The TL;DR of a point further discussed below is that if the same standards are applied to ibminer as were applied to alia, then this...
Something that is technically correct
Well, I certainly think the term "e-whore" is broad enough to include scammers whose scam involves (the pretence of) providing sexual services, but I'm neither ordinary nor (according to some people) reasonable, so make of that what you will.
“Pretzel logic”, Exhibit A: “Because he was aware of the circumstance involving a camgirl, it’s a good chance he used the term ‘e-whore’ to refer to a male scammer.”“e-whore” to refer to an identified male scammer
Considering that ibminer was well aware of the circumstances of alia's scam
I would say that it's a good chance he mean exactly that.People who are not aware of what happened back then might think that you tried to promote some underage prostitute
I doubt it.
...is starting to look an awful lot like this:I feel like I summarized this scammer pretty well in my prior post but I guess people still believe there is a sister...
[...]
If
my brother wants to respond to whatever allegations you are making, or what he has said in the past, he will do so.
favours is my fucking brother.
Merited by ibminer (1)You're probably thinking of a different Dave, but yes, I'll get to it. I'm still waiting for you (or anyone) to show me who I scammed.
Oh, dear. How many Daves are there who run famous wallet recovery services, widely known as “the best”?
On grounds of “not born yesterday”, I didn’t buy such tomfoolery from alia. Not even when I had obvious personal motives to
want to believe her, and to
hope that there was some terrible mistake. No way! Bullshit is bullshit, and I blowtorched alia as soon as I smelled it on alia. Do not expect differently here.
For this argument amounts to,
“You’re probably thinking of a different word ‘whore’, but yes, the word ‘underage’ can shift its meaning somewhat.” Not buying it.
I do not think OP wants to tag ibminer either.
If I had
wanted to tag ibminer, I would have damn well done it already! In almost every other instance in which I have created a Reputation thread against somebody, I tagged immediately with OP; hereto, the only exceptions have been the cases in which I had
already tagged, before I decided that a dedicated thread for it was warranted.
Or is suchmoon accusing me of being
hesitant about tagging? Maybe of waiting to hear other people’s opinions before I act?
I think it’s bloody obvious that I do not
want to tag ibminer. —Do not
want to. Wherefore indeed, I procrastinated and avoided this since February.
Well, I certainly think the term "e-whore" is broad enough to include scammers whose scam involves (the pretence of) providing sexual services, but I'm neither ordinary nor (according to some people) reasonable, so make of that what you will.
To me "e-whore" without context doesn't mean literal prostitution and top definitions on
Urban Dictionary are about attention whoring, not webcam stuff. Granted the word "underage" may shift that meaning somewhat...
That is indeed the slang used in some places. However, if you want to be so technical...
Something that is technically correct
...the term “underage
scammer” is technically incorrect on its face. More importantly, it is obviously not what was meant here. The word “underage” does not merely “shift that meaning somewhat” (!).
Underage denotes that there is a minimal age limit for an activity to be considered legitimate. It is also an emotionally charged word, in the context of anything involving any kind of sexual activity—
especially sexual entertainment in exchange for money.
Furthermore (and more importantly in the context of reputation and the defamation thereof), hereby bending credulity well past its breaking point:
ibminer chose to use wording which an
ordinary reasonable person anybody with an IQ above room temperature would expect for people to read as as I did.
At best, it would be a
double entendre that >99% of people would read as “underage camgirl”. That would be underhanded and deceitful.
Or will he now claim that he
just didn’t realize that the term “whore” is associated with sex work, and didn’t realize that he was applying the word “whore” to an account that was used for online sex work?
You're probably thinking of a different Dave,
To me "e-whore" without context doesn't mean literal prostitution and top definitions on
Urban Dictionary are about attention whoring, not webcam stuff. Granted the word "underage"
may shift that meaning somewhatWith due apologies for the evident necessity of belabouring the obvious:
The term “underage scammer” is ridiculous, unless we presume that there is a proper legal age for legitimate scams. Do we start to “card” for it or do otherwise age verification, to make sure that scammers are not underage?
Contrast:
- “Juvenile scammer”, “minor scammer”, “teen scammer” (an ambiguous, overloaded word—but everybody will know what is colloquially meant here; contrast the very different implication of “teen porn”, a marketing shorthand for ages 18–19), etc.
- “Underage porn”, “underage prostitution”, “underage camgirl”, “underage girlfriend”, etc.—or in non-sexual contexts, “underage drinking”, “underage purchase of cigarettes”, etc., etc.
These just look stupid:
- “Underage serial killer” (Do we age-check for this, too?)
- “Underage drug dealer”
- “Underage terrorist”
- “Underage armed robber”
- “Underage rapist”
- “Underage scammer”
This is why I invoked an “ordinary reasonable person” standard. It prevents all sorts of word-twisting. I think that in the context, with an actual camgirl involved, a claim by ibminer that he oh so innocently meant “underage scammer” would be a “
dog ate my homework favours is my fucking brother!! and I meant the other Dave!!” level of excuse.
Reputation is essential, as I tried to explain
here, fact stated also by Tim May: "
Reputations will be of central importance, far more important in dealings than even the credit ratings of today".
Yes.
Especially for a pseudonymous account behind Tor. Reputation is
all that I have here; this is backwards, for the reasons explained by T. C. May:
Something that relates to the virtual reputation of your perfectly anonymous account, which you boast about so often.
I do think it’s remarkable that several people are essentially criticizing me for using a forum named “Reputation” to discuss reputational issues.
From all the above mentioned aspects, I consider that nullius proceeded in a legit manner for defending his reputation. And, as he proved ibminer's statements to be false, it would be expected that ibminer would say "I'm sorry, I was wrong. And I'll correct my mistake. First of all, by apologizing".
I do not wish either faith to ibminer, I just hope he removes the statement and this thread is shut down.
This is indeed an ugly thread. I did not want to create it; and I do not want to keep it going. Although I doubt that anything will change my own loss of respect for ibminer or my distrust of his judgment, I think it’s clear straight from OP that I will consider this thread to be resolved if my stated demand for an appropriately marked retraction is met. An apology would be decent; but in principle, I am disinclined to demand such things, or even ask for them, for I strongly dislike fake, coerced “apologies”. I am addressing only (contra)factual statements here—in a general manner similar to what I would do in a courtroom defamation case, adjusted appropriately for the nature of the venue as a Reputation forum.
Edit—minor corrections above, plus this addendum:If he actually wanted to change one word - this is one of the worst ways to proceed. If he wanted to smear ibminer - it's not a bad effort, C-.
So, ibminer falsely associated me with an “underage e-whore”, and
I am the one smearing
him by calling him out for it?
That is much worse than “pretzel logic”.
(Hostile and defamatory public statements should be dealt with in public. But nice try saying that I should have hushed this up in PM—so that if the issue were not resolved by a “
polite PM” about ibminer’s rude remark, you could accuse me of being untrustworthy if I reasonably needed to publish the PMs to protect my reputation. Not playing your game.)
Edit again: (
statement moved here)