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Topic: How many of you feel ashamed for recommending Bitcoin to family & friends? - page 2. (Read 3605 times)

legendary
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I started buying bitcoins back in summer of 2013. I was so excited by this new technology and when the price shot up in November, my excitement became contagious. My brother bought a bitcoin for $1000 from me, my mother asked me to buy her one too also at $1000, my niece bought a tenth for $100, my boss bought a few from coinbase, a co-worker bought a few dozen or so until the price dropped to $800. He died about a year later and his family threw away his computer. So those were all lost.

I continued buying in 2014 and then spent a bunch early this year to take care of some things. Anyway, I went over my buys & sales, and discovered that my remaining couple dozen bitcoins cost me around $500 each, despite my use of cost averaging. And I know I did much better than all the people that I know who started buying later than me.

Now I am ashamed to even mention Bitcoin. Everyone I know has lost money and a lot of it. If they ask me about it, I refuse to talk about Bitcoin.

Don't get me wrong, I still love the concept. I am sure the technology will take off in a decade or two. I even use it to send money overseas (using bitpesa) and to fill phones (using bitrefill) all the time.

Anyway, just curious to hear how you all deal with the bitcoin shame from friends & family.


I'm sorry because of your very bad experience with bitcoin.
It's not easy when you are so inspired with something and recommend it to your family and friends and later you feel ashamed
due to poor performance and loss.
I had such experience a few times in my life and now it's really difficult for me to recommend anything to my relatives and friends because they don't trust me anymore.
All of these things on the Internet, no matter how good looking, are always risky and we should be very careful before investing any money.
I learned that the hard way.
The best solution is to never include your friends in such risky things and always try alone.
In such way, only you can lose money and friendships are preserved Smiley

sr. member
Activity: 490
Merit: 250
I started buying bitcoins back in summer of 2013. I was so excited by this new technology and when the price shot up in November, my excitement became contagious. My brother bought a bitcoin for $1000 from me, my mother asked me to buy her one too also at $1000, my niece bought a tenth for $100, my boss bought a few from coinbase, a co-worker bought a few dozen or so until the price dropped to $800. He died about a year later and his family threw away his computer. So those were all lost.

I continued buying in 2014 and then spent a bunch early this year to take care of some things. Anyway, I went over my buys & sales, and discovered that my remaining couple dozen bitcoins cost me around $500 each, despite my use of cost averaging. And I know I did much better than all the people that I know who started buying later than me.

Now I am ashamed to even mention Bitcoin. Everyone I know has lost money and a lot of it. If they ask me about it, I refuse to talk about Bitcoin.

Don't get me wrong, I still love the concept. I am sure the technology will take off in a decade or two. I even use it to send money overseas (using bitpesa) and to fill phones (using bitrefill) all the time.

Anyway, just curious to hear how you all deal with the bitcoin shame from friends & family.


Most of my family still grasps to understand what bitcoin actually is, I am more ashamed that I can't explain it enough so they understand what it is.
newbie
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Merit: 0
I'm not sure why anyone would feel ashamed, but I never recommended it to anyone. I just told them about it and if they wanted to invest then that is their decision.
full member
Activity: 196
Merit: 100
hopefully you also told them that the value can be zero  Wink

same can be said about fiat  Wink
legendary
Activity: 1148
Merit: 1000
I got into btc after the big bubble burst. Thankfully, I never got anyone excited enough to buy it but I loved to talk about it (dam it).

Now I just hang my head and mumble something evasive when someone asks me; "How is bitcoin doing these days?"

My friends sometimes give me crap when it comes to the price. I hope one day I'm the one laughing!
legendary
Activity: 1022
Merit: 1000
I always focused on the cool technology side of bitcoin rather than it as an investment.  I don't think I ever talked anyone into buying a bitcoin, though a few tried mining.

I'm sorry you had such a poor experience.
legendary
Activity: 1090
Merit: 1000
I got into btc after the big bubble burst. Thankfully, I never got anyone excited enough to buy it but I loved to talk about it (dam it).

Now I just hang my head and mumble something evasive when someone asks me; "How is bitcoin doing these days?"
sr. member
Activity: 302
Merit: 250
Never before 11 P.M.
1000 is alot of money?

For the average blue-collar worker, a.k.a. most people in the world, yes it is.

Show some respect for humanity.
hero member
Activity: 728
Merit: 500
I introduced Bitcoin to few of my friends.I cleared the situation that price can go up and down if you want to invest do at your own risk.I just shared news or something new with you.It is up to you now read about it and if you are convinced then can invest.Few of them invested overall they are without profit/loss till now.I am not ashamed of introducing them to Bitcoin.
sr. member
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Merit: 250
Young but I'm not that bold
Wow your lose is very huge , if it happened to me my family would kill me  Grin
legendary
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Merit: 1014
In Satoshi I Trust
dont tell them to buy something that they dont understand. hopefully you also told them that the value can be zero  Wink
hero member
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Merit: 502
No, I am not ashamed to tell anyone about it, but I don't tell them to invest in it, I tell them to see it as a technology, a way to control your own funds but at the same time I do tell them about the price fluctuations and that they should read more about it and only buy it if they understand what it is. I think telling someone to buy bitcoins because it will sky rocket in future, is not a nice thing, they should be made aware that it could go up or down and they should make their own decision.
legendary
Activity: 1358
Merit: 1000
im laughing in my sleep about how right about it i was

unlimited wealth is a good feeling Smiley
sr. member
Activity: 392
Merit: 250
bitcoin it`s a new industry its` not only an electronic payment ...this is the evolution ...bitcoin will never die because to many people are using bitcoin..there it`s a big world of bitcoin Cool
legendary
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I've always been telling to my friends that to invest in bitcoin they should have some crazy high-risk tolerance. I was telling them that since 2013, turns out I wasn't that wrong. I had seen the price climbing from 60$ to 200$ at that period of time. I was surprised to see bitcoin briefly climb on 1100$ but at all times, I'd tell my friends not to buy bitcoins as an investment.

Right now, with the capital controls in Greece, I've assisted several friends of mine by helping them take part in online offers they couldn't have done otherwise because of the limitations in bank services. I think that it's all about how you introduce someone to it. Most of my friends are merely observing. Out of all the people that asked me to tell them some ways to make money with bitcoin, maybe a couple actually managed to do so. No shame as of now, just slight disappointment at the loss of interest by certain friends of mine, but still no financial losses so there's also nothing for me to feel guilty about.
AGD
legendary
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Merit: 1164
Keeper of the Private Key
I told the people around me to buy Bitcoins, when they were 100$. They still thank me for that. Sometimes we laugh about the guys who didn't buy at that point.
full member
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Merit: 100
You should recommend it as something to spend, not an investment.
hero member
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Merit: 528
I suggest for your family to hold, someday the price will rises surely Smiley
Also next time tell your family to not invest more that then can afford to lose Cheesy
legendary
Activity: 1036
Merit: 1001
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I don't feel ashamed because of bitcoin itself, but I'm not feeling comfortable about public opinion.

when we start discussion about bitcoin with friends, it EVERY-TIME ends up on mtgox, silkroad, BFL (they had preorders) or Avalon (I bough chips for them here). Generally, I really can't recommend to anybody here to recommend bitcoin to friends - it is quite dumb idea.

within my friends and family, bitcoin is (still) handled like some ponzi game for geeks looking for quick bucks and for some dreamers, which thinks, that they can beat government and taxes and bring endless freedom and prosperity to whole world.)

hero member
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Merit: 500
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I am a little ashamed as there are many people that would think it is a game, or that I am crazy. But if you take your time to explain it, and warn about the risks beforehand, it does not have to be shameful.

Problem is when you say it is all the rage, and then people see they are not easy to spend or that its price is very volatile.
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