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It often happens that people go out to play a variety of games of chance with a certain amount of money, but in the end they spend everything if they are gone. How to prevent which technique you base yourself on to spend no further. It's hard to just give up, people persistent in gambling that day, so they can't just tell themselves they'll try tomorrow. Why is this difficult? Is it because of greed?
There are several reasons why this happens, the most obvious people bring too much money to the casinos, now you can have access to your money in many forms, like credit cards or even the app of your bank on your smart phone and this creates the temptation to gamble with more money than you should, the solution is easy do not bring anything of value to the casino you are not willing to lose.

Another factor is that casinos know this an they try to exploit it, many casinos offer free drinks to gamblers which are making important bets, this is not a courtesy it is a trap, what they are expecting is that you do not think rationally and you decide to gamble even more money, but the solution to this is easy as well, do not drink while you gamble.
In order to restrain oneself from not bring the precious assets to gambling place, the person must understand the worth of his holding himself. Once he realize that, obviously he wont take any risks with them. Greed is the strongest factor here which blinds players and they make big bets. Money is indeed the most attractive thing of this world. Recovering loss becomes passion and winning it for free is addictive.
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If your first purpose was to have fun, then stick to it. It's only a bonus if you win money. But if you loses continuously, then stop already. It's to prevent yourself from losing more. The thing is when you keep on losing, you tend to get irritated and it affects your emotion. So the best thing here is to stop. Stop gambling for a while and let yourself to cool down to avoid losing more
but how?while a gambler is losing the mind set change and what we want is to play and play,nothing behind our mind but to get back the losses.

until we finally out of money and nothing to do but to leave the table,after that we will feel the bitterness that if we stop playing at least there are still some amount left in your pocket lol..
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If your first purpose was to have fun, then stick to it. It's only a bonus if you win money. But if you loses continuously, then stop already. It's to prevent yourself from losing more. The thing is when you keep on losing, you tend to get irritated and it affects your emotion. So the best thing here is to stop. Stop gambling for a while and let yourself to cool down to avoid losing more
It all depends on who plays it and must really play gambling just for fun, but it is not a guarantee and as long as you have the capital you will continue to play because the most difficult is to control yourself and when playing losing, it will arouse a sense Curious that makes you want to continue playing and in reality it will make you lose everything.

and the way that I often experience is to bring enough capital and I prepared beforehand, and if I lose because the capital runs out I stop playing even though there is a feeling of wanting to keep playing but cannot continue because there is no capital, and if I win it is my luck.
I hope you can make it and can control your emotions along the way of losing your capital. It is good to set some limitation but somehow it can be changed especially when we are in addiction pushing ourselves to stay in the table and used our extra money set aside. Yes, it depends on how we bring the situation into right, keeping ourselves aware of what it happens to us (either we used up already our capital) we can still avoid the worse thing to happen to get into debts or loans.
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If your first purpose was to have fun, then stick to it. It's only a bonus if you win money. But if you loses continuously, then stop already. It's to prevent yourself from losing more. The thing is when you keep on losing, you tend to get irritated and it affects your emotion. So the best thing here is to stop. Stop gambling for a while and let yourself to cool down to avoid losing more
It all depends on who plays it and must really play gambling just for fun, but it is not a guarantee and as long as you have the capital you will continue to play because the most difficult is to control yourself and when playing losing, it will arouse a sense Curious that makes you want to continue playing and in reality it will make you lose everything.

and the way that I often experience is to bring enough capital and I prepared beforehand, and if I lose because the capital runs out I stop playing even though there is a feeling of wanting to keep playing but cannot continue because there is no capital, and if I win it is my luck.
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It often happens that people go out to play a variety of games of chance with a certain amount of money, but in the end they spend everything if they are gone. How to prevent which technique you base yourself on to spend no further. It's hard to just give up, people persistent in gambling that day, so they can't just tell themselves they'll try tomorrow. Why is this difficult? Is it because of greed?
There are several reasons why this happens, the most obvious people bring too much money to the casinos, now you can have access to your money in many forms, like credit cards or even the app of your bank on your smart phone and this creates the temptation to gamble with more money than you should, the solution is easy do not bring anything of value to the casino you are not willing to lose.

Another factor is that casinos know this an they try to exploit it, many casinos offer free drinks to gamblers which are making important bets, this is not a courtesy it is a trap, what they are expecting is that you do not think rationally and you decide to gamble even more money, but the solution to this is easy as well, do not drink while you gamble.
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If your first purpose was to have fun, then stick to it. It's only a bonus if you win money. But if you loses continuously, then stop already. It's to prevent yourself from losing more. The thing is when you keep on losing, you tend to get irritated and it affects your emotion. So the best thing here is to stop. Stop gambling for a while and let yourself to cool down to avoid losing more
The best thing that you should have is the ability to stop. Each time you see your bankroll is suffering and you keep on losing from each bets are off that you take, call that day and quit. There's no sense of keep pushing if you lose some from your initial bankroll. There's a lots of day so better to free up some time go away and leave the house. Go back the next day and try your luck.

Majorly when people lose their first thing is to play further in order to recover the lost money as many just play to win or make money from it . On other hand if someone just takes limited amount and no cards then they can just play to that amount and if they lost they will have to go back .
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If your first purpose was to have fun, then stick to it. It's only a bonus if you win money. But if you loses continuously, then stop already. It's to prevent yourself from losing more. The thing is when you keep on losing, you tend to get irritated and it affects your emotion. So the best thing here is to stop. Stop gambling for a while and let yourself to cool down to avoid losing more

No matter what, the situation will change if he can win, and that will make his greediness will be bigger than before. He needs to be careful of that, so he didn't continue playing gambling, but he will stop to play. It will difficult to do if his confidence becomes bigger too because sometimes that will influence our decision in gambling, so many of us still decide to play more games. That will affect our emotions because once the confidence is bigger, the greediness will be also bigger and voila. Everything will change.
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If your first purpose was to have fun, then stick to it. It's only a bonus if you win money. But if you loses continuously, then stop already. It's to prevent yourself from losing more. The thing is when you keep on losing, you tend to get irritated and it affects your emotion. So the best thing here is to stop. Stop gambling for a while and let yourself to cool down to avoid losing more
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If a person lose his money at first try so it means thae he need to take break and think about to recover lose but keep one thing in mind this try should only be to recover your lose not to become greedy player who want to make money only. As much as possible gamblers should enjoy gambling than putting stress of winning on their mind and lose the remaining money as well so just control before its too late.

if you loss on first try then why try again on the second try ? if not then try again on the third try  . if you still not hit it , that is the time to take a break to unwind but not to think about your losses   .  its hard to not get greedy while you are trying to get back what you loss  . if your unlucky  , you will end up lossing more . 
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It often happens that people go out to play a variety of games of chance with a certain amount of money, but in the end they spend everything if they are gone. How to prevent which technique you base yourself on to spend no further. It's hard to just give up, people persistent in gambling that day, so they can't just tell themselves they'll try tomorrow. Why is this difficult? Is it because of greed?

First and foremost, before you can understand why some people end up losing or spending all their money gambling, you should know that there are different types of gamblers. We have people who don't really mind risking some amount of money without and others who can also risk all their money on gambling.  And the nature of people who gamble is greed.  Greed is what makes it difficult for people to avoid losing all their gambling capital at that particular moment.  In addition to this, personal control is the only way someone can actually stop him/herself from losing all his/her money used for gambling.
There is a question why they are soo much in greed? Why they can't control themselves? And you're right, we can't point out clearly what makes them be like that until such time that they'll talk to you. We are living with greed for sure but we'd try also to manage it and place in the proper way which I believe this was the hardest part of our life.

Losing is already a part of our life in gambling, and not even to mention that those successful gamblers for how many times they'd lose before they got there. But they never give up and lost their patience cause controlling our emotions is can't be instant, it needs practice.
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It often happens that people go out to play a variety of games of chance with a certain amount of money, but in the end they spend everything if they are gone. How to prevent which technique you base yourself on to spend no further. It's hard to just give up, people persistent in gambling that day, so they can't just tell themselves they'll try tomorrow. Why is this difficult? Is it because of greed?
Obviously it's because of greed. Human nature is based positive attitude and we always think it's our day. When we are earning light profits we try to go full repeatedly thinking that it's our day and then end up losing everything. Similarly if we face one or two losses we still remain optimistic. I think best is to merely go out with less money. Don't keep a lot of money in your gambling account. Whenever you win something try to withdraw it as soon as possible. This is the trick to restrain yourself.

Along with greed, what is important is that one should know that no matter how much they win, they will not be happy. And even if they lose, they will continue to live life. So it's not like without that profit they want, they won't survive! That's a way I suppress my temptations to bet more.
Exactly if you lose small so you will hope to win next but we will have to control this greed of hoping to earn even more. A person when gamble he wants to earn more and more he will be excited what can happen next so great will never finish but it’s important to control your emotions and your greed if you want to earn from gambling.
   If a person lose his money at first try so it means thae he need to take break and think about to recover lose but keep one thing in mind this try should only be to recover your lose not to become greedy player who want to make money only. As much as possible gamblers should enjoy gambling than putting stress of winning on their mind and lose the remaining money as well so just control before its too late.
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It often happens that people go out to play a variety of games of chance with a certain amount of money, but in the end they spend everything if they are gone. How to prevent which technique you base yourself on to spend no further. It's hard to just give up, people persistent in gambling that day, so they can't just tell themselves they'll try tomorrow. Why is this difficult? Is it because of greed?

First and foremost, before you can understand why some people end up losing or spending all their money gambling, you should know that there are different types of gamblers. We have people who don't really mind risking some amount of money without and others who can also risk all their money on gambling.  And the nature of people who gamble is greed.  Greed is what makes it difficult for people to avoid losing all their gambling capital at that particular moment.  In addition to this, personal control is the only way someone can actually stop him/herself from losing all his/her money used for gambling.
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It often happens that people go out to play a variety of games of chance with a certain amount of money, but in the end they spend everything if they are gone. How to prevent which technique you base yourself on to spend no further. It's hard to just give up, people persistent in gambling that day, so they can't just tell themselves they'll try tomorrow. Why is this difficult? Is it because of greed?
You already answered that is because of greed. I once had this desire, I really wanted to have all the money on the table and beat others but I didn't realize that that desire was destroying me.

I often go home with no money, I really really want to have all my opponent's money, as time went by I was able to control myself because there was one event that required me to change my vices.

there are not many ways to not lose money on gambling, controlling emotion sometimes just buying time to not lose at one time, but at least it's good to get luck in another day. management is certainly very important not to lose a lot of money and of course, that's about greed.
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It often happens that people go out to play a variety of games of chance with a certain amount of money, but in the end they spend everything if they are gone. How to prevent which technique you base yourself on to spend no further. It's hard to just give up, people persistent in gambling that day, so they can't just tell themselves they'll try tomorrow. Why is this difficult? Is it because of greed?
You already answered that is because of greed. I once had this desire, I really wanted to have all the money on the table and beat others but I didn't realize that that desire was destroying me.

I often go home with no money, I really really want to have all my opponent's money, as time went by I was able to control myself because there was one event that required me to change my vices.
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One can set up auto debit from bank for bills so they will not be even able to touch those funds for gambling before they are debited for good reasons. Also saving money in fixed deposit works as it won't let you withdraw money you save

This may work, for some time

But it doesn't solve the main issue, i.e. someone being reckless with their money. Yes, we can take money from children, and they won't be able to spend it on something stupid. But we expect them to grow up in due course and be responsible for their actions on their own. In this way, setting up obstacles that would prevent you from reckless spending is more like fighting with symptoms rather than the disease itself (read, you will lose this fight in the end)

But here's the catch. Time makes people mature

But does it really?

As I'm inclined to think, typically people don't change much after they are adults, which is somewhere in their late 20's or early 30's. Time changes people but not necessarily for the better. When you are set in your ways, they are kinda set in stone. Otherwise, drug addiction could be easily cured by simple abstinence, but it doesn't work that way. If you are an addict (alcohol, drugs, gambles, whatever), it is more often than not for life. You can stand back but you may relapse into your addiction at any time, which basically means your addiction didn't go anywhere and is still with you
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It often happens that people go out to play a variety of games of chance with a certain amount of money, but in the end they spend everything if they are gone. How to prevent which technique you base yourself on to spend no further. It's hard to just give up, people persistent in gambling that day, so they can't just tell themselves they'll try tomorrow. Why is this difficult? Is it because of greed?
Obviously it's because of greed. Human nature is based positive attitude and we always think it's our day. When we are earning light profits we try to go full repeatedly thinking that it's our day and then end up losing everything. Similarly if we face one or two losses we still remain optimistic. I think best is to merely go out with less money. Don't keep a lot of money in your gambling account. Whenever you win something try to withdraw it as soon as possible. This is the trick to restrain yourself.

Along with greed, what is important is that one should know that no matter how much they win, they will not be happy. And even if they lose, they will continue to live life. So it's not like without that profit they want, they won't survive! That's a way I suppress my temptations to bet more.
Exactly if you lose small so you will hope to win next but we will have to control this greed of hoping to earn even more. A person when gamble he wants to earn more and more he will be excited what can happen next so great will never finish but it’s important to control your emotions and your greed if you want to earn from gambling.
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It often happens that people go out to play a variety of games of chance with a certain amount of money, but in the end they spend everything if they are gone. How to prevent which technique you base yourself on to spend no further. It's hard to just give up, people persistent in gambling that day, so they can't just tell themselves they'll try tomorrow. Why is this difficult? Is it because of greed?
It's in fact mostly because they win. When you lose each time, you'll give up because you never win anything. You'll think it's just a losing game and move on. But when you win small gains from time to time, you'll go on.
That’s the attitude of a occasional gamblers to let go when they lose and realize that there is something wrong and this will save them from losing more.

But things changes if we are talking about regular gamblers and those addicted because for sure the more they lose is the more eagerness of winning and won’t stop until losing everything

This is the sad reality of gambling and the only chance to remain safe?be responsible gambler and always look for way out and not to get in
Yes, I agree because once they become addicted to gambling, they can't stop it even the consequence is losing everything. But that's in the side of an addicted gambler, but if you are not addicted to gambling and just trying to have some fun, try to have some budget that you afford it to lose because if you want to earn/ have some profit, it's precarious. Smiley
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It often happens that people go out to play a variety of games of chance with a certain amount of money, but in the end they spend everything if they are gone. How to prevent which technique you base yourself on to spend no further. It's hard to just give up, people persistent in gambling that day, so they can't just tell themselves they'll try tomorrow. Why is this difficult? Is it because of greed?
It's in fact mostly because they win. When you lose each time, you'll give up because you never win anything. You'll think it's just a losing game and move on. But when you win small gains from time to time, you'll go on.
That’s the attitude of a occasional gamblers to let go when they lose and realize that there is something wrong and this will save them from losing more.

But things changes if we are talking about regular gamblers and those addicted because for sure the more they lose is the more eagerness of winning and won’t stop until losing everything

This is the sad reality of gambling and the only chance to remain safe?be responsible gambler and always look for way out and not to get in
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It often happens that people go out to play a variety of games of chance with a certain amount of money, but in the end they spend everything if they are gone. How to prevent which technique you base yourself on to spend no further. It's hard to just give up, people persistent in gambling that day, so they can't just tell themselves they'll try tomorrow. Why is this difficult? Is it because of greed?
Definitely that's because of greed and also trying to cut back their losses. I have also lost many a times whole of my bankroll just trying to earn few cents over a dollar and lost all the bankroll chasing that bad decision. What I try to do is I decide the amount that I am gonna risk right before starting the session and if I lose then I just go out or do something else,but never chase that loss.
Definitely it's a good decision, just use the amount that you just can afford to lose then after that just stop, I know it is hard to apply but once that we have discipline by playing gambling with that kind of strategy then we can lessen our loses, and at the same time high chance of winning because we can have some amount for another day to use to play again and try our luck for next time we play.

But that will be still difficult to hope to get the win because nobody will know if they can win or not. We might expect to win, but the results still hard to predict as, in gambling, we could only enjoy the game than to think about winning. But at least, I agree with your saying that we can have lessened our loses on that day and we still have the money to be played the next day.

Maybe people who use this strategy are not much because once we are playing gambling, we can forget everything, including how much money we should use. We only stop playing gambling when our money is gone, but we will come back on the other day.
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It often happens that people go out to play a variety of games of chance with a certain amount of money, but in the end they spend everything if they are gone. How to prevent which technique you base yourself on to spend no further. It's hard to just give up, people persistent in gambling that day, so they can't just tell themselves they'll try tomorrow. Why is this difficult? Is it because of greed?
Definitely that's because of greed and also trying to cut back their losses. I have also lost many a times whole of my bankroll just trying to earn few cents over a dollar and lost all the bankroll chasing that bad decision. What I try to do is I decide the amount that I am gonna risk right before starting the session and if I lose then I just go out or do something else,but never chase that loss.
Definitely it's a good decision, just use the amount that you just can afford to lose then after that just stop, I know it is hard to apply but once that we have discipline by playing gambling with that kind of strategy then we can lessen our loses, and at the same time high chance of winning because we can have some amount for another day to use to play again and try our luck for next time we play.
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