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Quote from: ubercool on January 17, 2020, 03:26:51 AM

I had a friend who was too addicted in gambling as high as he sold one of his restaurants and lost almost half of that money. Fortunately, his family got to know about this and we all helped him come over it. It was not easy and sometimes he did gambled but not for much money. I think anything which turns to addiction is not good.

If you have an addiction it's hard to stop even I have read some news about addiction in gambling on spending money around $70k he did not realize that that much money had been used up by gambling.
But we must be able to control our emotions when gambling and also do not be happy playing gambling because if it is often or every day can become addicted because it is difficult to stop.

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Quote from: Janation on January 16, 2020, 08:46:22 PM

Quote from: andycarrol on January 16, 2020, 09:26:37 AM

it all depends on the level of addiction. Are they too bad? maybe it's true that they have to go to a therapist because it has entered their subconscious mind and has to change mindset to stop gambling. and this is the most important thing, find out what triggers made him gamble? and try to overcome it without gambling.

That is the thing.

After knowing what triggers them to gamble, it will always be the same after that, they still needed someone to be there with them. They should be able to have an alternative way to kill time and gambling should be out of those choices. The time that he feels alone, that time that he feels free and can do anything even in a slight time, their mind will go back to gambling again.

is it possible for someone to become aware of addiction after experiencing something very bitter like something bad happened because of his doing? he should be able to realize himself because the true desire to recover from addiction is in us. but of course the guidance is necessary, but all back to him whether he has a very strong intention to change.

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This could be incorporated to other addicted things we do, in such a case that for me, I've been addicted to playing onkine games in a sense that I missed to eat in a right time, spent most of my money in comouter shops, but I found out that some recreational activities could possibly divert my attention to spend less time in gaming.

So in crypto gambling, we could aldo do it in a way that we spend allot of time in trading rather than betting.

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Quote from: Janation on January 16, 2020, 08:46:22 PM

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it all depends on the level of addiction. Are they too bad? maybe it's true that they have to go to a therapist because it has entered their subconscious mind and has to change mindset to stop gambling. and this is the most important thing, find out what triggers made him gamble? and try to overcome it without gambling.

That is the thing.

After knowing what triggers them to gamble, it will always be the same after that, they still needed someone to be there with them. They should be able to have an alternative way to kill time and gambling should be out of those choices. The time that he feels alone, that time that he feels free and can do anything even in a slight time, their mind will go back to gambling again.

not only killing time mate but also Buddy's that can be with them for those time they are struggling to win over gambling because this is not that easy as we say,because the eagerness to play and bet is always there and we alone cannot win this,but with people who can be with us and divert our mind into good things aside from winning money(or losing much better to say)i have known some people that forget addiction because of their family who does not leave them in times of trouble and always guides them towards reality that in gambling there is always one winner and that is the house.

Another thing is the willingness of the gambler himself.

We can't force a gambler to just stop his addiction, he needs to admit that he himself is addicted to gambling. Without him knowing, he will not be eager to fix his problem. He should know his problem so he can also push himself to be better.

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I had a friend who was too addicted in gambling as high as he sold one of his restaurants and lost almost half of that money. Fortunately, his family got to know about this and we all helped him come over it. It was not easy and sometimes he did gambled but not for much money. I think anything which turns to addiction is not good.

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Quote from: plvbob0070 on January 15, 2020, 10:02:09 AM

There's a story that my mom told me, it's about my uncle who once became a gambling addict that there comes a time where he sold most of their things in their house just to find money to gamble. The worst thing that my uncle did is to pledge their house just to satisfy his gambling pleasures.

I know it's not easy to overcome this situation especially when you're already in your point that you want to get back everything that you have lost. You keep on gambling thinking you can earn everything back. Actually, we're already lucky enough if we continuously win the game but even our luck has its own limitations. Without noticing it, our wins are slowly turning into losses.

I also know that some of us here will just put their attention on different things to avoid too much gambling. But in reality, it's just easy to say but harder to do. There's no easy way if you really got attached to gambling. But in your opinion or personal experiences, how do you overcome your addiction to gambling?

Controlling gambling involves more of emotional maturity. Gambling addiction is a product of the habit uncontrolled from the early stage. To control addiction, research analyzed that you ignore the act 21 times and it will be over. For this to be possible it involves discipline. And inability to caution one's self is a clear sign of immaturity.it may be difficult to say here that some of those addictions could be spiritual too, and needs prayer.

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Quote from: Janation on January 16, 2020, 08:46:22 PM

Quote from: andycarrol on January 16, 2020, 09:26:37 AM

it all depends on the level of addiction. Are they too bad? maybe it's true that they have to go to a therapist because it has entered their subconscious mind and has to change mindset to stop gambling. and this is the most important thing, find out what triggers made him gamble? and try to overcome it without gambling.

That is the thing.

After knowing what triggers them to gamble, it will always be the same after that, they still needed someone to be there with them. They should be able to have an alternative way to kill time and gambling should be out of those choices. The time that he feels alone, that time that he feels free and can do anything even in a slight time, their mind will go back to gambling again.

not only killing time mate but also Buddy's that can be with them for those time they are struggling to win over gambling because this is not that easy as we say,because the eagerness to play and bet is always there and we alone cannot win this,but with people who can be with us and divert our mind into good things aside from winning money(or losing much better to say)i have known some people that forget addiction because of their family who does not leave them in times of trouble and always guides them towards reality that in gambling there is always one winner and that is the house.

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Quote from: plvbob0070 on January 15, 2020, 10:02:09 AM

There's a story that my mom told me, it's about my uncle who once became a gambling addict that there comes a time where he sold most of their things in their house just to find money to gamble. The worst thing that my uncle did is to pledge their house just to satisfy his gambling pleasures.

I know it's not easy to overcome this situation especially when you're already in your point that you want to get back everything that you have lost. You keep on gambling thinking you can earn everything back. Actually, we're already lucky enough if we continuously win the game but even our luck has its own limitations. Without noticing it, our wins are slowly turning into losses.

I also know that some of us here will just put their attention on different things to avoid too much gambling. But in reality, it's just easy to say but harder to do. There's no easy way if you really got attached to gambling. But in your opinion or personal experiences, how do you overcome your addiction to gambling?

I'm sorry for your uncle. I'm a bit curious how he or his addiction ended up. How is he now? Does he have a family? The worst effect is definitely not only affecting the gambler himself but also his immediate family. For sure, an addiction reaching a stage like that is damaging to everyone around him.

That is true that it is easier said than done. But you really need to look for that thing that totally distracts you from gambling. With the help of your family and friends, I guess that can be addressed for as long as it is not yet at a worst stage.

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Quote from: btc78 on January 16, 2020, 08:53:49 PM

i can relate on this mate,because my cousin use to be addicted like this and all his stuffs has been sold just to continue playing,but one day when His wife cannot stand anymore?she game him ultimatum to choose ,if he Continue gambling that bad then they will leave him with their children and this make a call for him,so he made a decision and stopped gambling.

what i am saying here gambling addict needs a call,but sad to say sometimes this happens when we are drowned and almost have nothing to recover,

They need someone who won't tolerate their addiction, good if they have a family that are not gambling addicts also as they will be a big help.
your body is not looking for gambling unlike addiction in drugs or cigars, so anyone can stop abruptly, and stay away in gambling,.. in the end, people just need an inspiration to change and be cured from this kind of disease.

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Once bitten, twice shy says a proverb after experiencing many losing streaks while gambling due to addiction I trained my mind to engaged in any meaningful activities like watching movies or sport just to erased the bitter experience and sad memories as result of losses incurred while gambling I believed overcoming gambling is a thing of the mind.

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Quote from: jhonjhon on January 16, 2020, 09:42:07 PM

Overcoming gambling addicted can be very had most especially that you've lost almost everything already. In most cases, they become very addicted and won't stop at nothing until they recover their losses and the wort part is that they will still lose and as a result, lost everything. I think the best thing to do is seek professional help or rehabilitate your uncle because if he is already addicted your advises will be useless.

On those situations that an addicted person would be more addicted was due to despair, and this is a serious issue on the emotional side of a person. It needs self rehabilitation in which a family is needed to be with him on times of crucial and uncontrollable gambling. In order for him to overcome, taking vacation or trainings in financial litteracy should be taken diversion just to eliminate the spare time intended for gambling.

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Overcoming gambling addicted can be very had most especially that you've lost almost everything already. In most cases, they become very addicted and won't stop at nothing until they recover their losses and the wort part is that they will still lose and as a result, lost everything. I think the best thing to do is seek professional help or rehabilitate your uncle because if he is already addicted your advises will be useless.

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Quote from: romero121 on January 16, 2020, 08:11:48 PM

One who is addicted first of all will never hear anyone's words. It is the situation that has made a change in you. If you aren't into such situations surely you could've experienced the addiction for a long. Until and unless a person himself decides, it is impossible to get out of addiction. Getting close to religion should not happen forcefully.

Precisely, but at least, if we really care with him, we need to talk with him personally. If we can show our express that we really want to help him, in the end, he will accept us what our means. Sometimes we need to touch him deeply in his heart, so he knows that finally, someone wants to help him. That will need time before he realizes, but that is worth to try because we need to find the right time so we can get close to him and talk privately.

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i can relate on this mate,because my cousin use to be addicted like this and all his stuffs has been sold just to continue playing,but one day when His wife cannot stand anymore?she game him ultimatum to choose ,if he Continue gambling that bad then they will leave him with their children and this make a call for him,so he made a decision and stopped gambling.

what i am saying here gambling addict needs a call,but sad to say sometimes this happens when we are drowned and almost have nothing to recover,

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Quote from: andycarrol on January 16, 2020, 09:26:37 AM

it all depends on the level of addiction. Are they too bad? maybe it's true that they have to go to a therapist because it has entered their subconscious mind and has to change mindset to stop gambling. and this is the most important thing, find out what triggers made him gamble? and try to overcome it without gambling.

That is the thing.

After knowing what triggers them to gamble, it will always be the same after that, they still needed someone to be there with them. They should be able to have an alternative way to kill time and gambling should be out of those choices. The time that he feels alone, that time that he feels free and can do anything even in a slight time, their mind will go back to gambling again.

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Getting professional help, and finding a new replacement for their yearning to gambling is the best course, people gambling because they want to direct their motivation to something interesting, they did not gamble out of curiosity, but they want to release an inner yearning for interest, if a professional can replace that, it will be good for the gambler.

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Quote from: Chrystora123 on January 16, 2020, 06:11:00 PM

Quote from: plvbob0070 on January 15, 2020, 10:02:09 AM

I also know that some of us here will just put their attention on different things to avoid too much gambling. But in reality, it's just easy to say but harder to do. There's no easy way if you really got attached to gambling. But in your opinion or personal experiences, how do you overcome your addiction to gambling?

gambling addiction will be easily cured if the person has a strong desire to change from himself.. in another thread, I have told the story of my past who was a heavy gambler who forgot time and sold a few things at home, then I changed because I got married (I didn't stop gambling completely, only reduced it)

but if the family can't change the addict, I think there are 2 ways which the family can try, that is to get closer to religion or bring the addict to hypnotherapy.

One who is addicted first of all will never hear anyone's words. It is the situation that has made a change in you. If you aren't into such situations surely you could've experienced the addiction for a long. Until and unless a person himself decides, it is impossible to get out of addiction. Getting close to religion should not happen forcefully.

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Quote from: plvbob0070 on January 15, 2020, 10:02:09 AM

I also know that some of us here will just put their attention on different things to avoid too much gambling. But in reality, it's just easy to say but harder to do. There's no easy way if you really got attached to gambling. But in your opinion or personal experiences, how do you overcome your addiction to gambling?

gambling addiction will be easily cured if the person has a strong desire to change from himself.. in another thread, I have told the story of my past who was a heavy gambler who forgot time and sold a few things at home, then I changed because I got married (I didn't stop gambling completely, only reduced it)

but if the family can't change the addict, I think there are 2 ways which the family can try, that is to get closer to religion or bring the addict to hypnotherapy.

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View the purpso ef gambling differently.

Don't look at it as a way to make money, but rather, a way to entertain yourself at a cost. Just like going to any other events, you need to pay a price to be entertained. In gambling, that price is the house edge, which keeps your expected value of bets negative in the long run.

Also, think of the fact that there is no strategy to beat the house. The only strategy that can beat the house assumes an infinite bankroll, which is impossible. I see way too many people on dice chats asking for strats, when they don't help at all. All they can possibly do is make your funds last longer, but at the end of the day it's still -ev.

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Take a vacation instead of gambling if you want to overcome it and do it during the weekends or every rest day. This will create you another habit which can make you forget that you have a gambling addiction if you really want to overcome it.

And if this becomes your hobby, you will have a set of good new adventures by travelling. The budget that you will allocate in gambling will now be your travelling funds and you will have no regrets with the expenses there because you're also seeing different places.

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