Topic: Importance of not envying others (Read 333 times)
I absolutely agree with your opinion, you are well done
This is not always the case, my friend has what I need, but I do not envy him.
When we lack a desired attribute enjoyed by another, that is envy. It can be beneficial for us in the way that it can inspire us to be better. But when our envy causes us to do nothing but to complain, it will only gets worse.
Some people does nothing but always complains about how "unfair" things are. It is so irritating and full of bs.
I feel envy from time to time for things I don't have and failed to achieve. I try to calm myself down and keep in mind that these people may have deserved what they have. I whether say out loud "look, man, I envy you right now" or hide it to not show negativity, because when someone behaves arrogant to me because of being jealous I avoid this person in future, it makes me sick
That feeling of envy, the truth is something very easy to overcome, because when you realize that everything is possible, there is no need to envy anything to anyone, on the contrary, many times I feel happy that people pass things to them good and reach your goals. . I think that envy and resentment have a negative impact on us and can even make us sick.
To envy someone is not a bad thing in of itself. It can become a powerful drive in your life that can propel you to the upper echelons if you are able to harness the desire to have what others have and apply your efforts to emulate their efforts. As long as the person you envy isn't doing anything illegal, you can learn allot by studying what they have done and doing the same. You CAN envy someone's good fortune while at the same time NOT begrudge them for it. If everyone used the stories that of how people came about their good fortune we could all learn a lot as well. As a bonus, retelling some of those stories can also be a source of entertainment.
That's true. Every time I see someone who has something that I don't have but would like to, I look at him and say to myself that I am going to have something even better and cooler than that. It motivates me when I envy someone because this drives me to work harder in order to achieve those things that I envy. 
When we lack a desired attribute enjoyed by another, that is envy. It can be beneficial for us in the way that it can inspire us to be better. But when our envy causes us to do nothing but to complain, it will only gets worse.
Some people does nothing but always complains about how "unfair" things are. It is so irritating and full of bs.When we lack a desired attribute enjoyed by another, that is envy. It can be beneficial for us in the way that it can inspire us to be better. But when our envy causes us to do nothing but to complain, it will only gets worse.
Some people does nothing but always complains about how "unfair" things are. It is so irritating and full of bs.
When we lack a desired attribute enjoyed by another, that is envy. It can be beneficial for us in the way that it can inspire us to be better. But when our envy causes us to do nothing but to complain, it will only gets worse.
Envy is formed in childhood and remains for life. Envious people are unhappy. We need parents to think about it. 
Do you think it creates with human.? Is the inheritance entered into it?
Or does man acquire it?
Hard to answer, maybe we can't generalized everyone. But family plays a big role on it. If he/she has bee thought inside the home not to have this kind of bad attitude then I'm sure you won't feel that.
But I see people around just very envious of everything, so I don't know if they have a bad childhood or just inherited it. Personally, I'm not into it, I was raised from a good family background and I'm lucky that my parents are also well mannered, that's why we didn't acquire any of it even though we have been raised in a bad neighbourhood.
By nature we tend to envy those people who have what we need.
The envy is good only if constructive (aka for you to realize that
you don't have what you need so you have to take action and
change your life), but most people will use it against themselves.
Let's have an example, you see a yellow Lamborghini Urus
parking. Most people will criticize the owner, saying that the
Urus is not a good choice because is ugly, or,
most people will jump to conclusion saying that the owner
has only got that Lamborghini because he either inherited money,
won lottery or, scams other people. What most people don't do is
appreciating and recognising that other people have a better life,
that other people have made it with their own power.
The successful people have the 'energy of success' and by envying
you deny it. The guy has everything you want and you deny having
it because you envy.
Start appreciating the small things, stop criticising, stop envying and
then you will have what you want. It doesn't happen overnight.
The reason I am sharing this is because since I started applying this
concept in my life, everything goes my way. Every obstacle or barrier
that I had, I could easily bypass it. Hope this will enable others to
become successful person. If you want to add something, or share anything
let us know in this thread
I think envying others is not a bad thing when it takes by the person not too much. It is because sometimes, envy can make you thrive more for you to reached the person you have envy with or to even surpassed him or her. Just don't take it to much and make it as a motivation for you to become a better person. The envy is good only if constructive (aka for you to realize that
you don't have what you need so you have to take action and
change your life), but most people will use it against themselves.
Let's have an example, you see a yellow Lamborghini Urus
parking. Most people will criticize the owner, saying that the
Urus is not a good choice because is ugly, or,
most people will jump to conclusion saying that the owner
has only got that Lamborghini because he either inherited money,
won lottery or, scams other people. What most people don't do is
appreciating and recognising that other people have a better life,
that other people have made it with their own power.
The successful people have the 'energy of success' and by envying
you deny it. The guy has everything you want and you deny having
it because you envy.
Start appreciating the small things, stop criticising, stop envying and
then you will have what you want. It doesn't happen overnight.
The reason I am sharing this is because since I started applying this
concept in my life, everything goes my way. Every obstacle or barrier
that I had, I could easily bypass it. Hope this will enable others to
become successful person. If you want to add something, or share anything
let us know in this thread
Envy is a symptom of lack of appreciation of our own uniqueness and self-worth. Each of us has something to give that no one else has.
-Elizabeth O'Connor
By nature we tend to envy those people who have what we need.
The envy is good only if constructive (aka for you to realize that
you don't have what you need so you have to take action and
change your life), but most people will use it against themselves.
Let's have an example, you see a yellow Lamborghini Urus
parking. Most people will criticize the owner, saying that the
Urus is not a good choice because is ugly, or,
most people will jump to conclusion saying that the owner
has only got that Lamborghini because he either inherited money,
won lottery or, scams other people. What most people don't do is
appreciating and recognising that other people have a better life,
that other people have made it with their own power.
The successful people have the 'energy of success' and by envying
you deny it. The guy has everything you want and you deny having
it because you envy.
Start appreciating the small things, stop criticising, stop envying and
then you will have what you want. It doesn't happen overnight.
The reason I am sharing this is because since I started applying this
concept in my life, everything goes my way. Every obstacle or barrier
that I had, I could easily bypass it. Hope this will enable others to
become successful person. If you want to add something, or share anything
let us know in this thread
I think envying others is not a bad thing when it takes by the person not too much. It is because sometimes, envy can make you thrive more for you to reached the person you have envy with or to even surpassed him or her. Just don't take it to much and make it as a motivation for you to become a better person. The envy is good only if constructive (aka for you to realize that
you don't have what you need so you have to take action and
change your life), but most people will use it against themselves.
Let's have an example, you see a yellow Lamborghini Urus
parking. Most people will criticize the owner, saying that the
Urus is not a good choice because is ugly, or,
most people will jump to conclusion saying that the owner
has only got that Lamborghini because he either inherited money,
won lottery or, scams other people. What most people don't do is
appreciating and recognising that other people have a better life,
that other people have made it with their own power.
The successful people have the 'energy of success' and by envying
you deny it. The guy has everything you want and you deny having
it because you envy.
Start appreciating the small things, stop criticising, stop envying and
then you will have what you want. It doesn't happen overnight.
The reason I am sharing this is because since I started applying this
concept in my life, everything goes my way. Every obstacle or barrier
that I had, I could easily bypass it. Hope this will enable others to
become successful person. If you want to add something, or share anything
let us know in this thread
By nature we tend to envy those people who have what we need.
The envy is good only if constructive (aka for you to realize that
you don't have what you need so you have to take action and
change your life), but most people will use it against themselves.
Let's have an example, you see a yellow Lamborghini Urus
parking. Most people will criticize the owner, saying that the
Urus is not a good choice because is ugly, or,
most people will jump to conclusion saying that the owner
has only got that Lamborghini because he either inherited money,
won lottery or, scams other people. What most people don't do is
appreciating and recognising that other people have a better life,
that other people have made it with their own power.
The successful people have the 'energy of success' and by envying
you deny it. The guy has everything you want and you deny having
it because you envy.
Start appreciating the small things, stop criticising, stop envying and
then you will have what you want. It doesn't happen overnight.
The reason I am sharing this is because since I started applying this
concept in my life, everything goes my way. Every obstacle or barrier
that I had, I could easily bypass it. Hope this will enable others to
become successful person. If you want to add something, or share anything
let us know in this thread
I think envying others is not a bad thing when it takes by the person not too much. It is because sometimes, envy can make you thrive more for you to reached the person you have envy with or to even surpassed him or her. Just don't take it to much and make it as a motivation for you to become a better person. The envy is good only if constructive (aka for you to realize that
you don't have what you need so you have to take action and
change your life), but most people will use it against themselves.
Let's have an example, you see a yellow Lamborghini Urus
parking. Most people will criticize the owner, saying that the
Urus is not a good choice because is ugly, or,
most people will jump to conclusion saying that the owner
has only got that Lamborghini because he either inherited money,
won lottery or, scams other people. What most people don't do is
appreciating and recognising that other people have a better life,
that other people have made it with their own power.
The successful people have the 'energy of success' and by envying
you deny it. The guy has everything you want and you deny having
it because you envy.
Start appreciating the small things, stop criticising, stop envying and
then you will have what you want. It doesn't happen overnight.
The reason I am sharing this is because since I started applying this
concept in my life, everything goes my way. Every obstacle or barrier
that I had, I could easily bypass it. Hope this will enable others to
become successful person. If you want to add something, or share anything
let us know in this thread
Envy is a very bad thing, I would say - one of the deadly sins, when a person is jealous, he sinks to the bottom, because this is a kind of humiliation. Is someone to blame him? Not! In fact, he is angry at himself, because he has not achieved the same as others.
I fully agree with the author of the post. Most people think that way. Sometimes it is a shame that people think so. Most of these are people who have not achieved anything.
I would recommend everyone this article.
From it we can learn that envy is good as long as you focus on yourself
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From it we can learn that envy is good as long as you focus on yourself
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If you find yourself sitting around too much and not having enough to do then it’s very easy to feel stuck and to get stuck in thought loops and go into a downward spiral.
Since I'm a human sometimes I feel envy in my heart but when I do I notice it and mold that feeling to inspire me rather than keeping me in that toxic state. There are people to look up to and I let them fuel my own development.
Envy is for people who always looks on others achievements rather than appreciating and seeing owns blessings. We are blessed in different ways, be contented with what you have.
Thanks for sharing this. Being envious will only make people not contented with what they have thus making them unhappy in life.
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