Topic: I need your ideas (Read 584 times)

Mate bear this in mind that no matter the depth of the situation we plunge ourselves into suicide is not an option and that's because there's always a better solution or solution's to any problem. You have mad a mistake quite alright but don't make another mistake which is suicide. There have been people that had gone through worst situation than yours but then they never saw suicide as an option ,now today they're stand tall and have overcome the whole issues that weighed them down and I believe yours can be resolved but not through suicidal thoughts,factor that energy of suicidal thoughts to ways of getting solution and you will be 90% way to clearing your debts already and living comfortably. Okay!

Suicide cannot solve your problems because it is against religious law for you to commit suicide, and even if you pass away, I doubt the bank will let you off the hook for the debt you owe them because your family will be responsible for paying it. Therefore, my advice to you is to explain your situation to anyone you believe in so that they can help you and you can also work hard to pay the debt. After that, don't think about your options again or getting involved in anything concern gambling.

You don't kill yourself but you try to solve it and admit your mistake. You gambled with the loan from the bank and suffered losses. Now start trending with a small amount without gambling with the loan again. Of course, if you trade wisely, you will be able to earn good profits. Remember that you have to pay off your debt and be careful not to gamble again. Only then will you be able to pay off your debts and have a bright future in your life.

I might not know how much you borrowed from your bank to gamble with but talking to someone closer to you will go a long way. While waiting for the time to payback the loan in the meanwhile getting involved in jobs that will raise funds to offset the debt will be a better option as long as there is life all hope isn't lost.

I would hope this is not a cry for free money or to bring some to feel
Guilt. Maybe you are truly hurt and addicted to gambling . Gambling is a dirty business and the house (site , casino or operator) always wins in the long run. The odds are always against you. Gambling is bad. With that being said you need to keep your head up and be positive and learn from your horrible mistakes . Health is wealth and you can recover form this but suicide you cannot . An honestly to say it bluntly, is a weak way out of current said depression. I think you need to focus more on yourself and those around you whom you care and value you highly. Think of friends and family who would be devastated by your passing…. Lost money is just money. Stay strong my friend !

Depending on where someone lives, walking into an emergency room is a good way of owing even MORE money. mental health services come with a cost attached to them in some cases. just something to be aware of. they can get you into even deeper financial hole. by all means if it's really an emergency then i guess its necessary but they're not your friend and they do want to collect money. hopefully they take bitcoin. maybe your first recommendation is better or just talk to a friend.

I don't know what country your in or laws in your area but bankruptcy is actually a good thing instead of being a slave to bank and your mistakes. They took a calculated risk and "gambled" on you don't feel bad about it.

There are many hotlines at your disposal, maybe your church has or could guide you to some services. Simply walk into a emergency room and they can help you immediately.

Good luck buddy.

Well first I must say I am really sorry to hear about this but committing suicide is not the answer. I would also recommend that you seeks out therapy for this gambling habit and make sure you stay in the program.

There are many treatment programs for gambling addiction and hotlines to call for help. If one of my friends had such a problem as you say you do, I would help them get treatment because I care for their mental well-being.

aren't crypto casinos just scams in that most people are going to be losers so basically this is bad advice in the sense that he will just be trying to encourage people into becoming just like him, someone that lost all their money from gambling.

also he would need to careful that he's not breaking any laws by being involved in internet gambling. not all banks are friendly towards that type of business. but who cares about that kind of stuff right? just post your ads and try and fleece new gamblers for as much as you can.

hey bro,

everything will be alright - the sun will come up every day and you will be able to compensate, even learn and earn way more money then before.

I lost a lot through gambling but there are ways to go where you can earn with crypto casinos, such as affiliate.
You can easily build yourself a following and earn referrals and then earn from these casinos, completely for free - with just a little bit of work everyday.

Keep your head up and work towards a better future, where you stake, lock and compound your earned tokens and buy a house and a nice car eventually 

well you would think that someone that lost everything gambling it would take them out of play for a while, while they try and build up another bankroll. that would give them time to think about what they're doing. if they go through that cycle enough times, it is probably somewhat self correcting in the sense that at some point, they get tired of being dead broke.

people can do drugs and live a functional life financially. it is possible.

 

Suicide is a great sin. And suicide is not the solution to everything.
 Remember people learn from mistakes, you should not kill yourself. because you might have lost all your money by mistake. Now you should learn from your mistakes and become a successful trader. You don't make yourself a coward by committing suicide. Remember that people can change themselves through hard work and effort. So never think of suicide change yourself and achieve success.

You won't gonna suicide mate. The one who's gonna suicide never look down from bridge. Now you're trying to figure out some solution it means you are looking down! Be calm down firstly, then accept your mistakes. Try to make money and pay banks. If its not enough don't worry banks will offer you some kind of new payment plan. With this new payment plan they will charge you more but they will be sure youre gonna pay it. Pay it and never turn back to gambling. If you failed one more time you'll lose your future and struggle with your mistakes. Don't lost your life and brilliant future.

Try to gambling on horse race or football but with small amount and collect til you not pay bank loan plus find a few extra mini-jobs and work hard.I know several people who have lost money like you.

Rather, do not get carried away.  Problem gamblers know that they are going to lose more money, in the same way that a heroin addict knows he is going to end badly if he doesn't quit.


Fentanyl is not the same as either alcohol or gambling but the parallel I am trying to draw is that an ex-alcoholic has the opportunity to drink again in a few minutes, especially if he lives in a city and not in the middle of the mountains. The gambler can also return to gambling in seconds with his cell phone. At the end of the day, the one who recovers knows how to live with it.

disagree. they're not "all over" the internet. alot of websites contain no blatant banner ads to gambling websites. because they don't accept such ads. i would say most websites do not contain gambling ads.

you mean like come to the realization that they are going to just lose more money if they keep gambling?



alcohol and gambling are not the same.

Gambling ads are all over the internet, not only in this forum. In the end, the recovering person has to be able to view those ads in an emotionally neutral way and not gamble again, just as a recovering alcoholic cannot lock himself in a basement and not come out again so as not to see opportunities to buy alcohol. There are opportunities to drink alcohol everywhere, just as there are opportunities to gamble, and you have to know how to live with that without falling back into it.

If you have a gambling addiction or problem, this site may not be the best place to hang out as they will show you banner ads that promote gambling websites. Truth.

yeah you can go sparta and not go athens

but the truth is both ways are wrong.

the biggest issue how to separate people and get rid of the bad seeds correctly.


basically we as humans have been pretty bad at doing this.

very likely we will continue to be this way for the near future and middle future and far future.

it is likely hard wired in us to not be able to sort the troubled ones out and help or get rid of them.

ie Charley Manson did not need to spend decades in a prison a ten cent bullet could have saved us some money.

I find him to be a good example of failing to rid ourselves of anchors or rocks 🪨 so to speak.

As for the op I can tell him the last bet I made was in July of 1990 the last illegal drug I took was in Jan of 1991 and the last tobacco I used was on Feb 29th 1996.

And the only person I have been with intimately since 1985 is my wife.

And it has been a very good time for me far better then my partying and gambling years from 1972 to early 1985.

All because i got Athens treatment for my fucked up behavior.

I know lots of people treated “easy” with compassion and their failure rate was over 50%



Personally I would of failed with hard treatment. But I can tell you my bro-in-law got easy treatment much like me and is a spectacular failure. He will continue to be a mess as he has past the point of no return.

He gave himself dementia due to terrible diet and will not recover.

Hopefully you will find a way out of this and will have learned to change your ways. If not.... Just another case of Darwin at work...