You could make a career out being wrong.
I don't fear being accountable for my actions. I'm not a rapist, I don't harass women, I don't engage in the subjugation of women. I've raised three daughters, well adjusted and college educated. There's nothing to be held accountable for other than the fact that I am male, masculine, steadfast in my conservative attitude, and unapologetic about any of it.
What I fear is being held accountable for the actions of others, guilt by association, all because of my gender.
Its not holding you accountable for other men's actions. Its holding you accountable for your actions. The ad literally stated something llke "some men is not enough". It is a call to action for the "good men" to do their part in holding "bad men" accountable for their actions. Make it socially unacceptable to possess any of those behaviors you don't take part in.
For example, your boy tells a story that sounds a bit like date rape. LOSE YOUR SHIT and call him out on it telling him it is not ok. If you don't do that sort of thing, YOU ARE GUILTY BY ASSOCIATION. Don't tolerate any of those things. Not even in jokes. If you are already doing all you can do then fine, the ad isn't about you and you should find it helpful to your cause.
I like that miss America pageant no longer has a swimsuit competition yet 25% of the state winners end up working in Asia or the Middle East as party girls.
Talk about hypocracy
Well I guess girls will be girls.
The movie crazy rich Asians has a scene on a boat for a bachelor party with a ton of hot contestant girls.
This is a very common practice.
Yeah, MEN are unaccountable huh? I guess that's why men go to prison at a rate over 10x more than women, are about 80% of the homeless, and are falling behind in every stage of education. Take your postmodernist horse shit and shove it. You wanna be a eunuch, fine, but you don't get to dictate to the rest of the real men who run society for your pansy collectivist ass. If you feel I am wrong, feel free to bring some facts (I won't hold my breath), otherwise go fuck yourself with your Communist horse shit.
The stats you continuously regurgitate are actually evidence of the problem. Toxic masculinity is prevalent in male culture and conditions young boys to adopt reckless behaviors.
You brought the facts for me. Those extra men in prison or homelessness are victims of toxic masculinity. We tell boys they aren't allowed to cry or express their emotions from a young age. This along with natural aggression is a toxic combination that maybe doesn't drive males to kill, but omits creating an environment that would help prevent such.