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November 18, 2021, 03:11:10 PM
#49
instinct and common sense are always opposites...
instinct of a man when he saw a sexy woman would be active and it was very difficult to control, I pinched my husband several times when he instinctively saw a girl in sexy clothes, he then realized and laughed while apologizing.  Cheesy

Maybe he is been speechless too Cheesy
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November 18, 2021, 11:29:47 AM
#48
Once i heard a stupid thing from a friend but as i think deeply it may not be that absurd as it sounds and have reasults!
He told me that if i want to resist a sexy wonan;
"when looking at her just imagine that after some decades she will look like your grandmother"
It sounds funny but when you think about its very very effective and its NOT A LIE ( everyone get old) its just a strange way to persue woman beauty if needed Cheesy
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January 27, 2021, 06:55:42 AM
#47

Hahaha actually OP had Clarify that because of my Point and yeah right?  But that's the point because Women will surely get angry or irritated with us if we look other ways than their eyes.

And also the sincerity mostly expresses in the eye contact though Scammers now a days are good in eye contact even if they are just Misleading us.
So to end the discussion there is no way for us to avoid resist sexual lust (T-T) .
Of course there is Mate , If we can segregate the desire and our Good attitude  specially if we are under a good relationship , there is no way that we will have lust to other women when we are contented in our partner.
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Just messing we could really avoid it by practicing to resist it and try to think clearly avoid having dirty thoughts,
That is what im saying also , we can do it with good intention.
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To be honest I think we have so many perverts nowadays compare to the old generation because of the internet they give so many sexual ideas,
Just look at some social media you would find tons of sexy pics or vids it seems that it is pretty normal nowadays that they seems really tease the viewers.
I know some would get mad at me by saying it but it is what it is.
Surely is , Back in the days in our time ? the only way to have porn connection is Magazines like Playboy or some tabloid that has sex stories and sexy photos .

and also if sometimes our parents is out of House so we can watch Porn in DVD or BETA MAX.

Now accessibility is indeed ,Just one click away and there Boom Porn site will be on the move lol.
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January 27, 2021, 06:22:31 AM
#46
Don't look into their eyes.. *especially women eyes. Pretty strange ladies (or their images/videos) deliberately staring at you are usually the "spirit of lust" or someone possessed by the spirit. They stare at you to overpower you with lust.
I was revealed this in my early days of fighting lust. I obeyed "the instruction" without questioning (nothing wrong with questioning though... just that i 100% trust the source of the revelation.)


I think thats gonna be hard 😅 I like looking at my partners eyes every single time. Any other options?

As long as you won't be triggered to commit sexual sin with your partner before marriage. 
I think it's Better to be sure of marrying your partner before considering that.
Imagine what happens to the body when both partner steadily stare into the eyes of each other in "intensed way"


From my experience, once you are freed from sexual sins, you think more clearly, and there are other wonderful benefits
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January 27, 2021, 04:18:52 AM
#45
If you want to resist women, then you should solve your needs by yourself,If you want to overcome that nature, you should pursue higher needs
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January 27, 2021, 03:27:47 AM
#44
Don't look into their eyes.. *especially women eyes. Pretty strange ladies (or their images/videos) deliberately staring at you are usually the "spirit of lust" or someone possessed by the spirit. They stare at you to overpower you with lust.
I was revealed this in my early days of fighting lust. I obeyed "the instruction" without questioning (nothing wrong with questioning though... just that i 100% trust the source of the revelation.)

Dont look into their Eyes but what about the pounding Boobs and Butt?do you want us to look in theirs instead of eyes/lol

mainly is eye sight. lust comes when someone starts to be tempted or see women, porn videos or things related to sex.
that is Our eyes that will look  into Porn but OP is pointing about the Girls Eyes.
Dude WHY?
Why would you ruin the mood like that hahahaha.
To be honest I was seriously reading it and when I read your answer I couldn't help but laugh.
I mean yes I was taking the thread seriously and got me curious then you made me realize that you really got the point here.
Where should we look when we are talking to a girl/woman I think it is pretty rude to look somewhere else right and we would be like pervert when we look straight in the boobs when we are talking.

Hahaha actually OP had Clarify that because of my Point and yeah right?  But that's the point because Women will surely get angry or irritated with us if we look other ways than their eyes.

And also the sincerity mostly expresses in the eye contact though Scammers now a days are good in eye contact even if they are just Misleading us.
So to end the discussion there is no way for us to avoid resist sexual lust (T-T) .
Just messing we could really avoid it by practicing to resist it and try to think clearly avoid having dirty thoughts,
To be honest I think we have so many perverts nowadays compare to the old generation because of the internet they give so many sexual ideas,
Just look at some social media you would find tons of sexy pics or vids it seems that it is pretty normal nowadays that they seems really tease the viewers.
I know some would get mad at me by saying it but it is what it is.
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January 27, 2021, 01:59:23 AM
#43
Don't look into their eyes.. *especially women eyes. Pretty strange ladies (or their images/videos) deliberately staring at you are usually the "spirit of lust" or someone possessed by the spirit. They stare at you to overpower you with lust.
I was revealed this in my early days of fighting lust. I obeyed "the instruction" without questioning (nothing wrong with questioning though... just that i 100% trust the source of the revelation.)

Dont look into their Eyes but what about the pounding Boobs and Butt?do you want us to look in theirs instead of eyes/lol

mainly is eye sight. lust comes when someone starts to be tempted or see women, porn videos or things related to sex.
that is Our eyes that will look  into Porn but OP is pointing about the Girls Eyes.
Dude WHY?
Why would you ruin the mood like that hahahaha.
To be honest I was seriously reading it and when I read your answer I couldn't help but laugh.
I mean yes I was taking the thread seriously and got me curious then you made me realize that you really got the point here.
Where should we look when we are talking to a girl/woman I think it is pretty rude to look somewhere else right and we would be like pervert when we look straight in the boobs when we are talking.

Hahaha actually OP had Clarify that because of my Point and yeah right?  But that's the point because Women will surely get angry or irritated with us if we look other ways than their eyes.

And also the sincerity mostly expresses in the eye contact though Scammers now a days are good in eye contact even if they are just Misleading us.
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January 27, 2021, 01:04:05 AM
#42
mainly is eye sight. lust comes when someone starts to be tempted or see women, porn videos or things related to sex.

mostly on videos
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January 26, 2021, 10:00:45 PM
#41
Don't look into their eyes.. *especially women eyes. Pretty strange ladies (or their images/videos) deliberately staring at you are usually the "spirit of lust" or someone possessed by the spirit. They stare at you to overpower you with lust.
I was revealed this in my early days of fighting lust. I obeyed "the instruction" without questioning (nothing wrong with questioning though... just that i 100% trust the source of the revelation.)


I think thats gonna be hard 😅 I like looking at my partners eyes every single time. Any other options?
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January 15, 2021, 03:59:39 AM
#40
Getting rid of such evil spirit is difficult, you can't do it carnally, you need the help of the holy Spirit, because your heart and soul is the temple of holy Spirit, you need intense prayers and fasting..to make that demon in you flee away.. it's that serious. Draw closer to God, he only can deliver you.

Ofcourse, it's not possible to be truely free from the evil spirit of lust without believing in JESUS CHRIST and getting baptized. People controlled by the spirit are under the power of sin/satan and only GOD can free them from that power. GOD sent HIS Son (JESUS CHRIST) to free people from the evil power of sin that keeps people in  bondage.
Only by believing in JESUS and accepting HIM as Messiah/Savior can anyone know how to tackle his/her unique case of sexual lust and other sins.
Mine was actually through repentance, fasting, prayers, reading/listening to GOD's always(obedience to HIS Word is very important also), being sober etc
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January 14, 2021, 11:29:59 PM
#39
Don't look into their eyes.. *especially women eyes. Pretty strange ladies (or their images/videos) deliberately staring at you are usually the "spirit of lust" or someone possessed by the spirit. They stare at you to overpower you with lust.
I was revealed this in my early days of fighting lust. I obeyed "the instruction" without questioning (nothing wrong with questioning though... just that i 100% trust the source of the revelation.)

So meaning you are not looking to their Eyes ?

so Where should we look at them ? in their Boobsies ? i am not sure what you mean here but isn't it much better that you said " Never LOOK AT ANY WOMEN "?

Know what ? sometimes i was thinking , What Kind of person you are ? in gambling section i am seeing you posting and posting , but here in Off topic you are portraying to be a VERY GODLY HUMAN>


now Who are you?
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January 14, 2021, 10:47:49 PM
#38
Don't look into their eyes.. *especially women eyes. Pretty strange ladies (or their images/videos) deliberately staring at you are usually the "spirit of lust" or someone possessed by the spirit. They stare at you to overpower you with lust.
I was revealed this in my early days of fighting lust. I obeyed "the instruction" without questioning (nothing wrong with questioning though... just that i 100% trust the source of the revelation.)

Lust is a normal reaction of humans. For a married like me, I am loyal to my husband. Temptations are there but as moral being, we have a mind that thinks what is right and wrong. It is not only women eyes, it can be men's eyes. We just need to know how to divert to disregard lust to someone. Respect also matters to control our feelings.
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January 14, 2021, 08:35:20 PM
#37
Getting rid of such evil spirit is difficult, you can't do it carnally, you need the help of the holy Spirit, because your heart and soul is the temple of holy Spirit, you need intense prayers and fasting..to make that demon in you flee away.. it's that serious. Draw closer to God, he only can deliver you.
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January 14, 2021, 04:44:14 AM
#36
it's hard to resist to a beautiful girl or boy, is in human nature to try to have sex, it takes great willpower not to feel attraction, then if you look into each other's eyes i think it's almost impossible


Sex has rules guiding it. The problem with sex is if you do it outside of marriage you'll be breaking the rule. The rule is from the MAKER of our body who understands us far more than we understand ourselves.
The rule is for us to remain virgin and avoid sex till marriage. You only share your body with those you will be bonded permanently with. Only death can break the bond.
It's important to note that when you are married to someone, or when you have intimate sexual relationship with someone, you become "One Body" with that person. This is part of the reasons it's very important to have sexual relationship only with those you are married to.  


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January 14, 2021, 01:41:46 AM
#35
Don't look into their eyes.. *especially women eyes. Pretty strange ladies (or their images/videos) deliberately staring at you are usually the "spirit of lust" or someone possessed by the spirit. They stare at you to overpower you with lust.
I was revealed this in my early days of fighting lust. I obeyed "the instruction" without questioning (nothing wrong with questioning though... just that i 100% trust the source of the revelation.)

Dont look into their Eyes but what about the pounding Boobs and Butt?do you want us to look in theirs instead of eyes/lol

mainly is eye sight. lust comes when someone starts to be tempted or see women, porn videos or things related to sex.
that is Our eyes that will look  into Porn but OP is pointing about the Girls Eyes.
Dude WHY?
Why would you ruin the mood like that hahahaha.
To be honest I was seriously reading it and when I read your answer I couldn't help but laugh.
I mean yes I was taking the thread seriously and got me curious then you made me realize that you really got the point here.
Where should we look when we are talking to a girl/woman I think it is pretty rude to look somewhere else right and we would be like pervert when we look straight in the boobs when we are talking.
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January 14, 2021, 01:13:54 AM
#34
Don't look into their eyes.. *especially women eyes. Pretty strange ladies (or their images/videos) deliberately staring at you are usually the "spirit of lust" or someone possessed by the spirit. They stare at you to overpower you with lust.
I was revealed this in my early days of fighting lust. I obeyed "the instruction" without questioning (nothing wrong with questioning though... just that i 100% trust the source of the revelation.)

Dont look into their Eyes but what about the p..g B**bs and B**t?do you want us to look in theirs instead of eyes/lol

mainly is eye sight. lust comes when someone starts to be tempted or see women, porn videos or things related to sex.
that is Our eyes that will look  into Porn but OP is pointing about the Girls Eyes.


OK. I edited/censored those parts, sorry.


I think many parts of the body are intentionally and unintentionally made lustful... No one place causes the lust alone.
    
 
Yeah That's why i'm feeling angry when some Women are having problem when others looks them into their Boobs or Butts with intentions when they are wearing too sexy stuffs and obviously wanted to show others their Lustful parts .

Do they only tend to show those for Guys they like or Handsome but not for everyone ?

Sounds Stupid lol .
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January 13, 2021, 08:45:43 PM
#33
Get married and stop fornicating. Wink
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January 13, 2021, 02:00:38 PM
#32
it's hard to resist to a beautiful girl or boy, is in human nature to try to have sex, it takes great willpower not to feel attraction, then if you look into each other's eyes i think it's almost impossible
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January 13, 2021, 11:03:20 AM
#31
Sure just don’t look in their eyes it could be truly intense and dangerous

Did you notice anything about it?




Don't look into their eyes.. *especially women eyes. Pretty strange ladies (or their images/videos) deliberately staring at you are usually the "spirit of lust" or someone possessed by the spirit. They stare at you to overpower you with lust.
I was revealed this in my early days of fighting lust. I obeyed "the instruction" without questioning (nothing wrong with questioning though... just that i 100% trust the source of the revelation.)


That is an interesting idea and probably feels really wierd at first. I already learned at an young age to look people into their eyes, not doing so would be impolite, and we don't want to offend anybody. Where else would you look instead? Looking into the sky while talking to someone seems a bit rude. And looking at their chest would increase lust even further.


If you have watched adult films (I don't recommend them atall because they are evil) you will notice how ladies are made to stare at the camera while smiling or behaving romantically. I think that is deliberate.
Here is part of the reasons why:
When you find certain images of ladies, you will notice they stare at you in similar manner and that may trigger you to remember the smiling ladies in adult films and lust will fill your body immediately.



By the way, I later discovered that the Holy Bible in Proverb recommends not starring at the eye of strange woman.

"Do not lust after her beauty in your heart, Nor let her allure you with her eyelids."
Proverbs 6:25
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January 13, 2021, 10:53:35 AM
#30
Probably 1 of 10 can resist to some incredible looking woman and not flirt with her.. I don't speak for cheating of yours wives or something like that, just to resist to to lust.. I don't thing many people can do that, but this is my opinion.
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