UPDATE
So almost all the girls above this post vanished!
The only one that is around is the pretty smart girl! That will be named E. and another one that I've meet also around the date I've meet E. but this one will be named A.
So the things are like this:
E. is single but doesn't want a relationship and she doesn't has kids.
A. is in a relationship but the boy is in Portugal, she also has a 8 year old kid.
What they have in common is that they both want iPhone6 Plus .... so who should be the one that should get the phone?
Or should I even think about buying the phone for one of them?
E. has iPhone 5S, so what I could do is get the iPhone 6 or the 6 Plus and tell E. to give me here old iPhone5S so I can give that one to A. Because A wants an iPhone 5S or 6 or 6 Plus
I'm not in a relationship with any of this girls and the changes are that I will never but, yet I still want to make 'em both happy!
Don't buy them anything until you're in a relationship of some kind, otherwise they *may* be using you. I agree with you though, in my case I find it more fun shopping for a boyfriend than shopping for myself and I like to make people happy way too much by being generous BUT you need to try to protect yourself a bit especially from people you don't know very well who may just be using you.
But A. really really wants it! As she is a single mother at the age of 25 her kid is first and she didn't got that phone because she spent the money for the kid ... I don't really know what the fuck I'm felling! The thing is that some people confuse admiration with love ... I'm not doing that ... because I think that I love drama too much since I don't have it in my life, I just love people who have it.
Because if you think about it a little she had her baby at 16 ... witch in a way or another is pretty dramatic ... anyway if both of them would be forever happy just with a new phone and me vanishing from their lives I would do that in a hear beat! This is how much I like them.
As a side note: One night some time ago I went out and saw a girl I liked, went to her asked what is she drinking then got her the drink she said she likes, I just said enjoy turned around and left to my friends, after some time when I saw she finished it I want to get her another one and didn't even changed a word with her, at the third drink one of her friends told me to stop doing that .... and I was like wtf?
She can tell me that if she wants me to stop giving her drinks and after all why do you care is not like I'm trying to convince her to go home with me ... I just like her and I want her to get drunk on my money because I can!
P.S. I am poor but I have a big heart!