Topic: How often do you send PM's? (Read 482 times)

I don't use PM's very often, but there is almost 30 pages of messages in my inbox. Usually I communicate with people about my own website and stuff on - they requesting to add something to it or just giving suggestions how to improve it. Also, I use PM when I want to hire someone for job/task or when I want to be hired. Bitcointalk football prediction pools is another PM topic. Also, when I was in old Yobit campaign, discussions with other participants about campaign related issues was often thing
I noticed one trend in Service sevtion and Marketplace - when OP asks to contact him via PM, but people are still replying to topic. And we all know reason why they are doing it

If only I can reply to Maggiordomo, I may have tons now. But since I can't,  I rarely send PMs, only when I'm curious on something and when I'm unto something. The majority of my messages on my Outbox was sent to Jet Cash, LoyceV and Hhampuz.
From my 6th page to 45th, Maggiordomo has taken a full control of my Inbox 😂

Same here mate. I started a PM last time with Hhampuz when the payrate of Bitvest was reduced. I am doing any trade here, that's why I am not using the PM feature much, only if I need something important to discuss.

I probably send 10 a week, usually replying to people. I rarely start a PM conversation myself.

If there is a beef with me and someone I don't use pm's  I post in the open.

I use it very often since I have got some clients here and only communication channel/medium we are using is bitcointalk PM system, that's why I had to dig the forum's PM system to filter message.
Sometimes, I send PM to get help on forum issue or anyny other if I believe the person will not feel disturbed.

Same here! I rarely send personal messages. Aside from not being a fan of PMs in this forum, I don't think it's necessary unless it is. I only send such when I have a question or anything related to my campaign to my manager or any important matter with another member.

As of the moment, I have only sent 13 personal messages: 12 of which are campaign-related and one to my fellow countryman about his thread that I included in one of my response just to inform him and avoid misunderstandings. Otherwise, it's more on public discussions.

I get what most are saying about wanting to keep everything out in the open. I was mostly curious as to how often someone might try and clear up a disagreement or misunderstanding in PM before posting it. Even then I'm not saying that just because you tried to clear it up first doesn't mean you can't still proceed to post about it. This was very well put, I found myself struggling to make with the good words for the explaining.

I agree that open discussion is nice in a thread about anything on topic. I don't even mind when you see 2 users go back and forth in a thread as long as it's relevant and still moving the topic forward. I've heard about some people not liking when they receive a PM, but I've never cared. It was kinda nice the first few times someone reached out for something, usually I could just direct them somewhere. Scammers have tried a few times, but it never really bothered me as I could just delete it and move on; similar to tagging and moving on in a thread.

I had to laugh in my haste I found myself not using the PM function and instead posting. It was a good reminder though to a benefit of the PM in that situation. Not everyone checks back to threads they've replied in. This isn't the same scenario but a similar situation where maybe the user wouldn't have seen the reply.
If I had to guess I would say you have an entire page from me if not more. Some newbies are hard to teach. Good as time as any to say thanks again for all the help, and for replying to PM's.

Almost forgot. When I mentioned trust changes. For me specifically, it was letting a change to my trust list that affected a users position and my reasoning for that change. I have considered a PM for 1 or 2 users who I 99% want on my trust list, but that I disagree with only a few of their ratings. I haven't sent that PM yet or tried to engage in that discussion, mostly because I got busy this last while.

PMs are not something I sent often although, u have received a few and that started a conversation. I do not quite find the message layout comfortable for an extended discussion, especially as I first think, 'why would my post be deleted' when I see a message notification.
I would much rather ask for your telegram and chat there.

A little off topic; is anyone else seeing a different layout for BT? Just got back online after a while, and it's a little modified.

Just got home and checked.
Why more then I realized.
They sent me 657 pages of input.
And it is 498 pages of replies.

13140 pms in

9600 pms out.

22740 pms over the last 7 years.
3200+ each year.
About 9 a day total in and out.

Fuck that is a lot of pms.

I try as much h as possible not to send PM's and the reason is, honestly a large majority of users do not like being sent a private message, more especially if it's an issue that can be sorted out on the thread, I wouldn't be wrong to say that the moment you sent a user a PM, they are always curious as to why the user sent them a PM, they have their guard up immediately as to if the user is a scammer and the rest of that, except if it's a PM from accounts that have previously chatted or from well established accounts.

To avoid most of the inconveniences attached to sending a user a private message, much as its within my power, I'll keep everything in the open, except if it's indeed something that ought to be handled just by the both of us.

I had more then four hundred pages of PMS sent to my main account. I have sent more then 375  pages of replies. Buysolar and I are driving back to howell nj from clifton nj or I would check to see the exact amounts .  Over the years I helped scores of newbires get started to mine .

A forum is a place where people discuss about an issue in public. So, as long as your reply to someone is not "off-topic", it's better to post it in public. Even if you want to ask a question from a certain user, I think it's better to ask it in public as much as possible. A question to someone or a reply of yours to someone asking a question can be helpful to others too.
I have seen some threads that two users reply to each other consecutively and no other one is involved in their discussion. I don't say it's better to talk about that in private. Because their discussion can be helpful to me too.
Generally, it's better to send a personal message only for something that is really irrelevant to others. For example when I want to send my email address or Telegram ID to someone.

This is exactly how I am using PMs, but sometimes, I use them also to ask hard questions related to threads and promotions or if I need clarification or explanation from particular members.

I don't block PMs from newbies and sometimes answer their questions, especially if they ask for help. I see that lately, I use more PMs, especially from the time I started to use the Maggiordomo bot.


This is an almost exact list when I use PMs and I see that this is very common among other members too.

99 pages.. ~1980 messages *2..





Newbies asking questions
Deals
Bounties
Negative trust requests
Technical questions
Saved messages

Mostly moderation related when I send personal messages. However, that's usually only when users are asking a question that needs to be answered or if I'm letting someone know why I've deleted a particular message etc. For example, when merging multiple posts in a row I usually give them a quick message. Although, I don't merge posts often, and only in certain situations.

I also send personal messages about personal projects, and asking questions which would be deemed off topic.

PMs are better regarding small grievances that can be easily resolved without much debate.
Topics should hold open discussion if external parties' influence is necessary (i.e. both are vehemently supporting opposing sides)

not that often, just use it as needed for any personal conversation that doesn't concern anyone else
if it is a discussion or information that can help others, I will surely post it in a thread instead
I think of it as a way to reply someone's post without cluttering a discussion thread

Me too.  Otherwise users with unsavory ethics lie about what took place in the message exchange in an attempt to muddy the discussion when they're exposed for behaving inappropriately.  

Mainly this:


And also for some inside jokes that are probably not funny publicly. Perhaps that falls under "chat". Somehow I end up with tons of PMs without even trying and then end up having to apologize for not responding sooner (or even worse - forget to respond at all).