That is a list of nodes and I am connected to those and can we all check that we havnt forked this ?
For everyone that is synced up ok are you all on Node Height: 42613 ( at time of writing this ) I dont undersatnd how some are ok and others are not
There are several factor that may affect the connectivity, unopen port, no conf file, or the antivirus is rejecting connections. These are some of the possible reason why people have difficulty in sync'ing. I think it has been discussed on how to create ICOBID.conf file here, you can try to search on how to open port in the internet or can disable antivirus to check if it will connect (but probably not a good idea).