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March 30, 2017, 06:46:09 AM
#12
It's good when a person judges himself. It's foolish and inappropriate to judge other people. First you need to feel yourself in their shoes, but that does not always help. Each person is unique, he has different goals, views, dreams, abilities.
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March 30, 2017, 05:12:51 AM
#11
we need to keep on mind that people are different and they have purposes of doing such things. we need to see from another angle in order to be able to understand others. I think that's the key.
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March 29, 2017, 09:02:52 PM
#10
Why do people keep on seeing the bad things that people have done? Why do we judge other people quickly sometimes?

Is it in human nature that's why it's happening or is it the upbringing of the individual that he or she has seen growing up?

What can be done to be better and not to judge other people just by basing on looks but looking deeper into his or her character?

Share your opinion about it.


Sometimes when I pray to God I ask why He doesn't make everyone normal. I don't know if it's the story about angel and demons why we assume that beautiful people are good while those had a bad apearrance are not and we don't like them. But as I grow up I understand that it's only immaturity that makes us feel that way.
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March 29, 2017, 08:06:49 PM
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Why do people keep on seeing the bad things that people have done? Why do we judge other people quickly sometimes?

Is it in human nature that's why it's happening or is it the upbringing of the individual that he or she has seen growing up?

What can be done to be better and not to judge other people just by basing on looks but looking deeper into his or her character?

Share your opinion about it.

Well, people tend to just spread does romurs because they are just jealous on what the person have and intend to judge then, sometimes people abuse their power that then other people just judge them. People are not going they were built that way..

Maybe that's what they feel about the person, they also want to become like them but not admitting it to themselves. They do that to feel superior to the people they are destroying. The reputation is at stake.
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March 29, 2017, 03:05:42 PM
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Why do people keep on seeing the bad things that people have done? Why do we judge other people quickly sometimes?

Is it in human nature that's why it's happening or is it the upbringing of the individual that he or she has seen growing up?

What can be done to be better and not to judge other people just by basing on looks but looking deeper into his or her character?

Share your opinion about it.

To change this you need to do social engineering for a few generations. Eventually the hate mongers will die off and all that will be left is good citizens.


The problem is that many of the rulers specifically incite hatred. Enough provocation to then several generations have felt its effects.
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March 29, 2017, 02:56:13 PM
#7
Why do people keep on seeing the bad things that people have done? Why do we judge other people quickly sometimes?

Is it in human nature that's why it's happening or is it the upbringing of the individual that he or she has seen growing up?

What can be done to be better and not to judge other people just by basing on looks but looking deeper into his or her character?

Share your opinion about it.

To change this you need to do social engineering for a few generations. Eventually the hate mongers will die off and all that will be left is good citizens.

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March 29, 2017, 05:31:31 AM
#6
Because judging others is easier than fixing your own problems. 

It's something many of us do, even when we don't think we are.   Most societal norms include specifics of what to do or not to do, and by sneering at the people who do not do what is specified we give ourselves a false sense of superiority. 

What we should be doing is trying to make ourselves into better people, so instead of looking at people who are different from us and judging them we can acknowledge their differences and appreciate the many ways diversity makes our world a better place.

Unless they're just plain weird.  (jk)  Grin
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March 28, 2017, 11:46:58 PM
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Why do people keep on seeing the bad things that people have done? Why do we judge other people quickly sometimes?

Is it in human nature that's why it's happening or is it the upbringing of the individual that he or she has seen growing up?

What can be done to be better and not to judge other people just by basing on looks but looking deeper into his or her character?

Share your opinion about it.

If people did not know the difference between good and bad nothing would survive. It's good to know what is good and bad, and good for a person to judge without causing harm. Judging other people just by basing on looks is not really 'judging', it is following or imitating judgment but without the substance.

I would have to agree with this. Some people seem to have problems with other passing judgement forgetting that that's how we know whether what we are doing is acceptable or not. If you'd ever travel to a place with a different culture this would become more noticeable to  you since we have already been socialized into our own society's norms. But then again, always going by society's standards don't always have good results. We would probably still have slavery, etc. There should be a balance between groupthink and individual conviction.

As for judging by looks, we do have a beauty bias, whatever a specific society consider beautiful.

Why do people keep on seeing the bad things that people have done? Why do we judge other people quickly sometimes?

Is it in human nature that's why it's happening or is it the upbringing of the individual that he or she has seen growing up?

What can be done to be better and not to judge other people just by basing on looks but looking deeper into his or her character?

Share your opinion about it.

Well, people tend to just spread does romurs because they are just jealous on what the person have and intend to judge then, sometimes people abuse their power that then other people just judge them. People are not going they were built that way..

Much as I dislike malicious rumors and small talk, it seem to be part and parcel of our social order. For the longest time we live in small groups and all the small talk is to spread information, to keep people in check, and as a way to find our position in the pecking order. Some even compare gossiping to the grooming behavior in other great apes.
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March 28, 2017, 10:50:26 PM
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Why do people keep on seeing the bad things that people have done? Why do we judge other people quickly sometimes?

Is it in human nature that's why it's happening or is it the upbringing of the individual that he or she has seen growing up?

What can be done to be better and not to judge other people just by basing on looks but looking deeper into his or her character?

Share your opinion about it.

If people did not know the difference between good and bad nothing would survive. It's good to know what is good and bad, and good for a person to judge without causing harm. Judging other people just by basing on looks is not really 'judging', it is following or imitating judgment but without the substance.
That's true and what I think I want to share also is, why is still people doing bad stuff, knowing that it's bad? It's so sad sometimes that ordinary citizens get mugged, or something and what they worked so hard on was just gone because of the criminal. So you mean, judging people only in mind?
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March 28, 2017, 09:22:42 PM
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Why do people keep on seeing the bad things that people have done? Why do we judge other people quickly sometimes?

Is it in human nature that's why it's happening or is it the upbringing of the individual that he or she has seen growing up?

What can be done to be better and not to judge other people just by basing on looks but looking deeper into his or her character?

Share your opinion about it.

Well, people tend to just spread does romurs because they are just jealous on what the person have and intend to judge then, sometimes people abuse their power that then other people just judge them. People are not going they were built that way..
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March 28, 2017, 08:44:47 PM
#2
Why do people keep on seeing the bad things that people have done? Why do we judge other people quickly sometimes?

Is it in human nature that's why it's happening or is it the upbringing of the individual that he or she has seen growing up?

What can be done to be better and not to judge other people just by basing on looks but looking deeper into his or her character?

Share your opinion about it.

If people did not know the difference between good and bad nothing would survive. It's good to know what is good and bad, and good for a person to judge without causing harm. Judging other people just by basing on looks is not really 'judging', it is following or imitating judgment but without the substance.
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March 28, 2017, 08:14:40 PM
#1
Why do people keep on seeing the bad things that people have done? Why do we judge other people quickly sometimes?

Is it in human nature that's why it's happening or is it the upbringing of the individual that he or she has seen growing up?

What can be done to be better and not to judge other people just by basing on looks but looking deeper into his or her character?

Share your opinion about it.
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