I don't think that gambling can ruin a person's life if it remains a hobby. If gambling begins to become an addiction, then yes, it can ruin the life of a person and his loved ones.
That's where it is going. A simple hobby that's becoming an addiction is what the many lives have been destroyed and that's why it is not easy for someone to make gambling as a hobby without expecting to become addicted to it.
Basically, gambling is not an activity that is truly beneficial and can always have positive impact, indirectly if someone makes gambling hobby then they must be really aware of what will happen in the future.
Normal people usually channel their hobbies into various positive and productive activities or fun but with great benefits such as exercising, but if it is gambling then they have to be prepared for the risks and impacts they have to accept.
It is not easy to exclude yourself from gambling addiction and not all gamblers can do it.
I know people who treat betting and gambling as a hobby. They bet small amounts of money and do it infrequently, maybe several times a month, as I understand they enjoy it and do not suffer if they lose money.
I believe there is a difference between a hobby and an addiction. A hobby does not have negative consequences, but addiction can ruin a person’s life, as you were told earlier
Those kind of gamblers understand that they're gambling to have fun and they're controlling themselves as much as they can because if not, they're doing things the wrong way. So, gamble always and with the hope of winning some but don't forget that gambling is just on your side when you have lost your control. The emotional control and thought of you as a gambler will determine what kind of person you are and the tolerance that you have as you gamble and avoid the temptation of being addicted to it. But with the common results, we've seen this kind of hobby ends up into a serious gambling addiction.
Well, that is wise attitude where someone can determine when is the right time to gamble and what to spend to lose but it doesn't affect anything.
They are just having fun and they are obviously using some money and it will never be problem when it is lost, plus they are just playing or betting for fun and entertainment.
This is an attitude that is very rarely found in most gamblers, I think there are only very few gamblers like that.