Then we discussed pleading guilty to a misdemeanor - I said no.
You must have balls of steal. Regardless of guilt or innocence, I think the vast majority of people would have plead guilty to a misdemeanor (especially if the deal involved no jail time) if they were facing the charges you were facing.
Sometimes it is a good idea to take a small loss in order to avoid the prospect of many years behind bars. I am not saying this is a good feature of our country's judicial system (I don't think it is), however it is an unfortunate fact of life.
They offered to drop all charges for a forfeiture of, if I remember correctly, $160,000.
I countered, they countered, we countered, etc. and finally settled on a payment of $80,000 half in cash and half in Bitcoin.
In other words, they were extorting you for $160,000 but let you go for $80,000?
I really don't see how it could possibly be legal for them to be negotiating with you to drop the charges in exchange for you to drop the claim against your property which would allow them to keep a portion of your property.
If the DA believes you are guilty, and believes they can prove it then they should take you to trial; if they do not then they should drop the charges. I don't see what how much of your property the government gets to keep has to do with your guilt or innocence. If the conversation really was something along the lines of that the government would drop the charges on the condition that you would not oppose the seizure of $80,000, then I cannot see how that can be anything other then extortion.
I believe that discussions regarding if charges should/would be dropped should be something along the lines of that there is strong evidence the defendant is
innocent, and/or there is little enough evidence that a defendant is guilty so that a guilty verdict is highly unlikely
and the above is not based on some technicality (e.g. incrementing evidence is thrown out, evidence is not allowed because of an
inadvertent mistake in collecting such evidence, etc.).
edit: I also believe that discussions regarding pleading to a lower charge should involve something along the lines of the fact that you are honest enough about your crimes to admit to them so you get a lesser punishment as a result and/or the government has sufficient evidence to convict you of your charges, however it would be very expensive to bring your case to trial, so in exchange for avoiding a trial you get a lesser punishment and/or there is sufficient evidence to convict you, however bringing your case to trial would cause one (or more) witnesses to have to go through significant trauma/pain in testifying against you and in exchange for allowing them to avoid this you get a lesser punishment.
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I am curious to see/know what evidence they has presented to be used against you, especially forum posts.
(Hopefully you can get a chuckle out of this) Did you at least get
tickets to the police ball?