Topic: Just a reminder. Don't lose yourself in the process. (Read 391 times)

Process is something that we must check and follow but that does not mean that we need to follow each steps or to be overwhelmed of the situation because in this many made mistakes and indeed most have failed because of wrong interpretations .
so wait and allow yourself to evaluate everything then decide after.

Just enjoy everything , if this is not bringing you smile while you are doing such then better leave it alone , try to find things that is always positive on you , the process is best if we knew what we are entering .
life is too short , we cannot act to favor others instead lets serve our self .

The endless chase for money, the rat race that never seems to end, it can feel like a suffocating grip on life. We all know people, maybe even ourselves, caught in that treadmill, hustling for that ever-distant finish line. And as you say, sometimes it all feels empty, a hollow pursuit leading to a hospital bed rather than a hammock on a beach.

But maybe, just maybe, there's another way. Maybe "enough" isn't a static number, but a shifting feeling, a balance between pursuit and contentment. Maybe true wealth isn't just measured in zeros in a bank account, but in the richness of experiences, the depth of relationships, the quiet pleasures of a life well-lived.

That's why it's important that we try to put ourselves in this kind of situation.
We do have to work and prepare for life in the future especially if we have a life partner and family to depend on, but that doesn't mean we have to become a workaholic to get that because our lives will become monotonous if we are in a situation like that.

I think in this case we need to know what is important for us even though making money and focusing on work is very good but we should not forget other important things because in the end apart from work or business done do not forget that we have to mingle to make relationships better so in this case we should be able to be wiser because something like that will make your life monotonous. Indeed you do not get your psychological needs in socialization because you only think about the material which is the future goal but do not pay attention to the condition of your biological needs as a social being.

Sometimes, I blame the society for measuring standards for people. The world was a happy place before the internet but now, it is now a place to oppress each other with success pictures on how life journey and how we have made it in life and the person looking these pictures on other end might have not yet make it, this will make him feel less of a man and will want to do anything to succeed in life, we go beyond limit to be successful just to show the world that we have made it that we even forgot to be happy about the little things that matters.


Gone are those days when we believe in gradual process because with patient, anyone can cross a mile a way but now, everyone want to be successful on time and I blame the society for making this standards. If not that we don't look beyond, most of the successful people that we have today are not in there early 30s, top 100 richest people in the world today are above 40 years old but you will see a teenage person want to be successful in life when he is still in college or living under the roof of his parent, indeed we have so many sad generations among us.

Life doesn't have a manual, just believe in your goals and objectives, life is not a linear line that you can have the way we want, you can fall as many times but always learn to progress and learn from mistakes, you will eventually get there one day if you are consistent in the journey.

As you have pointed out, there are a lot of aspects in life to take into account. We all know that no man can survive without money, but when it comes to seeking for it, we should always be composed. In fact, when we do so, we can occasionally pass money and we remain unaware. Therefore, if we truly want to succeed in life, we should learn how to be composed in whatever we come to propose. However, the issue I have with some people is that, even if they believe that they are blessed by God, they tend to forget those around them. Life is not like that. We must be together since you could not be here tomorrow.

"Don't lose yourself in the process." - what if it’s not losing yourself in the process, but metamorphoses that change you and take you to a completely different level?

In any process, you learn something and acquire new skills, which makes you, at a minimum, better professionally.

Not a single dream comes true if you don’t work and make an effort. Or did you want to find an easier way?

If you giving enough attention, but wouldn't ask these questions. If you think that you don’t spend enough time with your surroundings, then start spending more. Why complain about it?

Resources vary. Monetary is one of them, but there is also a human resource, which, like money, requires spending time and effort to obtain.

If your job involves a lot of anxiety and stress, you may want to consider looking for a new job. Why do you need a job that harms your mental state?

Not everyone achieves success, but those who don’t try, in principle, achieve nothing.

Base on how things have became so costly and difficult in the society due to inflation, we work work work forgetting so many things we ought not to, but in life it's very important to strike a balance between working hours and time you spend with your love ones.
We might not know how important it is to strike a balance now, till we get sick, that when we will know that their is more to life than just working all through our days.

I agree. It's easy to get so caught up chasing money and status that we overlook what really makes life meaningful - the people we love.  In our scramble to buy nicer stuff and climb the career ladder, we end up shortchanging the relationships that sustain us. 

We assume promotions or a bigger house will make us happy, but those things tend to provide a temporary high more than deep fulfillment.  Meanwhile, we miss out on little moments with our kids, friends, and partners that turn out to be what we cherish most when we look back on our lives and

The truth is our real wealth can't be counted in dollars - it lies in the bonds we form through shared memories and experiences.  Making time for those we care about feeds our souls in a way material things just cant replace.  I think it's important we keep sight of that, even as we strive for success.

You made the appropriate statement. At the end of the day, if we have this money, what if our loved ones are no longer close to us? There's no way we can bring them back into our lives. Those who were with us before we started chasing money are more important to us. The majority did not care losing people around them; they just cared about making this money. Op, when some people start chasing money, they think that's the best way to succeed in life. We know that money brings happiness, but we shouldn't forget where we come from. Not everyone will return to our lives once we eventually make this money, therefore we must treat others well so that even after we are gone, they will remember the wonderful deeds we did. 

Regarding chasing money, you mentioned that we shouldn't lose our lives while trying to find it. You know, some people find that life's hardships exhaust them; they don't mind losing their lives in order to make money; all they want is to feel wealthy, even though they will lose their soul. Money is important, but we shouldn't sacrifice our souls in the process.

Well, Said.. I think it is very important to maintain a healthy balance between your work life and personal life.
A lot of people fail to understand that if work and money is important then family and loved ones are also important. A human should not work more than necessary. and he should not forget about family in the race of this world of making money.
I think these problems can be solved with proper time management and discipline.  

Money will solve problems, wealth will make you never lack, but there’s more to life than money. It’s sad what many people will do just to make money. Many of us have seen homes where no one in the family is very rich or wealthy, but they are so happy with their lives. I think one of the issues we face is contentment too. We aren’t always content with what we have and continue chasing more. I think that’s as human beings that can leave this world at any time, we need to take breaks. Sometimes we need to pause, enjoy life, because everything we do is to be alive. Praise yourself for even merely being alive.

Not all people have the same status in life once they are born, some of them come from the lower part of society that getting hard to have money and one of the solutions they need to do is to keep working so we cannot blame them if they don't want to look back where they came from, and they want to focus on their future and current path, still, some people want to help back those people help them during their hard times and there's nothing wrong on it because you didn't reach that status where you are now if someone didnt help you out with your struggles. Even we keep saying that money doesn't reflect too much still in reality money is the key to power to get up your status in life.

When you do not have the money, it is hard to not make money your everything

Because money does not come often by you there will come a point where it is the thing that you prioritize first thinking that it is for the best it will benefit yourself and even the people around you sometimes because we have lost focus, in the process of achieving those dreams we lose the very reason why we had dreams in the first place

I do wish to be successful and rich in the future but i hope that i can keep the people i have shared my life with when i was not yet successful and be able to share what i have when i am finally successful

If you said competition is so high, it means everyone are trying hard to improve their knowledge and skill, so everyone only care about study or anything that will improve their ability. It's wrong if you need to look people around you because they're not looking to you or people around them, why need to take care or treat them when they didn't even care with you? I can say like this because it happened to myself.

To reduce anxiety or stress, you can do other thing with your money without need to hangout with your friends e.g. eat delicious food, staycation, going to bar, playing games etc.

It really depends on the process. If a person make money only by working for someone else, he could never become independent and would be obligated to spend almost all his time for work. The sad part is, it could never pay off. In my opinion, the only way to escape such a scenario is to make up some new way to make money, which would suit you particularly. Cryptocurrency can help with that, I am convinced.

This is very true and thanks for the reminder as many people that have loss themselves in the process can read this and have a sense of concern for their loved ones again. It is very serious that people don’t even care about their loved ones because of their verge for sustenance. One thing I realize about all this is that; after getting the money you’ve been chasing after, if you don’t have your loved ones around, you’ll not enjoy the comfort of that money. We hustle to make money for our families to enjoy with us and not for the main purpose of us enjoying it. 70% of the money you make in life are being used by others and not by you, and that is what we call selflessness.

Money is not everything but everything needs money. Having money can help you achieve everything you want, money can also make you sleep soundly without any problems crossing your mind. Money as a bridge to dreams, having lots of money allows you to start a business and build your dream house with your family. Success in achieving a level of financial freedom always requires support from those closest to you such as wife, children, parents and closest relatives.

Earning money is not the only goal in life, there are still other responsibilities that must be managed to manage time to gather with family. Being together with your family is another goal that must be prioritized which can help you live a better life.

Do you want to spend time with people and live in poverty forever or you want to be rich and other things comes second. Lets focus on what is important, hustle to make money so you can take the vacation you want and be with your loved ones later. I get your point but lets us not lose focus on what the goals are. One of them is to be financially independent and we're to do whatever it takes legally to attain that even though it has to mean we ignore our loved ones for now.

If you don't make it, it's still those people that you were giving your time that will neglect you as you become less important. Money isn't everything but not having it is the worst punishment on earth. Money controls everything, with the money you can give those loves one a memory that they can't forget in a hurry.


Earning money and being successful that's all that matters for now, forget about the bonding they're not necessary. Just been there for your love ones is fine don't put anything ahead of your goals of having financially freedom. Make the money first and you can take them all on the vacation you want and spend time with your loves ones. Don't put bonding time over hustle time but if there's a way you can balance everything then do it.

You would really be living a life to be boring and something that wont really be that colorful if you do really just that make yourself that too mindful about on how to make money.
Its true that you wont really be having that life on cherishing something specially with your loved ones because you had put all of the attention and time when it comes to money making.
You would really be definitely be putting up yourself into those potential family  relation problem on the time that your children wont really be that making out such treatment
as a family member just because you havent able to have some bonding into them. This is why it would really be that important on having some balance
when it comes to money making and spending time with your loved ones.