Recently I saw a report that the fear of expense among the Japanese is reducing marriage and having children, indicating that the elderly population in Japan will increase in the next few decades. So I also want to say that both money and success are necessary, but we must not go away from some facts for which we are human.
Preparing for a good future is a must and indeed it must be done but that doesn't mean it has to bury all the fun including the time that must be wasted to just hang out with friends and family. We must be able to make ourselves comfortable with the targets we want to achieve for the future while at the same time not making our situation seem to isolate ourselves from others because after all things like that are not very good.
We can still get both so that we are not complacent in one of them and it is actually a choice that we must make because in the end what supports us to live prosperously is not only about material and money but togetherness with family and friends can also be a good support so that we do not feel we are different from others.