We all wish life was easier, but it's not so we've got to make do with what we have.
The degree you want, the career you want, and the business you dream to have won't come easy. I'm of the notion that life doesn't want you to succeed. If you run away from every obstacle then you will never achieve your goal.
I keep seeing forum members make complaints about not getting merits and all. It will be very hypocritical of me to say we shouldn't care about merit and ranking up, but your desire to rank up should lead you in the right direction.
The goal is to learn and grow, then make meaningful contributions that can grow other forum members. It's not going to be easy, and it will take time, but it will be worth it in the end.
This doesn't only apply to the forum but to every aspect of life.
Take a business for example.
The goal of a business is to make a profit but you can't make a profit if certain things are not done right. If you just pursue profit without thinking about other factors, your business will fail.
If your product/service is top-notch, your marketing, packaging, and distribution are done right along with other factors, you will make a profit.
The same thing applies to every aspect of life. A degree, career, or anything at all.
If your first encounter with crypto was a scam altcoin, it doesn't mean you should wash your hand off of crypto. If you're still interested in it, learn from that bad situation and gain more experience from it.
If you previously made an investment in Bitcoin and you lost, it doesn't mean you should give up on Bitcoin; learn from it and re-evaluate your decision.
So don't think Bitcoin and Bitcointalk are any different from life.
You may look at a forum member with legendary rank and you want to achieve that, it's good that that motivates you, but you have to know that they didn't just achieve that overnight. They learned, grew, improved themselves, and improved others to get to that level.
Whatever you want, work hard and smart for it because it won't be handed to you on a platter.
Generally, nothing good in life comes easy you have to pay a price for whatever kind of situation, condition or position you want to attain in life. Doing the extraordinary in your line of business, or even in the forum puts you closers to your desired expectations in life. In the forum for instance, for you to grow in ranks you must learn and grow yourself as a person in knowledge and that knowledge would in turn reflect in your discussions in the forum determining your merit attractions by the quality of what you give out.
Same with business, some people are not growing in their line of business because they are redundant with old knowledge of what they knew before starting the business, while their counterparts in same business have gone ahead of them paying for advance courses training and learning about the new innovations and techniques that have evolved about their business, they now put in all these new acquired knowledge into their business causing it to attract more customers and growth. The simple thing about growing in life is doing what others are afraid or procrastinating to do, that's what distinguishes your levels of successes.