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Topic: Just a reminder. Don't lose yourself in the process. - page 2. (Read 335 times)

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That is true, if we consider the present time, most of us are leaving some important things of life into the back and running after success and money. One of these is not spending time with family or friends. And these things are slowly turning us from humans to machines, emotions & love are going away from us.
Recently I saw a report that the fear of expense among the Japanese is reducing marriage and having children, indicating that the elderly population in Japan will increase in the next few decades. So I also want to say that both money and success are necessary, but we must not go away from some facts for which we are human.
I think in this case it depends on us prioritizing and being good at positioning ourselves.
Preparing for a good future is a must and indeed it must be done but that doesn't mean it has to bury all the fun including the time that must be wasted to just hang out with friends and family. We must be able to make ourselves comfortable with the targets we want to achieve for the future while at the same time not making our situation seem to isolate ourselves from others because after all things like that are not very good.
We can still get both so that we are not complacent in one of them and it is actually a choice that we must make because in the end what supports us to live prosperously is not only about material and money but togetherness with family and friends can also be a good support so that we do not feel we are different from others.
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We now live in a world where we are busy making money and making ends meet. We have to in order to survive. The competition is so high that sometimes we lose ourselves in that process. We are busy making a successful life so that no one related to us won't suffer. Having a decent bank balance, having a property or having a car. Working to the extreme to make that dream come true.

But in that process, are we giving enough attention to our surroundings? People close to us or our loved ones, are we giving enough time to them? When we are gone, what will they say about us? Or even if someone left us forever, will we have enough memory to remember them?

Earning money and being successful is important in life. But never forget who you are and the people around you. Money is not everything. It is important to survive but make sure to take some time to bond with people around you. It will also help reduce the anxiety or stress that you are having because of all that work.

Trust the process, you will be successful one day for sure. But never lose your own soul in that process.
Im really on such condition or on process on which time is already that being having no balance in regarding about family time and bonding but im thinking that reaching out on a particular state or condition on which
i wont really be needing to have some job or simply that financially free so that i could spend up time more with my family. This is my target and yes it might not really be something that can be known on what would be the outcome but as long im that still young then i could still have those chance and probability that i could reach it out. Money isnt everything but having none or shortage would really be bringing out such big impact
and there are people who cant really just bare up to see that their family is really that at tough situation in terms of finances.

It is really that normal for a husband or a father that they would really be working so hard so that they could give out the things that they do want in speaking about things and wants and needs in life.
Yes, time is crucial and important but having no money to support is much more not a good thing to have on. So it is a normal
approach that we would really be working hard for them.
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Everyone on this forum platform is looking for the same thing, and that is to get a good profit, whether it is Bitcoin or cryptocurrency that has potential in the market. And that's just that there is no shortcut here to being successful in the end.

We all need to go through what we have to go through so that we can achieve what we want to happen here. And this will only happen if we learn everything there is to know, such as trading and tracing potential altcoins in the market as well.
That's not the point here mate. We can do whatever we want to make more money. But sometimes we lose ourselves in that process that we forget what is more important than money in our lives. Which is the people around us and the people we love. Imagine you have achieved everything in life and you have also trained your kids or family members to be the same. They are out there making their own life a success. But you fell sick at your 70 and you are on a hospital bed fighting with death.
How would you feel when no one is there and you can't recall any moment with them that can remind you of them? So use the precious time you have in hand to reconnect with the people you love. Make memories. It is hard to make time but at least make a few moments that are worth remembering. 

I think that there is still a point in what he said, because if we are still seeking profit in this field, it is still showing that if we are aiming for profit in cryptocurrency, for sure it is also for the people around us who give value to us, and that's why we do this is also for our loved ones. Right?

So it means that what we are talking about is still related somehow, because if we only focus on money or earnings and nothing else, it will appear that we are very greedy when that is our only reason.
hero member
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That is true, if we consider the present time, most of us are leaving some important things of life into the back and running after success and money. One of these is not spending time with family or friends. And these things are slowly turning us from humans to machines, emotions & love are going away from us.
Recently I saw a report that the fear of expense among the Japanese is reducing marriage and having children, indicating that the elderly population in Japan will increase in the next few decades. So I also want to say that both money and success are necessary, but we must not go away from some facts for which we are human.

With money revolving around majority of our lives, a lot of it can make one's life comfortable and easy.

Perhaps this is the reason on why lots of people are trying their best to earn cryptocurrencies due to its potential in the future. Especially that there is a halving that s going to occur by April, everyone should keep track of the time and determine when they would cash out and convert their BTCs to their respective and desired currency.

At the end of the day, people should not lose themselves over a failed investment. Sure, we may have incurred some losses but this is not the end of the game as this is definitely part of the whole tools in cryptocurrency.
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when someone chases something and forgets the people closest to them, it means they have lost something valuable in their life. it's true that money is the most important thing now and many people fight to get it, but the people closest to us and those we love are priceless assets that cannot be compared with the money we get.
But what if we chase those dreams of ours for them? I guess this is a very good argument for this topic. I think it is okay to chase something like money because that is equivalent to comfort in the future. I mean I think it is okay to disappear and forget while chasing those things but we should always go back and take a look back to see and help people who helped us and supported us along the way. Being selfish is one way to give yourself a pretty hard time when we get old, when you can't stand on your own no one is there if you call.

we might be able to get a lot of money, but when we lose the people closest to us and those we love in the process of getting that money, does that money have any meaning anymore? money is only temporary, and don't focus too much on looking for it so that we lose the opportunity to build good relationships with the people we love.
The Best thing to do is check on people from time to time, you won't know when will you need help from people around you.
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This is the world we live in now. Money is more important than everything else. I wish it wasn’t but this system forces you to be like that. And there is no end to this fucking rat race. I know people who have a few million dollars net worth and they still work like a mad man. They just can’t have enough of it but most importantly they can’t say “enough”. They can’t quit their job/business and enjoy their wealth. They work endlessly till they wear out and when they do, it is all over. All those work for nothing. They spend their last days in a hospital room waiting to die. Sometimes less is more.
Yes, it’s the reality but we know definitely that it won’t be good for us in the long run. It’s better to still live in balance, give enough time to work to earn, and do not forget to rest for a while and enjoy your current life. That’s how it should be, but unfortunately people focus more on earning money and never get contented and still find other means for additional income, until the body decides to quit and end up stop working on its own.

Although it’s a requirement for us to work and earn adequate income, but we all know there’s no enough for us. We still work hard no matter what, even in times that we’re supposed to rest and enjoy what we’ve got.
legendary
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That's not the point here mate. We can do whatever we want to make more money. But sometimes we lose ourselves in that process that we forget what is more important than money in our lives. Which is the people around us and the people we love. Imagine you have achieved everything in life and you have also trained your kids or family members to be the same. They are out there making their own life a success. But you fell sick at your 70 and you are on a hospital bed fighting with death.
How would you feel when no one is there and you can't recall any moment with them that can remind you of them? So use the precious time you have in hand to reconnect with the people you love. Make memories. It is hard to make time but at least make a few moments that are worth remembering.
Ironically, rank, position, wealth, and everything that boosts a person's social status actually makes them lose several things, including good relationships with their family members. Not all rich people really care about the condition of their parents, some of them are even abandoned in orphanages and only fulfill their needs without being willing to visit them.

I completely understand what you mean - but those are some of the things that happen in the social environment. A life full of love and peace of mind is something that everyone hopes for instead of just wealth and possessions - but unfortunately not everyone has it. So yes - keep trying the best for ourselves and everyone around us, especially our family.
legendary
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People look for a purpose in their lives and some of them devote to their jobs, neglecting everything else. It might not be the best approach to living a fulfilling life, but it works for some, even if it is not the most ethical alternative in many cases. But, is the father or mother who are devoted to their family but aren't willing to have a job and let them live in poverty any better? There must be a balance.

A colleague in my work is retiring early, even if the effect in his income from now on will be terrible compared to what he would get if he held on for a couple of years more. He says that his work makes him angry or stressed sometimes, even at home, and that he doesn't want his son to remember him as the ogre he has become. And he has all my respect for that.
legendary
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a man will need to be appreciated by the people whom he supports and will be able to work the entire week.  this is what society expects a man to do, it is to work to provide for the family. the more a father can give to his family the happier the father is because he will be appreciated by the wife and the kids.

as long as the person has the time to share with the kids, it becomes a mutual relationship between the father and the family but with less time to chat and no family dinner, it's not gonna be healthy for the relationship we've seen families break apart when fathers have no time to be with the kids.
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That's what people needs to know, we should be able to balance our work and personal time, first of all we might neglect our health because we are too focused on work, Sometimes we are not aware that we have changed a lot because we are too burned out we are doing.It is also important that at least once in a while we take time to rest and vacation with our loved ones because maybe later we don't notice, our time is consumed by working to earn money but the exchange is the loss of time and attention to the people around us.
That is the importance of dividing time in life for everyone, because time never goes backwards, but always goes forward without being able to repeat what has already passed. Within twenty-four hours a day and night, everyone can divide it into three important aspects, including work, worship and family and also rest. Each person can use eight hours of work time a day and also eight hours for rest, while the rest is for family and for individual worship. Because if someone is able to share their time in that way, I don't think there will be too much pressure on them.
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We are all becoming mechanical day by day.  Everyone is just running after money.  Money is very necessary in life, it cannot be denied. But we leave everything and run after money only.  It is very frustrating. It is destroying our family unity.  Even under the same roof, there is a lot of distance between us.  We should come out of this disease. We should earn enough money to move on in life, give enough time to family. We should give time to ourselves.  Take some quality time for yourself. Otherwise, at the end of life, you will have money but no good memories.
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It is important not to get consumed by work & to enjoy home life, family time & leisure time because a healthy work life balance is essential for overall well being. Constantly focusing on work can lead to burnout, stress & health issues. By prioritising personal & family time we can recharge, strengthen relationships & find fulfilment outside of work. It allows us to create memories, pursue hobbies & take care of ourselves physically & mentally. A balanced life leads to increased productivity, happiness & a sense of purpose beyond professional achievements.
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Everyone on this forum platform is looking for the same thing, and that is to get a good profit, whether it is Bitcoin or cryptocurrency that has potential in the market. And that's just that there is no shortcut here to being successful in the end.

We all need to go through what we have to go through so that we can achieve what we want to happen here. And this will only happen if we learn everything there is to know, such as trading and tracing potential altcoins in the market as well.
That's not the point here mate. We can do whatever we want to make more money. But sometimes we lose ourselves in that process that we forget what is more important than money in our lives. Which is the people around us and the people we love. Imagine you have achieved everything in life and you have also trained your kids or family members to be the same. They are out there making their own life a success. But you fell sick at your 70 and you are on a hospital bed fighting with death.
How would you feel when no one is there and you can't recall any moment with them that can remind you of them? So use the precious time you have in hand to reconnect with the people you love. Make memories. It is hard to make time but at least make a few moments that are worth remembering. 
legendary
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I agree with the op's sentiment. Money is necessary for survival and for some beneficial things, but it's not the ultimate goal, and life should be spent doing enjoyable things and making a positive impact on those around us. Being rich is not among my life goals at all. I just want to have enough to be able to live a comfortable life, to support my loved ones, to travel occasionally etc. But spending time with my family and friends is more important to me than earning more money because I want to enjoy my life while I can, and just earning more isn't giving much joy because it takes the precious commodity of time that could be spent doing other things. It's hard to remember these things in our capitalist world, but it's important to see money as a means, not a goal.
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We now live in a world where we are busy making money and making ends meet. We have to in order to survive. The competition is so high that sometimes we lose ourselves in that process. We are busy making a successful life so that no one related to us won't suffer. Having a decent bank balance, having a property or having a car. Working to the extreme to make that dream come true.

But in that process, are we giving enough attention to our surroundings? People close to us or our loved ones, are we giving enough time to them? When we are gone, what will they say about us? Or even if someone left us forever, will we have enough memory to remember them?

Earning money and being successful is important in life. But never forget who you are and the people around you. Money is not everything. It is important to survive but make sure to take some time to bond with people around you. It will also help reduce the anxiety or stress that you are having because of all that work.

Trust the process, you will be successful one day for sure. But never lose your own soul in that process.

Everyone on this forum platform is looking for the same thing, and that is to get a good profit, whether it is Bitcoin or cryptocurrency that has potential in the market. And that's just that there is no shortcut here to being successful in the end.

We all need to go through what we have to go through so that we can achieve what we want to happen here. And this will only happen if we learn everything there is to know, such as trading and tracing potential altcoins in the market as well.
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We now live in a world where we are busy making money and making ends meet. We have to in order to survive. The competition is so high that sometimes we lose ourselves in that process. We are busy making a successful life so that no one related to us won't suffer. Having a decent bank balance, having a property or having a car. Working to the extreme to make that dream come true.

But in that process, are we giving enough attention to our surroundings? People close to us or our loved ones, are we giving enough time to them? When we are gone, what will they say about us? Or even if someone left us forever, will we have enough memory to remember them?

Earning money and being successful is important in life. But never forget who you are and the people around you. Money is not everything. It is important to survive but make sure to take some time to bond with people around you. It will also help reduce the anxiety or stress that you are having because of all that work.

Trust the process, you will be successful one day for sure. But never lose your own soul in that process.

This is very true.

It's not bad to work like you're really broke but always make it balance. Too much time in the office or in your work makes you incomplete as a human being, especially if you have your own family. You also have to spend time with them, watch you kids as they grow, knowing what's their favorite, and what kind of game they love to play. You also need some vacation, to clear your mind away from stress in your work, to be more productive.

It's important to know if you work for money or money works for you.

That's what people needs to know, we should be able to balance our work and personal time, first of all we might neglect our health because we are too focused on work, Sometimes we are not aware that we have changed a lot because we are too burned out we are doing.It is also important that at least once in a while we take time to rest and vacation with our loved ones because maybe later we don't notice, our time is consumed by working to earn money but the exchange is the loss of time and attention to the people around us.
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I am sorry to break this but it is hard we can not just stop working and change the way things are working for us. I know we should live a life that's our dreamy land, and go out anytime we want with our families and friends but we are so stuck in the circle of work and life that it is impossible to go that way. Get this, if we try to live a life with just joys and get out of the process then we will ultimately have to live life on low wagers. This means we need to work less but also less wager and fewer expectations from the life expenses. This could be anything from good cuisine, to great gateways with family/friends OR having medical emergencies etc. This means we must compromise the life we can live with better earnings. The only way to get out of this is to manage the work-life balance. This is the only way to make this happen. I am not trying to deny the good life fact here but the reality is we need money as importantly as we wanna live life.
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We now live in a world where we are busy making money and making ends meet. We have to in order to survive. The competition is so high that sometimes we lose ourselves in that process. We are busy making a successful life so that no one related to us won't suffer. Having a decent bank balance, having a property or having a car. Working to the extreme to make that dream come true.

But in that process, are we giving enough attention to our surroundings? People close to us or our loved ones, are we giving enough time to them? When we are gone, what will they say about us? Or even if someone left us forever, will we have enough memory to remember them?

Earning money and being successful is important in life. But never forget who you are and the people around you. Money is not everything. It is important to survive but make sure to take some time to bond with people around you. It will also help reduce the anxiety or stress that you are having because of all that work.

Trust the process, you will be successful one day for sure. But never lose your own soul in that process.

This is very true.

It's not bad to work like you're really broke but always make it balance. Too much time in the office or in your work makes you incomplete as a human being, especially if you have your own family. You also have to spend time with them, watch you kids as they grow, knowing what's their favorite, and what kind of game they love to play. You also need some vacation, to clear your mind away from stress in your work, to be more productive.

It's important to know if you work for money or money works for you.
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What's sadder is that most of the youngster on their early twenties doesn't even have time to find the people that they consider their closest friend, they are too focused on the competition of live, most of them considering their peers as their competitor. They don't date, they spend lesser and lesser time to socialize, when they do it's because they want to do some business, not because they want to know and enjoy each other.

I think one of the reason is social media, we used to focus on our own life chasing our own goal, now we see other people achieve their goal and we think that we should have achieved the same goal like them, we never consider that we have different starting point, we have different privilege, and we have our own time to reach our goal.
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when someone chases something and forgets the people closest to them, it means they have lost something valuable in their life. it's true that money is the most important thing now and many people fight to get it, but the people closest to us and those we love are priceless assets that cannot be compared with the money we get.

we might be able to get a lot of money, but when we lose the people closest to us and those we love in the process of getting that money, does that money have any meaning anymore? money is only temporary, and don't focus too much on looking for it so that we lose the opportunity to build good relationships with the people we love.

That's right, I agree with you, making money is not wrong because of course we all have our own desires and with a good mindset of course we must be able to realize what we want by working hard to make money, and also that way we have a good income. It will clearly lighten the burden on parents, and in pursuing income or money, of course we should not forget ourselves or our family, because family is the most valuable asset in our lives.

Sometimes in a family there are people who have a bad relationship, even though they are husband and wife, but they themselves have jobs and they are also pursuing their own careers, so they don't have time to gather or communicate with each other, even once they communicate. only for a short time and this usually happens to rich people who have good careers, but with a simple family they can divide their time to earn money and time to gather with family, this is what must be done, balance the time to chase money and time to gather with family, because when we feel tired and tired, our home is our own family. This is what you need to remember, that family is the most valuable asset.
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