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legendary
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March 21, 2017, 05:35:19 AM
Finding hobbies, work and other activities to occupy yourself is essential in dealing with gambling addiction, in my opinion it's completely wrong to say that it's not working. People who have enough willpower to break addiction with a single resolution are such a minority and probably don't get addicted in the first place. But average people who struggle with addiction need all the help they can get, so any advice that can make it easier to deal with addiction is extremely valuable for them, but you just denied it and tell people to "deal with it".
Gambling addiction can happen to everyone, your gambling goes from fun and develop to unhealthy preoccupations with serious consequence, whether it is sport betting dice or poker or any other type of gambling.

If you have some serious gambling, remind yourself of how It can destroy your relationships interfere with your work, and lead to financials disaster, and could you even lead you to stealing money to gamble, think of all of those and think is it all worth it?.
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March 21, 2017, 01:10:25 AM
I expect the worst so after playing I don't need to feel regrets because I already know that it is more on lossing and I just leave my fortune on luck. I easily quit gambling cause I always think that if I focus myself on betting I would miss the oppotunities of making money without lossing...

It is not that an easy thing to quit gambling for good. Even you will think that you need to quit gambling and you can do it easily. Still your mind and body will be itchy to gamble that's why you need to do a lot of things before quitting for good. I did experience it before but luckily I had overcome it already and enjoying my life with other things but still manage to gamble for somehow.

If you could it how to manege yourself than why you don't think it is hard to others? Because i also think that i could manege myself, whenever i want to quite gambling for good, and also i do sometime, because addiction in gambling is a bad thing, and i don't want to be addicted person.

Yes addiction is bad thing and that's why we should quit gambling for good. It may be good and easy for others but for some others it is not going to be that easy. That's why you need to do a lot of things like making yourself busy and you will make yourself encourage to do some other things then you can be an overcomer.
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March 21, 2017, 12:37:34 AM

I expect the worst so after playing I don't need to feel regrets because I already know that it is more on lossing and I just leave my fortune on luck. I easily quit gambling cause I always think that if I focus myself on betting I would miss the oppotunities of making money without lossing...

It is not that an easy thing to quit gambling for good. Even you will think that you need to quit gambling and you can do it easily. Still your mind and body will be itchy to gamble that's why you need to do a lot of things before quitting for good. I did experience it before but luckily I had overcome it already and enjoying my life with other things but still manage to gamble for somehow.

If you could it how to manege yourself than why you don't think it is hard to others? Because i also think that i could manege myself, whenever i want to quite gambling for good, and also i do sometime, because addiction in gambling is a bad thing, and i don't want to be addicted person.


Please do realize that not all people are the same.  In short, what is easy for someone is not easy for the other one.  One example of this is skills.  You know how to use a computer but other people who lived in a remote areas or village that has no access to electricity never know how to use computer but they know how to take care of a farm like planting etc.  Now do you know how to take care of a farm?  Never think that all people wear the same shoes with the same sizes.  That is a narrow kind of thinking.  Going back to self control, it needs a lot of discipline to do this, it is good that you have a good self discipline but many does not have it.  That is the main reason why they cannot control themselves when they gamble.

You are absolutely right, I am 100% agree with you. Also i don't want to discourage to anyone. But i want to clear, if We could do it than definitely most of the other addicted gamblers could do it, if they try to control their-self. But you are right, Not everyone have same size of shoes. But it is not impossible thing to quite gambling for good, if we courage our-self.
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March 20, 2017, 07:13:24 PM
I expect the worst so after playing I don't need to feel regrets because I already know that it is more on lossing and I just leave my fortune on luck. I easily quit gambling cause I always think that if I focus myself on betting I would miss the oppotunities of making money without lossing...

Well said and you seem to have that self control, but that's what's lacking in a lot of gamblers. They only gamble because they want to win back their previous bankroll and that firms a chain of addiction that he follows and never ever able to stop so for me to quit gambling for good you need to have self control and know when to start and quit.
The reason why you are addicted is because you do not have self control or lack of self control, that is a big issue and you cannot solve it by your own. Actually if you want to fully quit and solve that problem, you need the guidance of some professional or from your love ones, let them inspire you and believe in their advises as an addicted gambler you are not in the right capacity to think straight.
I think only nerd can not solve this issue about him or her self.. If you have a willingness to stop and quit you can do it.. or decreasing your gambling activity until you quit can also be a good way.. there is no instant if you want to live.. you can slowly remove your self from addiction in gambling.
Like other said psychiatrist can help you to know how should you do to quit in gambling..
What do you mean by nerd only? Nerd means socially awkward or not attractive and I don't think some of them gamble. Maybe once they experience gambling, they might get addicted because of the feeling of winning and you need to stop and know if it's affecting your life.
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March 20, 2017, 06:46:18 PM
I expect the worst so after playing I don't need to feel regrets because I already know that it is more on lossing and I just leave my fortune on luck. I easily quit gambling cause I always think that if I focus myself on betting I would miss the oppotunities of making money without lossing...

Well said and you seem to have that self control, but that's what's lacking in a lot of gamblers. They only gamble because they want to win back their previous bankroll and that firms a chain of addiction that he follows and never ever able to stop so for me to quit gambling for good you need to have self control and know when to start and quit.
The reason why you are addicted is because you do not have self control or lack of self control, that is a big issue and you cannot solve it by your own. Actually if you want to fully quit and solve that problem, you need the guidance of some professional or from your love ones, let them inspire you and believe in their advises as an addicted gambler you are not in the right capacity to think straight.
I think only nerd can not solve this issue about him or her self.. If you have a willingness to stop and quit you can do it.. or decreasing your gambling activity until you quit can also be a good way.. there is no instant if you want to live.. you can slowly remove your self from addiction in gambling.
Like other said psychiatrist can help you to know how should you do to quit in gambling..
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March 20, 2017, 06:32:33 PM
I expect the worst so after playing I don't need to feel regrets because I already know that it is more on lossing and I just leave my fortune on luck. I easily quit gambling cause I always think that if I focus myself on betting I would miss the oppotunities of making money without lossing...

Well said and you seem to have that self control, but that's what's lacking in a lot of gamblers. They only gamble because they want to win back their previous bankroll and that firms a chain of addiction that he follows and never ever able to stop so for me to quit gambling for good you need to have self control and know when to start and quit.
The reason why you are addicted is because you do not have self control or lack of self control, that is a big issue and you cannot solve it by your own. Actually if you want to fully quit and solve that problem, you need the guidance of some professional or from your love ones, let them inspire you and believe in their advises as an addicted gambler you are not in the right capacity to think straight.
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March 20, 2017, 06:21:56 PM
I expect the worst so after playing I don't need to feel regrets because I already know that it is more on lossing and I just leave my fortune on luck. I easily quit gambling cause I always think that if I focus myself on betting I would miss the oppotunities of making money without lossing...

Well said and you seem to have that self control, but that's what's lacking in a lot of gamblers. They only gamble because they want to win back their previous bankroll and that firms a chain of addiction that he follows and never ever able to stop so for me to quit gambling for good you need to have self control and know when to start and quit.
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March 20, 2017, 05:54:03 PM

I certainly agree with this, smoking and gambling has the same effect when you became addicted to it. And for every addiction there's always a solution and making yourself busy will be the only solution to forget that you are an addicted gambler. It's good to do it and lately you will find out that gambling addiction is a crazy thing when you realize your addiction.

Making yourself busy is not saving yourself from addiction. It is more like only hiding the impulse of the addiction for some time and when you got nothing else to do , you will start it again. To cure addiction, you must stop it completely and dont even try it again no matter what happen and for some people this is hard
For me it is ,getting busy out of something will let your focus leave gambling ,although gambling is too hard to wuut but if you enjoy what are you doing like having some time with yourself or whatever you do to quit gambling will help you .Its only a matter of determination . Then you should find some work or hobby again when you finish already in one activity its to easy if you want but i think you're mind is negative to go with this and im sure you are not ready to quit .IMO.
legendary
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March 20, 2017, 02:50:55 PM

I certainly agree with this, smoking and gambling has the same effect when you became addicted to it. And for every addiction there's always a solution and making yourself busy will be the only solution to forget that you are an addicted gambler. It's good to do it and lately you will find out that gambling addiction is a crazy thing when you realize your addiction.

Making yourself busy is not saving yourself from addiction. It is more like only hiding the impulse of the addiction for some time and when you got nothing else to do , you will start it again. To cure addiction, you must stop it completely and dont even try it again no matter what happen and for some people this is hard

Finding hobbies, work and other activities to occupy yourself is essential in dealing with gambling addiction, in my opinion it's completely wrong to say that it's not working. People who have enough willpower to break addiction with a single resolution are such a minority and probably don't get addicted in the first place. But average people who struggle with addiction need all the help they can get, so any advice that can make it easier to deal with addiction is extremely valuable for them, but you just denied it and tell people to "deal with it".
legendary
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March 20, 2017, 02:38:26 PM

I certainly agree with this, smoking and gambling has the same effect when you became addicted to it. And for every addiction there's always a solution and making yourself busy will be the only solution to forget that you are an addicted gambler. It's good to do it and lately you will find out that gambling addiction is a crazy thing when you realize your addiction.

Making yourself busy is not saving yourself from addiction. It is more like only hiding the impulse of the addiction for some time and when you got nothing else to do , you will start it again. To cure addiction, you must stop it completely and dont even try it again no matter what happen and for some people this is hard
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March 20, 2017, 01:45:11 PM
Any habit can be changed either it is gambling or smoking. The only thing you need is to keep your mind out of it and keep yourself busy in different works. Always think of the negative side of that thing which you want to avoid truly.

Most of the people face a huge loss through gambling. A few can earn profit. So if you want to be safe then quit gambling by taking it as your entertainment side. That will help you a lot to quit it for good.

I certainly agree with this, smoking and gambling has the same effect when you became addicted to it. And for every addiction there's always a solution and making yourself busy will be the only solution to forget that you are an addicted gambler. It's good to do it and lately you will find out that gambling addiction is a crazy thing when you realize your addiction.
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March 20, 2017, 01:33:15 PM

I expect the worst so after playing I don't need to feel regrets because I already know that it is more on lossing and I just leave my fortune on luck. I easily quit gambling cause I always think that if I focus myself on betting I would miss the oppotunities of making money without lossing...

It is not that an easy thing to quit gambling for good. Even you will think that you need to quit gambling and you can do it easily. Still your mind and body will be itchy to gamble that's why you need to do a lot of things before quitting for good. I did experience it before but luckily I had overcome it already and enjoying my life with other things but still manage to gamble for somehow.

If you could it how to manege yourself than why you don't think it is hard to others? Because i also think that i could manege myself, whenever i want to quite gambling for good, and also i do sometime, because addiction in gambling is a bad thing, and i don't want to be addicted person.


Please do realize that not all people are the same.  In short, what is easy for someone is not easy for the other one.  One example of this is skills.  You know how to use a computer but other people who lived in a remote areas or village that has no access to electricity never know how to use computer but they know how to take care of a farm like planting etc.  Now do you know how to take care of a farm?  Never think that all people wear the same shoes with the same sizes.  That is a narrow kind of thinking.  Going back to self control, it needs a lot of discipline to do this, it is good that you have a good self discipline but many does not have it.  That is the main reason why they cannot control themselves when they gamble.
legendary
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March 20, 2017, 01:03:40 PM
I expect the worst so after playing I don't need to feel regrets because I already know that it is more on lossing and I just leave my fortune on luck. I easily quit gambling cause I always think that if I focus myself on betting I would miss the oppotunities of making money without lossing...

It is not that an easy thing to quit gambling for good. Even you will think that you need to quit gambling and you can do it easily. Still your mind and body will be itchy to gamble that's why you need to do a lot of things before quitting for good. I did experience it before but luckily I had overcome it already and enjoying my life with other things but still manage to gamble for somehow.

If you could it how to manege yourself than why you don't think it is hard to others? Because i also think that i could manege myself, whenever i want to quite gambling for good, and also i do sometime, because addiction in gambling is a bad thing, and i don't want to be addicted person.
your words seems confusing to me Sad ,
it is indeed never easy to quit gambling for a good reason ,
but as long as you have a stong will i think there is nothing impossible to do .
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March 20, 2017, 12:56:10 PM
Any habit can be changed either it is gambling or smoking. The only thing you need is to keep your mind out of it and keep yourself busy in different works. Always think of the negative side of that thing which you want to avoid truly.

Most of the people face a huge loss through gambling. A few can earn profit. So if you want to be safe then quit gambling by taking it as your entertainment side. That will help you a lot to quit it for good.

Yeah, you are right it depend on our mind how strong aim we have to let anything. If we get succeed to keep us away for a period of time that it will be easy to change our habit easily to get involve into more interesting stuff.
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March 20, 2017, 12:46:31 PM
Any habit can be changed either it is gambling or smoking. The only thing you need is to keep your mind out of it and keep yourself busy in different works. Always think of the negative side of that thing which you want to avoid truly.

Most of the people face a huge loss through gambling. A few can earn profit. So if you want to be safe then quit gambling by taking it as your entertainment side. That will help you a lot to quit it for good.
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March 20, 2017, 12:45:27 PM
I expect the worst so after playing I don't need to feel regrets because I already know that it is more on lossing and I just leave my fortune on luck. I easily quit gambling cause I always think that if I focus myself on betting I would miss the oppotunities of making money without lossing...

It's really funny how all of us knows what will happen to our money when we gamble but we still continue to gamble. Not that because we expect the worst thing to happen but because we've seen it a lot of times happen to us that it just become a normal thing to lose from gambling. This is also the reason why I quit gambling. It's not going anywhere and it's never taking me somewhere. I can gamble any time I want when I quit. It's not a limited thing that I have to do right now because maybe tomorrow I can't do it anymore. Gambling only bring loss of money to me and to people in general.
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March 20, 2017, 11:50:33 AM
I expect the worst so after playing I don't need to feel regrets because I already know that it is more on lossing and I just leave my fortune on luck. I easily quit gambling cause I always think that if I focus myself on betting I would miss the oppotunities of making money without lossing...

It is not that an easy thing to quit gambling for good. Even you will think that you need to quit gambling and you can do it easily. Still your mind and body will be itchy to gamble that's why you need to do a lot of things before quitting for good. I did experience it before but luckily I had overcome it already and enjoying my life with other things but still manage to gamble for somehow.

If you could it how to manege yourself than why you don't think it is hard to others? Because i also think that i could manege myself, whenever i want to quite gambling for good, and also i do sometime, because addiction in gambling is a bad thing, and i don't want to be addicted person.
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March 20, 2017, 02:33:44 AM
I expect the worst so after playing I don't need to feel regrets because I already know that it is more on lossing and I just leave my fortune on luck. I easily quit gambling cause I always think that if I focus myself on betting I would miss the oppotunities of making money without lossing...

It is not that an easy thing to quit gambling for good. Even you will think that you need to quit gambling and you can do it easily. Still your mind and body will be itchy to gamble that's why you need to do a lot of things before quitting for good. I did experience it before but luckily I had overcome it already and enjoying my life with other things but still manage to gamble for somehow.
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March 20, 2017, 02:09:28 AM
I expect the worst so after playing I don't need to feel regrets because I already know that it is more on lossing and I just leave my fortune on luck. I easily quit gambling cause I always think that if I focus myself on betting I would miss the oppotunities of making money without lossing...
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March 20, 2017, 12:36:40 AM
You can not quit gambling for good until you make yourself convince that this has really damaged you and your financial or personal condition which is obvious. Whether it is online or land gambling the process of quitting it neither simple nor easy. You need some kind of metal therapy and strong will for some period to get used out of doing gambling. This way your chances are high to succeed.

To make the chance of success in quitting high, the effective way that I know is by having something to do that could substitute what you get from gambling. With that said, the only thing I know is having a job that pays, or involve your self in arts and sell your products. The times that you are bored and the time that you do not earn is the key to becoming a gambling addict if we feed it and entertain gambling.
a therapy that will help us to change our mindset and more activities that will keep ourselves busy are those we need to really quit gambling for good, without any professional help and without self determination quitting gambling is really hard especially for those who already addicted.
Any addiction could be treated regardless on how serious it is, it is the gamblers will to change that will help the process to be possible. I think most of us have some kind of addiction in gambling as we are here still doing it and we cannot really avoid that due to it's nature that is fun.

many people have this problem too and i think they are doing some preventing to not playing gambling in every time, including me, because if we know the risk, then we should thinking how to quit from gambling. but i admitted to myself, its too difficult to not playing gambling but i am sure i can reduce my habit for playing gambling and i hope other people can do it too.
Once we start to gamble, we should know that there is a risk involve, the risk of losing your money, and that's okay because you are going into it and knowing that you are probably going to lose. It shouldn't be just quitting, that's not always the reason, it's the losing part is what's hard. Try to reclaim what you lost and then quit.
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