I think most of us usually lose the most when we are on a good running streak and get over confident such that we increase the stake instead of keeping the winning formula going all because of greed... Imagine you were playing with 50 cent entries on slots but because you have been able to catch a few big multipliers you decide to go with a higher amount which only let's you play less than 20 rounds, it's a recipe for disaster. But if these losses come, best to leave the work station and try to get mindset reset and rested by trying something off any gambling platforms and try your luck again.
That's exactly my issue with gambling on slots, i always get over confident every time am on a winning streak and i would always get this funny thinking of going all in with my stake instead collecting and maintaining my Normal winning formula and this always results to me loosing alot, its just like the winning streak is actually a trap set for you to lose more. When the losses starts coming i just hold back and end my gambling for that day because if i try to chase my losses and get back my funds it will result to further frustrating losses. 
Topic: How do you handle your losses - page 2. (Read 6020 times)
Quite for sure it's emotional when gambler loses a bet but it depends on the amount of money that I used in my staking, that will actually determine the extent at which I'm gonna feel pataining my lose. This reason, the way I've used in handling my loses is, I ensure each time I'm placing my bets I don't over bet by putting large amount of money and also ensure using the amount money that I'm with losing.
If a gambler loses more than he can afford to lose, there will be a negative effect. But it can be under control if the gambler has forethought. In other words, if he loses as much as he will bet, how can he recover the loss that should be thought before betting. Since loss is a common aspect of gambling, everyone should know how to control it. But as a simple control strategy i need to bet when I have enough money and I can take break if needed.Always keep a balance in your life either its your income or expanses or gambling or any other habit , never go over board in anything so that there is always a way back .
Unless you can accept the loss on your own, you should not go to the betting section. First you have to deal with the loss in yourself. Even if you are going to trade there will be losses so first you have to build your ability to handle losses then you can start trading. So I would like to say that those who bet in the gambling section need to strengthen their mentality the most. Because the gambling section will depend entirely on luck. If you are lucky you can win. And without luck you can never win. So you have to always participate with a strong mindset to deal with it otherwise you may end up having a heart attack. So before participating in the gambling section you need to make your mind up in such a way that even if you lose you can stand properly and adjust yourself.
Any money that I put in gambling I have already counted it as a lost money. I don't have much expectation of win but if it happens I will be happy. If it does not happen I'll just forget about it.
How I handle my lost is that whenever I loss a bet, I'll reduce my betting power subsequently. I lose again I reduce amount until it gets to zero, I'll know I have lost out in everything
Like most people handle losses, namely by limiting the balance or simply by allocating funds to play every week or month.
Any money that I put in gambling I have already counted it as a lost money. I don't have much expectation of win but if it happens I will be happy. If it does not happen I'll just forget about it.
How I handle my lost is that whenever I loss a bet, I'll reduce my betting power subsequently. I lose again I reduce amount until it gets to zero, I'll know I have lost out in everything
What?! "You win, you are happy", "you lose, and you don't care". Yet, you are already counting the deposit money as a loss. That seems to be the illogical pattern of how gamblers react whenever they are on the ecstasy of winning and regretting when they are losing. I am gambling because I like emotional sways, happiness, excitement, mad, regret, sadness, joy, and others. How I handle my lost is that whenever I loss a bet, I'll reduce my betting power subsequently. I lose again I reduce amount until it gets to zero, I'll know I have lost out in everything
Handling losses is the worst part of being a gambler especially if the game you are playing is within your reach, like now with online gambling sites, the casino games.
In sports, there are instances when you become a fan of a team in a specific sport, you could get emotionally inclined to them and take the bet further if you feel like your team is on the losing side. i.e. adding more in their handicap although it's an obvious blowout.
Quite for sure it's emotional when gambler loses a bet but it depends on the amount of money that I used in my staking, that will actually determine the extent at which I'm gonna feel pataining my lose. This reason, the way I've used in handling my loses is, I ensure each time I'm placing my bets I don't over bet by putting large amount of money and also ensure using the amount money that I'm with losing.
If a gambler loses more than he can afford to lose, there will be a negative effect. But it can be under control if the gambler has forethought. In other words, if he loses as much as he will bet, how can he recover the loss that should be thought before betting. Since loss is a common aspect of gambling, everyone should know how to control it. But as a simple control strategy i need to bet when I have enough money and I can take break if needed.Always keep a balance in your life either its your income or expanses or gambling or any other habit , never go over board in anything so that there is always a way back .
Any money that I put in gambling I have already counted it as a lost money. I don't have much expectation of win but if it happens I will be happy. If it does not happen I'll just forget about it.
How I handle my lost is that whenever I loss a bet, I'll reduce my betting power subsequently. I lose again I reduce amount until it gets to zero, I'll know I have lost out in everything
How I handle my lost is that whenever I loss a bet, I'll reduce my betting power subsequently. I lose again I reduce amount until it gets to zero, I'll know I have lost out in everything
If that's true, at least you have very good self-control. even when you experience defeat, you can reduce the share for your bet. the reason is, most gamblers will be tempted to make a re-deposit of a higher amount to recover their losses. I, myself, always budget with what I'm prepared to lose. because betting has a very high level of risk of losing. moreover, for this type of betting game that is purely based on luck. but, nevertheless we have to know the essence of why we gamble. that's important, because if you want to make a profit it's better to focus on work or business. but if it's only for entertainment and fun, we won't get high pressure if we lose a bet. of course, with reasonable deposit limits.
Quite for sure it's emotional when gambler loses a bet but it depends on the amount of money that I used in my staking, that will actually determine the extent at which I'm gonna feel pataining my lose. This reason, the way I've used in handling my loses is, I ensure each time I'm placing my bets I don't over bet by putting large amount of money and also ensure using the amount money that I'm with losing.
If a gambler loses more than he can afford to lose, there will be a negative effect. But it can be under control if the gambler has forethought. In other words, if he loses as much as he will bet, how can he recover the loss that should be thought before betting. Since loss is a common aspect of gambling, everyone should know how to control it. But as a simple control strategy i need to bet when I have enough money and I can take break if needed. 
Everything comes down to having a plan and being disciplined enough to follow through with said plan. As long as you have a concrete plan that you will be willing to follow, there's no way losing money over gambling is gonna get to you. Personally, I employ a three-loss-three-wins plan. Whenever I get as much as three wins in one sitting, I call it a day even if I still feel lucky. Same goes with losses, this way, I make sure I don't get addicted and that my funds are kept in check, in such that they don't dry up in one sitting. I suggest you try that plan out too if you're still lost with what to employ, or maybe think of a plan that really resonates with you.
If you are a gambler with discipline for sure that you will make a plan to make gambling for your entertainment but if you are just a gambler who would like to prefer for a luck and have a budget losses is not in your vocabulary some people manage to win a lot with their risk and all of their risk-taking but of course not all the time it happens, it depends on the gambling habit still of the player, but for me ideal to have a set budget if you are just in the middle class to lower would like to play gambling because there's more use of money than taking the risk to win just my cent.
Allocating a budget that is for gambling alone without affecting your daily budget for your necessities should be the right way of spending your funds. Losses could only affect us emotionally if we are already spending the funds that we couldn't afford to lose. The right mindset has a big impact on our whole gambling journey so we must have the proper perspective right from the beginning. If your goal is to make a huge profit or to get rich real quick in gambling then you are not far from having emotional damage in case you have losses.
I think most of us usually lose the most when we are on a good running streak and get over confident such that we increase the stake instead of keeping the winning formula going all because of greed... Imagine you were playing with 50 cent entries on slots but because you have been able to catch a few big multipliers you decide to go with a higher amount which only let's you play less than 20 rounds, it's a recipe for disaster. But if these losses come, best to leave the work station and try to get mindset to reset and rested by trying something off any gambling platforms and trying your luck again.
That means we can't control our greed in gambling, which has happened to many people. If we can control ourselves, especially after we can get a big win or a big multiplier and stop right away, we can enjoy that win by withdrawing the winning money and celebrating it. But we know that getting a big win will give us the thought that it is when our luck comes and we can continue playing to get another big win. But that's not the case and we will crash and lose the winning money even more quickly.
If you are a gambler with discipline for sure that you will make a plan to make a gambling for your entertainment but if you are just a gambling who would like to prefer for a luck and have a budget losses is not in your vocabulary some people manage to win a lot with their risk and all of their risk-taking but of course not all the time it happens, it depends on the gambling habit still of the player, but for me ideal to have a set budget if you are just in the middle class to lower would like to play gambling because there's more use of money than taking the risk to win just my cent.
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In my opinion, the first thing a gambler must learn to stop when he feels that his emotional background has changed markedly, and it does not matter after winning or losing streaks.
Emotional outburst leads to a wrong perception of reality that can lead to mistakes in gambling. After winning you will feel a surge of strength, confidence that you are able to beat the casino - this leads to losing the money you have won. In case of a losing streak you will feel that you should definitely win back and as we all know very often this leads to even more spending.
I think most of us usually lose the most when we are on a good running streak and get over confident such that we increase the stake instead of keeping the winning formula going all because of greed... Imagine you were playing with 50 cent entries on slots but because you have been able to catch a few big multipliers you decide to go with a higher amount which only let's you play less than 20 rounds, it's a recipe for disaster. But if these losses come, best to leave the work station and try to get mindset reset and rested by trying something off any gambling platforms and try your luck again.
When you are already on that desperate mode then you would really be definitely be having that kind of thinking that you should really break even or make up with those losses and win up particular further bets.Once you do win certain amounts,then those emotions created by consecutive loss would really be wiped instantly and you would really be that confident that you might be able to succeed on what you do have in mind.
When you are really that having this kind of mood swing then most like you would really be spending or tons of money on gambling because you are really that aiming on getting wins or profits.
You cant really avoid some circumstances but you do have the will on stopping completely if you wanted to.
There is nothing wrong with what the OP has explained and even with the meaning he/she wants us to relate to what it wrote, you are only claiming the same thing from a different view. Handling/managing emotions and losses, and maintaining a responsible gambling lifestyle that will help are still striving towards the same goal.
Anyone could proffer any solution to his problem to cut loss and perhaps increase earnings, it does not matter how it looks to others so long as it's working for the person.
Not really, it's different.Anyone could proffer any solution to his problem to cut loss and perhaps increase earnings, it does not matter how it looks to others so long as it's working for the person.
What @OP explain is handling the result, but what I'm talking about is handling during gamble.
Almost of people can't accept losses, since they're gambling to make money. Of course they might gambling using a lot money and can't control themselves, so they will regret when they're lose it all.
But if a gambler already know if gambling is for fun, they don't need to handle their losses.
I think most of us usually lose the most when we are on a good running streak and get over confident such that we increase the stake instead of keeping the winning formula going all because of greed... Imagine you were playing with 50 cent entries on slots but because you have been able to catch a few big multipliers you decide to go with a higher amount which only let's you play less than 20 rounds, it's a recipe for disaster. But if these losses come, best to leave the work station and try to get mindset reset and rested by trying something off any gambling platforms and try your luck again.
That means we can't control our greed in gambling, which has happened to many people. If we can control ourselves, especially after we can get a big win or a big multiplier and stop right away, we can enjoy that win by withdrawing the winning money and celebrating it. But we know that getting a big win will give us the thought that it is when our luck comes and we can continue playing to get another big win. But that's not the case and we will crash and lose the winning money even more quicker. 
Unless you can accept the loss on your own, you should not go to the betting section. First you have to deal with the loss in yourself. Even if you are going to trade there will be losses so first you have to build your ability to handle losses then you can start trading. So I would like to say that those who bet in the gambling section need to strengthen their mentality the most. Because the gambling section will depend entirely on luck. If you are lucky you can win. And without luck you can never win. So you have to always participate with a strong mindset to deal with it otherwise you may end up having a heart attack. So before participating in the gambling section you need to make your mind up in such a way that even if you lose you can stand properly and adjust yourself.
Any money that I put in gambling I have already counted it as a lost money. I don't have much expectation of win but if it happens I will be happy. If it does not happen I'll just forget about it.
How I handle my lost is that whenever I loss a bet, I'll reduce my betting power subsequently. I lose again I reduce amount until it gets to zero, I'll know I have lost out in everything
Good budgeting and allocating your finances will help you to limit yourself from losing a lot, you just need to make sure that you are really good in controlling your emotion, it depends from how a person project and execute what strategy they have or what are the plans before playing the game.
I think most of us usually lose the most when we are on a good running streak and get over confident such that we increase the stake instead of keeping the winning formula going all because of greed... Imagine you were playing with 50 cent entries on slots but because you have been able to catch a few big multipliers you decide to go with a higher amount which only let's you play less than 20 rounds, it's a recipe for disaster. But if these losses come, best to leave the work station and try to get mindset reset and rested by trying something off any gambling platforms and try your luck again.
Indeed, the disaster comes when we lose control of our emotions. We can say that some are because of greed and some are because of aggression, to make huge runs or to recover losses. But again, it is the emotion that will kill all the enjoyment and entertainment while playing.
I think most of us usually lose the most when we are on a good running streak and get over confident such that we increase the stake instead of keeping the winning formula going all because of greed... Imagine you were playing with 50 cent entries on slots but because you have been able to catch a few big multipliers you decide to go with a higher amount which only let's you play less than 20 rounds, it's a recipe for disaster. But if these losses come, best to leave the work station and try to get mindset reset and rested by trying something off any gambling platforms and try your luck again.
Any money that I put in gambling I have already counted it as a lost money. I don't have much expectation of win but if it happens I will be happy. If it does not happen I'll just forget about it.
This is the most bullshit reason or whatever shenanigans that I heard on gambling. Why the heck you are gambling if you didn’t expect to win and just counted your money as lost once you deposit? It’s better to send your money to donation so that it can help poor people rather than spend it on your nonsense gambling since you didn’t want to win. Seriously why you do need to play gambling if you have this kind of resolve.
Winning is what makes people drive to gamble more but in your case you are like zombie playing without any goal to achieve. Zzzzz
Unless you can accept the loss on your own, you should not go to the betting section. First you have to deal with the loss in yourself. Even if you are going to trade there will be losses so first you have to build your ability to handle losses then you can start trading. So I would like to say that those who bet in the gambling section need to strengthen their mentality the most. Because the gambling section will depend entirely on luck. If you are lucky you can win. And without luck you can never win. So you have to always participate with a strong mindset to deal with it otherwise you may end up having a heart attack. So before participating in the gambling section you need to make your mind up in such a way that even if you lose you can stand properly and adjust yourself.
Any money that I put in gambling I have already counted it as a lost money. I don't have much expectation of win but if it happens I will be happy. If it does not happen I'll just forget about it.
How I handle my lost is that whenever I loss a bet, I'll reduce my betting power subsequently. I lose again I reduce amount until it gets to zero, I'll know I have lost out in everything
In every game or bet there must be a profit and a loss.
I myself, if I experience a loss if it's only a small amount, I will re-learn how the game works and if I really understand and can determine the right position, I will bet again with a larger amount to be able to recover losses and still make a profit.
However, if I experience a large loss, I will be more silent and stop playing for a while with the aim of calming my mind and dampening my emotions. If it gets better, I will play again with a gradual number of bets.
We all have different strategy on how to handle losses and yours is one of them plus the internet is plenty of useful strategy on how to manage/control yourself from losses. And most of them are based on real life experience so, a little research on the internet is plenty enough to jot down those important details. It's very useful if someone is just starting to gamble or having a problem with how they should manage their emotions especially to newbies in gambling but I don't know if newbies would ever think to do some research first or just play ahead and do the research after losing.I myself, if I experience a loss if it's only a small amount, I will re-learn how the game works and if I really understand and can determine the right position, I will bet again with a larger amount to be able to recover losses and still make a profit.
However, if I experience a large loss, I will be more silent and stop playing for a while with the aim of calming my mind and dampening my emotions. If it gets better, I will play again with a gradual number of bets.
After some time playing, experiencing defeat, just started to think about a research and strategy in playing.
I can do some research and make playing strategies too from this forum by reading and studying what has been given by forum users in a gambling thread.
For novice gamblers who are also users of this forum, they have a distinct advantage because they can learn about gambling first before actually getting involved in gambling.
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