Well, I think it's just a coincidence. Because if so, and working in your case them why not bet small so you can win consistently, right? Just like in martingale strategy, if you increase your wager after loss, your mindset is recovering the losses quick by doing this strategy. But is it really working? No. Because there's no such consistent winning since losing is also inevitable.
Gambling is unpredictable, you can win or lose base on your luck. Therefore, regardless of how much you wager, if you're not lucky then you can't win.
It is a coincidence that happens to everyone. When we bet big, there are times that it's not going to hit big just as what we think it should be. That's why I agree that a gambler should just bet small so that there won't be hot takes like this and no regrets afterward when there are unfortunate moments upon betting. As for the martingale, it pushes us to bet more after each bets for the thinking that we might get lucky next. That's true with that comparison and it's hard to get on that idea when you've been stuck into doing so. We can conclude here to just gamble responsibly and gamble with the amount that you're okay and can afford to lose. So if there are moments that you can't accept, you'd just say to yourself that it's fine because you only bet small. But again with these moments, you'll have the realization again about what if you bet big and you win that time. I guess that's the cycle there and it's not going to stop anytime soon, we always have those times that we regret, we compare, we try to think again of what ifs and etc. pertaining to the result of our bets.
It was not just a coincidence because that always happens to most of us and I've found it why, it was because they feel unconscious when betting huge amounts leading to making wrong decisions, unlike betting a small amount where just feel okay if ever we lose. We're not sure if there is a pattern applied by most gambling sites but I think they know the behavior of the bettors based on their betting style. If we never calm down and just let our emotions decide, we will never have the chance to win.
I think this type of thing has always happened to us, as people who have always sought to win more and more, but when they give themselves the opportunity, we don't see if it's worth it or not, sometimes the bets are not enough or we think they can't be made. Nor should they do, I have experienced what they say, I have bet hard and I lose, then when I bet on cheap money I win, it is as if the casino knew my economic situation LOL , so those types of things are what make me not as a coherent person And using the logic teaches you to see that in casinos one has to be very astute, that one must be very careful about what there is and what one has.
When I was a rookie I thought that the casino took over our money and took our money just like that, then I began to understand that things are not like that, that the casinos have the advantage of the house, that the casinos have ways that sometimes make those Profits You have to take advantage of them, because then terrible streaks come where you just have to have a lot of time to understand how you decided to play.
But this is something that one knows after Having played so much , that the Casino does not steal, that the casino does not know the economic status of the person but that it is normal for the casinos to do their job well, as I said before The casino gives great opportunities and those opportunities must be taken advantage of, it is the moment where one has to bet harder , raise or Increase the bet after having a bet, and that only comes from Experience, Sometimes experience helps a lot, but even so we should not expect that we know a lot or that the things we do are the right ones, because sometimes a very old person can run out of money Easily, because sometimes we lose control with the emotions, with impulses, and that can happen, that is Why it is Better to Control money than Emotions, it is something that I have always Said.
Understanding the game goes beyond knowing when to gamble big or modest. The game is rigged by design, not against you. The casino plays on our desire to win large, not if they know your bank balance. It's about being smart about the casino, not just in it. The true win is resisting overbetting. As you said, experience teaches many things, but the most important is knowing when to quit
Healthy gambling requires defining and following boundaries. The biggest risk is assuming you can beat the house at their game. Responsible gambling is essential, not an oxymoron
I think what he says is very true, the game sometimes makes us think things like that because we don't know much, imagine a rookie who enters with a certain amount of money, I don't know like 500usd, then the player thinks that with that money the caiso has to do him win more, and enter with that thought, it's like something that sometimes newbies have in mind, they totally forget what the advantage of the house is, the complexity of the games and apart from what it means not to make mistakes when playing, because even A bad move can make a player lose, sometimes win, but it almost never happens, so taking these things into consideration, the player can think that, of course it is something that he should not, but it happened like this, taking this to another level because he has to I always see that the best thing to be able to have a great performance is to know how to use money, with 500us to risk it in a casino I have to know how to play, I have to know that I play more and not bet too much, I try it to see how it works for me Well, because if I can withdraw something, if I think I'm going to lose everything, then I do it.
But things in the casino are as you say, they have to be seen that way, there is no other way, because it is understanding how things really work, and they are not how one thinks, one always tends to get confused with casinos when does not know the system as such, this is what many must learn before playing.
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