(1) That should read "Ad Hominem", not "ad homonym".
(2) Although I consider most religious types to be batshit crazy, I did not call you any names; name calling being the basis for an AD HOMINEM claim, so you may put that one where the Sun doesn't shine, as it were. Red Herring, maybe but certainly not "AD HOMINEM"!
Now, please allow me to digress and get full-bore AD HOMINEM on you so that you can see just how it is done!
I consider religious types to be superstitious, primitive in their thinking, possibly deranged to an astonishing degree and in need of therapy, medication or both. Religious types have started more wars than anything but political types and there may be some doubt that politicians are ahead!
Religious typoes believe that "My god is better than your god!" so they advocate for killing non-believers in scroes, droves and millions!
Religious types tell us that their god is a "loving god", while their mouldy tomes tell us of the many, many occasions on which the so-called "loving god" has murdered by the gazillions.
In short, religious types represent the single greatest danger to the future of human kind and should be watched closely.
My $.02.
Yes. This is true. Religious types are guilty of many of those things you say. So how does one distinguish a religious person from a god fearing person? The religious person attacks. The god fearing person is understanding. At the end, religion is a personal experience IMHO therefore there is no good in asserting the superiority of a
personal faith.
You are also right about debates. I don't see how it is fruitful to have damaging debates over who is right because none of us truly know. We are all believers by faith. Who has actually seen god or heaven?
God is love but as mentioned before, god chooses those whom he loves and those whom he wishes to destroy. He is god and does as he wishes. Life is for him to give or takeaway. Even you yourself will choose what to accept and what you wish to discard.
God is infinite love but the law of sin and death still applies. If you wish to approach god, do so humbly with an attitude of reverence. God loves a humble spirit and he will knock down those who are arrogant by allowing them to become more arrogant and satisfied in their own thinking. He will cause them to be blind, so that their own actions condemn themselves. I pray to escape such a fate myself.