either way, you should have told him bitcoin survived from 2008-9 till now without being hacked the way he thinks and it will continue being OK until there is a big advancement in the quantum computers front.
And Bitcoin network is vulnerable like any other network so there is no such thing as 100% security. We all have to be aware of this.
i don't know what you two mean but i am only aware of these and i doubt we can exactly call any of them "hacks"