It looks to me like a sizable portion of the mining community is trying hard now to block things like the Lightning Network from taking hold,
first of all..
LN doesnt need miners to agree on any rules that impact LN
LN can run right now, it doesnt need new 'features'
LN just needs to fix bugs that never had to do with any features of 'fixes'.
but in short people can set up a LN service now if they had the coding prowess. segwit would not have changed it one bit.
secondly
its blockstream that chose to avoid real consensus and push segwit to the pools to vote on instead of real consensus. knowing the pools wont push it without having the nodes to accept it.
its a self fulfilling stall tactic. whee blockstream get to sip margaritas and sit back playing innocent
dont blame pools. blame blockstream for the stall tactics.
also the fee's are on the rise due to blockstream by the the removal of priority, the removal of reactive fees. the addition of average fee(stays up even in low demand) increase and inclusion of fee filters and higher minimum relay fee.
they have removed logic, rules and code which would have kept costs down. and replaced it with economic notions of 'just pay more'