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So, it is, well, not all players have the same perspectives, things have a different way of looking when they are shown to players who have more experience, as far as I am concerned, I have seen the attitude of some friendly players, they see the game almost like a necessity to do, it doesn't matter that it's every day in a moderate way, this makes things change in them, in their brain, it doesn't matter that things don't happen to them, even if they lose, I think finally They understand that the game is made practically for fun, that every time they play they have to have that money ready to be lost, but don't feel sorry for things to keep flowing, I say this from the point of view that I have a couple of friends, who always play street games, but it's a somewhat safe street game, because they do it with the cops.
The border police always let some contraband through, this friend is going to play with them betting on dice, and I have had the opportunity to see how he also loses and still does not lose control, I know he is angry , and he even swears at the Police, but the truth is that 100% of what he talks about, 90% is pure Rudeness , but they still know what he is like, and even though he has losses , he has had more gains than losses , That's something I don't Understand , however when they play he tells them that what they do is "rattle" and "rattle" is a word that means something like taking money from those who smuggle and that they also use that smuggling they have their cut, that is what the word is basically assigned to the police, and since everything is money in the world, these things are common in these third world countries and since it is the most Active frontera in all of South America , they are things that all the military, police guards do whatever it takes to be able to send them to that border, because in a matter of a day they are Capable of making up to more than 500 usd , they all fight to go there, so what I rescue here is that despite that players lose, there is always something they like about this type of game, whether on the street, in traditional casinos , or in online casinos , the attitude of a Mature player Always has to be one of acceptance and maturity in order to continue Maintaining afloat on this.
That means players like us have to set an example so that we can also moderate our gambling game and not cross the boundaries we may have made long ago to get back on the right track. Indeed some players can realize that gambling is made just for fun and not to make money, and they fully know that what they do in gambling is for fun. And for that, they always try to set a gambling budget and keep themselves on track. They can also stop before all their money is spent on gambling so they still have a balance in their account that they can use to gamble another day. That's what we really have to be aware of and follow to avoid gambling addiction, and we may not know when gambling addiction will come.
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unfortunately it is very difficult for people to accept defeats, nobody likes to lose, even in a friendly game, with friends and that money is not involved, when someone loses in this game that person gets angry and hardly accepts that defeat. there are cases in which people soon resort to violence even if the same person they are attacking is a friend who always helps them, but as in the game he lost, he loses his head and attacks his friend. Right here in my neighborhood there are gambling and I have constantly seen people come in to play, they join a group of friends and after a few hours the confusion starts, they argue a lot and then they start to fight
and the most unbelievable thing is that the reason for the fight is because the guys who lost in the game of chance didn't accept defeat and the winners started laughing at the losers, with that the guys who lost started the fight, I can't sleep because of their fight , but as there are no police and no one strong to go and help their fight, so we are simply praying that their common sense prevails and they stop fighting. this happens even when people are playing in physical casinos, people who lose a lot leave the physical casino frustrated and sad and for that reason they even resort to the use of drugs so that their pain goes away, but when they do that these people start to get addicted to drugs
in my case, when I started playing I lost a lot, before each game I created a lot of expectations and made a plan about what I would do in case of victory, but when the game ended I saw that I lost money and I was sad and disappointed, with 1 months playing I realized that it was making me very bad and that's why I decided to stop playing and I only went back to playing after years and when I came back to play, I created rules that I follow, one of them is that I shouldn't put emotions in the game, to losing is part of the game and I don't create high expectations when I play
Indeed, no one likes to lose, and they will issue various expressions to show their displeasure to others, and they may even use violence to let others know that they do not like losing. But they should have realized that if it is a gambling game, they have two choices, win or lose. If they win, they can express their win; if they lose, they can't be angry and must accept it. After all, didn't the opposing party also use or express their defeat with anger?
Experiencing loss can disappoint and frustrate us, but we must remember that we cannot win continuously and will take turns with the opposing party. So we must be able to carry ourselves, including calming our emotions when we experience that defeat. And this is why we must be able to control our emotions wherever and whenever to remain calm no matter what happens. And if we carry this attitude over to gambling, we can certainly cool off our emotions, and maybe we can just leave the casino to calm the emotions that haven't been able to go away.
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A good point is to prevent that lust to keep playing, if you pause for a while or quit for a while you will manage to make good decision compared to keep trying and keep experiencing more losing streak, that will lead you to more money to lose, you need to be wise and have that clear mindset not to follow your emotions if you wanted to control your bankroll management.
The more you stay calm, the better you can think. If you pause for a while and let that bad vibes to pass, maybe you may find ways to start winning back, just maybe, but no guarantee as you are into gambling.
By stopping for a while, at least you can take a deep breath and relax your body and mind to relieve your emotions that you may be unable to hold back. Usually, emotions will peak when we experience consecutive losses, which can cause us to rush into gambling, and there is a possibility that we will increase the number of bets because we want to get a big win at once. But without good self-control, we will not be able to calm down and lose self-control even more to experience even more defeats.
By stopping, we can get peace, especially if we can drink fresh water, giving us freshness. And there is indeed no guarantee of winning when gambling, and we must be aware of that.
