My only interaction with that thread was based around the "Bitshares is decentralized" claim. Dan Larimer (Bytemaster), the core dev, describes Bitshares as "a distributed multi-user database" in his blogpost "What is Bitshares?".
http://bytemaster.bitshares.org/update/2014/12/18/What-is-BitShares/
I agree with him. The node delegates object and insist it is decentralized (with a disclaimer).
This thread is supposed to be a discussion about decentralization, once we had opinions on what that means then we could go from there. You have prevented that from happening.
Forking is difficult as a new fork would require a new set of 95 nodes at launch, so will require 95 trusted people to secure the network on day 1. Or go through a bootstrapping phase where the network begins centralised in the founder and slowly expands to the 95 node limit.
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I can answer questions to clarify anything, if required. You can change your vote later, if any discussion changes your mind.
My personal understanding is that forking is not a case of having to choose between 95 trusted nodes or complete trust in the founder. I believe a fork can have how ever many nodes it chooses based on how many trusted people there are too start it.
I'm not very technical though. My main objection is just essentially that a poll and question and answer thread on what is essentially BitShares being conducted by an undisclosed NXT supporter, who had been very critical of the model, would be inherently biased.