Topic: Infidelity may be forgiven or not? (Read 883 times)

I think this topic depends a lot on the formation and values ​​that people have in common, there are many cases where couples are such liberals that allow them to have other couples, this is a somewhat taboo subject, but that can be taken into account, of course, it is a subject that must be taken into account from another point of view of maturity that the couple has.

In the capital of my country I met many people who have their formal couple of married years and that each of them have their partners apart from the normal, and enjoy, in fact they plan meetings, because they say that sexuality should be explored and that feelings is a totally separate issue, that they see that sexuality should not have limits, and that the love they have is because they want them to always be happy, and that everything has to be as part of life, if they decide to join is to get old and help each other, accompany each other but life must be enjoyed, they are not explained as many marriages are broken because they are sexually with other people, that there are reasons that in reality must be force majeure for two people to decide to separate.

Of course this is a completely different point of view from the others, I would say that they are much more liberal, that they have many things that society still does not accept. But if we take into account the best and the positive, I think that from there, people need to have second chances, and have more communication.

In many countries it is allowed but some countries have high punishment for this guilty.Maybe you can forgive if you love the person but don't deserved to be relationship anymore.

The scriptural's position on infidelity is that you as a man can taking the decisions of forgiveness or send her parking or live him but I am on the part of forgiveness because of kids.  Most time some of this infidelity do come from the mistake and disagreements between the husband and wife and that is why it is good we treat all this hard to take issues with carefulness.

Only those who can forgive can forgive. And few people can forgive. And another important degree of repentance. You can forgive someone who asks to be forgiven and asks sincerely. And you can forgive everything. Another question - what to do next with this person?

everyone can make mistakes in life but i personally would not give a second chance to a the partner who betrayed me because i believe he could do it again,it come a lack of confidence...

I would never forgive this man finds you a replacement you can forgive , do not even need to be humiliated , better to find that person who will appreciate you

For me it can be forgiven. Especially if there's sincerity from the one who's asking for forgiveness. What can't be done though is forgetting the mistake made. Once trust is lost it can be very hard to recover it but i think it's possible over time but forgetting what was done to you can open you up to being fooled twice of several times over. Forgive but never forget.

This is a serious matter since it's an issue about trust, but considering also the grounds, you also need to weight the situations, if you have kids who
still wanted to have a whole family, you need to sacrifice your ego and you to consider forgiving your partner, assess yourself on why he/she did betrayed
your vows, from that point you'll be able to understand and you can adjust for the benefits of having still a complete family.,that pain will be heal keep opening your heart and find that space where you first fall in love with your partner to lessen that pain and to healed much quicker.

It's really very difficult question and there is no a unique answer that would apply to everyone.
A person must first be honestly repented and based on that condition we can, I think, forgive but I never had such experience and don't know if I will be really able to forgive.
Maybe yes, have no idea.

I agree that partners should forgive one another but if either partner refuses and insist on divorce then you have yourself to blame.
 Infidelity  is one of the most abominable thing to do in a marriage It's totally wrong and has nothing to do with being civilized.. It is serious breach of agreement

 Finally, your partner forgiving your infidelity shouldnt be an excuse to continue sleeping around.

Of course if someone changed it , you can't forgive , if a person found you a replacement what do you need to find someone who will appreciate you

I think there should always be a second chance, an infidelity is always because of sex with another person, and yes, maybe it is a lack of respect, but I think everyone deserves a second chance and more when there is a family, children involved, Separations are not very pleasant, they always have to seek to be together despite mistakes.

Infidelity is a choice, and even cruel, but the choice of the person who makes it, we always strive to condemn such people, because they swore, promised to be true, but, we always forget to ask ourselves why he - she suddenly changed? (her) go to the side to another person? And there may be a lot of answers! There is even such a testimonial: "That one cannot judge someone for the fact that he has fallen out of love or has fallen in love, a person does not have power in his heart." Is it worth forgiving? The choice is also each, if you still have a spark of hope, why not reanimate the marriage, and if not, do not interfere with each other, you need to clear the way.

Yes it is. Who are we not to forgive, but forgetting is a different thing.

It can be forgiven  but cannot be forgotten, there is no excuse for infidelity.

Infidelity can happen in any relationship. No one is safe.

imho it fully depends on the circumstances, your trust to your partner and your characters.
Once I did forgave my boyfriend, and even though we're not together anymore I can't say it was a mistake to forgive him/

You will only deceive yourself if you save the relationship after treason for the sake of children and something else. In such cases, you need to end the relationship, but sometimes emotions do not allow it to be done and that is bad.

Infidelity is completely unforgivable. I do not accept that, I think divorce is the right approach

That happens a lot. Once it's in the DNA. It's hard to clean it out.

Unforgivable, you forgive the person however you can't stay with someone who can't be loyal.