Just be patient, it will be processed eventually.
K.
Why is my second transaction being held up.... it has nothing to do with the first, and has fees
I believe it's to prevent you from double spending.
It will go through (if it hasn't already)
K.
Its been sitting there for hours also, its not going through. Because the part holding up the initial transaction is like .085, isnt this never ever going to confirm, and I am going to be out like 1.25 btc?
This first transaction has an output of 0.0085 BTC sending the change from the transaction back into your wallet at address 1PKJGEnz7bqYex6DsK9U5ScZASZHqUCtew. Normally a transaction with an output less than 0.01 BTC should have a fee of at least 0.0001 BTC. Unfortunately the wallet you are using did not include a fee. There really isn't a good way to predict right now how long it will take to confirm. I think blockchain.info will stop trying to transmit the transaction and will display the balance back in your wallet if it doesn't confirm within a few days. I suspect that it will confirm within a day though.
The second transaction uses the unconfirmed output from the first transaction as an input. This means that the second transaction cannot confirm unless/until the first one does. A transaction cannot be confirmed if all of its inputs are not confirmed. It is possible for both transactions to be confirmed in the same block. If blockchain.info stops broadcasting the first transaction in a few days and returns the balance to your wallet, then the second transaction will vanish at that time returning that balance to your wallet as well. If/when the first transaction confirms, I'd expect that the second one will confirm either in the same block or within 2 blocks later.
Some day in the future, intelligent miners/pools will look ahead and see the the second transaction pays enough of a fee to cover the cost of both transactions. A smart miner would confirm both transactions in the same block so they can collect the 0.001 BTC fee from the second transaction. Right now there are not many (any?) miners that have implemented a "child pays for parent" analysis when building their blocks. This is rather dumb. They are leaving valuable transactions out there for someone else to confirm, and are confirming lower value transactions instead.