Topic: I'm in love! - page 15. (Read 20431 times)

I meet the 42 girl 22 days ago

We had some intense conversation for 3 days but only because I was starting them ... like we were talking all day long ... after the third day I said to myself that I will not contact her until she will say something to me first and she did it today! Out of all the days in universe she chooses this day! And believe me this 19 days of break when we didn't talked she thought at me and I showed her I did the same and we feel very comfortable talking to each other.

She knows me for 22 days and we talk things that she isn't talking with her close friends


This is how it always starts at me very intense and beautiful and I think both of them are capable of understanding me and how my brain works!

we kinda even talked about a menage a trois ... she asked me if I'm married and I said yes but I still have space for one more person in my life!
And she said I always wanted to do it in 3!


oh and by the way she has a 16 year old boy .... should I try to hook him up with the 18 year old?


And as for kids I really want to adopt a Cambodian boy or girl and have another boy or girl of my own and of course I don't mind having a 16 year old son ... that means in 2 years we can go to clubs and get wasted together!

And as for the 42 girl she is really beautiful and I bet she can gain age beautifully.    

This topic is getting weirder and weirder. And the shit people post here "she can't give you an offspring" LOL - what are you some kind of animal breeder? Just look at celebrities, a lot of them get pregnant in their 40s.

You have a hard time selecting from 18 and 42? And you are 30? This 42 will become very old in 8 years. This girl can't give you an offspring. If I were you I will stick to the 18 yeras old and have her pregnant.

In my opinion, you should not tell it like an military order, but suggest it as something to try before die 

Haha wtf? Another girl showed up in your life within the space of a day? Are you sure you can tell the difference between reality and fantasy? Or dreams/reality?  Maybe you're in some sort of perverse matrix?

OK I have no sign from her and now another girl showed up in my life and damn me! I like this one as much as I like the other one!

The only difference between the 2 of them is the age ... one is 18 and the other one is 42 ... and I'm 30 .... what should I do next?

I mean I want them both

and the girl who is 18 said that she doesn't want to marry but she wants to live with her boyfriend and her girlfriend because the sex life will be amazing in 3!

How should I tell the 42 one that I want a menage a trois?

We spoke for like 15 minutes and then I asked her if she wants to come with me .... she said yes ... I love spontaneity ... I think this is why I like her so much .... because girls always stay and think and then say no or yes .... but a yes after a few days is not like a yes in the next second after the question was asked .... she has no idea the event is in Rome .... she visits her parents in Germany and in Czech Republic ... but she never been to Italy and she even said that she would like to go there


Oh and also it's not only the high level o spontaneity that I love at her is also the high level of trust she has in me to say yes to such a proposal ....

People teaches that you should not trust anybody except yourself ... I believe I can make this world a better place ... and I know the change I want to see in the world has to start from me

Because this days people think that trust should be earned ... I don't! I think we should all trust each other and when someone is doing something bad then we shouldn't trust that person anymore!

We all should start as equals

How long have you known her? Paying for flights to somewhere for a Festival after your first date (?) is a bit weird / rushing things.

Good point! Thanks!

I do hope she will call me ....

oh and by the way ... she is only 18 ... she will turn 19 in November but I like her

Then I'd wait for her to confirm that she's going before you buy the tickets. You're paying for the trip and you were the one who called last.  Now it's her turn

Well the night i meet her I asked her if she likes this line-up



and she said yes .... she only saw the line-up and she doesn't know where the event is held

And I asked if she wants to go there with me ... she said yes and I said ok .. then I need a copy of your ID

and yesterday when we met she gave me a copy of her ID

I need her ID to buy the plane tickets and to make the check-in

Looks like you spoke too soon lol. Lesson learned. Don't go russhing in to something and play it cool.

Option 1: She met with another guy and didn't want to sound like a total bitch so she told you she'll come later and is with a girl .
Option 2: She met with a friend, told her about the date and got spooked that you're probably some perv or whatever and decided not to go.

Either way a girl that agrees to go somewhere and then gives shitty excuses without even apologizing isn't worth it.

This will be hard to to! because I usually fuck it up! Big and with style!

But this time will try to control myself! And see if playing by the rules get's me something more!

Congratulations, try to not fuck it up.

Give her some time, maybe she would be a lil busy and so she couldn't call you, wait for 24 hours, i think she'll definitely call you, if she doesnt then you can call her and just make a lil convo.

Don't call her; wait a day or two, or give her a text later, but it sucks that she didn't even call you or text to let you know she couldn't make it.

Well well well

I am really confused!

we spend the day together ... something like 6 hours and we decided that we will see the final of champions league together ... so at around  16 I left her home ... since we stay at 500 meters distance one from another ... and we decided that I will call her at 19.00-20.00 to meet and go and see the match ... well when I called her she said she can't come from the beginning but I should go ahead and she we will call me after she finished her thing with her girlfriend ... I said ok .... and started preparing for at match ... so at 21.20 I called her again to tell her I just left the house and if she finished her thing she can come with me ... but she said that she isn't done yet ....

Now it's morning here and she still didn't called me .... I don't even know what to do? Should I call her? I don't want her to think I'm obsessed with her and I don't give her enough personal space

Anyway I think I will wait a little more to see if she calls me

Let us know how it went! We're cheering for you here

Well, how was your experience with her?? and are you posting a pic of her?