal to help somebody na a sign to motivate your struggle than always cautioning blam on them.

Is not a must to help. Because you no no wetting all those men dey undergo before them reach where them dey. Some self fit be ritual wey dem do, and the law be say make them no help person and no be there mind not to help you out but the place where them get money no allow them help people. So just manage your self struggle and pray for God blessings and you will reach your destination. Most of those people you see your life is Better than them. Some of them are walking corps. Dey even desire to be like you.

I attribute bragging to low self-esteem, Anybody Who  brags is feeling less important and  tends to announce their value to others in a wrong way. Like the saying goes, "you can't cover pregnancy with mere hands". A successful person doesn't need to announce himself because his productivity does the announcement for him. Low self-esteem has a way of making proud people try to impose their value on others, they think they're creating awareness for their value and drawing admiration of everyone, while the reverse is the case, they're simply sampling their stupidity and low self-esteem. People hardly like to make friends with a person who brags about this and that, because they're accustomed to fake life and dishonesty. While bragging, a lot of lies are told to give the boast a soft landing. Bragging is very bad and should be avoided.
Over to not sharing useful updates with people, unless an update that is classified to a set of people only, and the person in question is not supposed to consume it, people who don't share update are low key witches and wizards, that's another level of wickedness. Withholding an information that can be of help to a friend is very bad and such people don't progress much as they're locking the doors to other people's progress, karma is also locking the door to their own progress, there's no two ways about it. The measure you give is the same measure you receive  and what goes around, comes around.

To help people good but the thing be say some people no dey like start small. Like some people wey no even get anything dey see demselves as too big to learn work and you wey go help dem go tire, dem just want make you carry money give dem for hand without bending down to learn and understand one or two things. Another thing be say, person go know who him go help or bring in. No be every one for road you go help, some people fit still set you up. I don see people wey in the name of help and being good don bring people come there house and at the end of the day them begin show bad character like raping the female children, stealing and setting oga or madam up.

It is only one that does not understand life that will brag with what he or she has, in life their is nothing to brag about.  The achievements you have today , you are not the first to achieve them, their are people who have done better than this and yet are still very humble. Sometimes life is unpredictable, the people which you use you achievements to brag or underrate can get and have more achievements you have today. If you can help people by adding value to their life , no need to underrate or brag about your achievements to look them less.

Many have learned from other people mistakes by trying to help someone but the person turn the help to frustrate the person by putting such person to regret from the rest of his or her life. But there is no way you will add value to someone life by impacting cryptocurrency knowledge to the person in this new year we are about to enter and the person will not live to remember you for good but don't forget that you need to help yourself first for other people to know that you need help before they will start referring you to some cryptocurrency link were you can learn more to add value to your knowledge.

Don't allow such people attitude to make you feel they are wicked, all you need to do to be great like them or to be greater than them is to start working on yourself before 2024 start so that you will not remain were you are in 2023 because you sound like someone that is not happy about his or her current situation.

Have you on your own assisted someone in the capacity that you can? The people who cry the most that nobody is offering a helping hand to them are people who have never tried helping others. It is a natural law to get what you give, If you offer help, you will get help when you need it, if you do not offer help when you can, and also do not have a heart of helping others, help will be far from you when you need it.

Help others so you can get help.

Normally nor be bad thing to render help though. According to the Bible heaven help those that help themselves. Because e get some pesins you go help dem go misuse am. Just Imagine helping someone with some certain amount of Moni and e nor even invest am e just waste am for irrelevant or wayward things. That kind pesin to help am next time  go tire you because are u go tey help persin wey nor wan help himself. So the thing is that help the less privilege wey ready to hustle and way ready to help themselves too. Nah true say nobody knows tomorrow.

This matter of helping someone is very dynamic. Some I fit give you #100k today and I don help you. You fit don go squandered the money come look like say I no even give you anything or rendered some level of help to you in the past. Having this mentality that someone is supposed to help us for this life has kept most of us lazy and not willing to take a bold move for ourselves. You should have this believe and mentality that nobody owe you anything in life, this has really helped me to keep pushing in whatever situation I find myself. If the help comes along the way fine, if it doesn't you will fine.

 My guy, things like this mata on sharing update don dey discussed tire for here. See, if you like share the update brekete, no be everybody go fit do wetin you fit do. It's more blessed to give than to receive we know but consider am. Sometimes too, no be all your friends wan brag, rub their success for ya face. Actually some just dey low-key but nah envy for say them dey successful and we aren't dey make that thought of them being prideful and bragging come to our minds.
Sometimes, when we comot our minds say we sef sopoz blow from that thing our friends dey do go help us genuinely happy for them when them come near us because when rain dey fall, e dey reach everywhere; both on the good and the bad.

As this your matter take be ehn, na better thing you talk so, but waiting me i want you to understand be say we all are not meant to make it in the same way, even though you open up to someone that this is what you have being doing for a living they should join you and make some money too, if that is not meant to them they will not have anything there, no matter how they give it a try. Waiting we dey face for this country no dey easy and na person wey don help himself finish they help another people, no be everybody mouth they keep quite, no be everybody fit keep secret, if you are about to help someone from there, he will start telling other people this is what you want to help him with, how did you think for this hard economy now is possible to help many people. If you help someone people today, they fit turn back on you tomorrow, that one dey happen everytime.

OP don't make it look like it's a must to help someone in this life (wetin I dy talk self, here nah NAIJA LOCAL BOARD nah).
I know say e good to help oh but see am this way, the way you thing am to help person no be the same way another person think am too, I fit help you today tomorrow you turn Lion for my head, and you fit help me today or tomorrow and we become strong partner for business so e dy two ways and na the negative part piple dy reason pass that's why e hard for person to help people.
Advise I go share be say, even if you dy help next year today or whenever, make you just dy careful of who you dy help. This life no be all about giving some piple no dy that lucky as you dy, make person no put sand for our garri.


Happy Xmas my contri piple...

Life is a matter of choice whether who to give or not. Giving sometimes is as a result of self willingness. Sometimes people find it hard to disclose the identity of their financial source of income due to security reasons, but only give you money rathar showing you the way. Reason being that if you know there source of income you posses the characteristics of instant hatred or envyiness which could leed to evil act of poisoning, kidnapping or sending assassin's. So this attribute makes people to keep monitery issues private.

No doubt, who you help today might be of help tomorrow depends on the type of help. Some people prefer to send you to learn a skill that will be usefull to you which in turn becomes your means of daily livelihood. And such person can not be forgotten. Another help could be training someone in school after graduation the person sees a better job and become a better person tomorow.

I think before you help somebody you should know what type of help somebody needs from you. If it's a help that will involve your privacy you shouldn't help atol. But if the help is a kind that you will do and it will not bring hatred then you can help. Because not all help are help. In most cases helping someone Too Close to you has %80 risk of hatred especially the one that sees your day in day out. But that does mean we should not help people Close to us. but help with caution.

This matter no be small thing oo, the thing wey come dey pain me for inside na be say, most times the people wey dey claim say dem get well well, sometimes e fit even be say dem no even get shishi, but dem go just dey live fake life. While to some wey get the legit update some kinds times na based on trust naim make dem dey hide update, I know of some persons wey nor dey like to share update because there boys they carry dem play based on say dem don get small money from the update wey their boss show dem. Majority of the time na ungrateful boys and and apprentice dem naim dey cause this thing. Anyway sha e nor too good to dey stingy update but some kind times na to just keep the update in a healthy condition na make people dey stingy update.