Topic: Kids Take After Their Mum's Intelligence (Read 333 times)
Actually, kids spend a lot of time with mother than father, and mother take care all the time, so in my thinking kids learn from their mother than father. May i a m wrong, but you know every house environment is different and i see most of the parents both are doing jobs and their grandmother take care them. So every house has different environment then every kid has different learning style from their parents.
As an undergraduate, "Child Psychology" used to interest me (for whatsoever reasons. But now I know why as a father). Two of the few things I picked up from that enviable field of study are:
Kids take after their mothers' intelligent quota. No matter how brilliant you're as a man, your kids will pick that from their mother. Not yours. This is sad for me but it is scientifically proven. You can Google it up if in doubt. So, Mr. Bachelor look beyond the physiognomy of that spinster you want to marry and her current financial standing into her brain.
The second one is - Kids learn faster with their fathers than with their mothers. The problem here is that most fathers hardly spend that lecture time with their kids. Before you argue this with me, when was the last time you did the kids' assignments with them or read a story book with them as a father?
As a father, this is so true. I have noticed this in my kids. How many of you fathers have also noticed this?
Obviously it's a universal fact that Male child are more attracted towards mothers and female the vice versa. But in current strategy the child behaviour depends on how they grown up n day care. Because parents have no time to take care of them scheduling themselves busy in works. Only if kids grew under parental care they get there full moral support also parental character as mentioned in the given paraphrase. Kids take after their mothers' intelligent quota. No matter how brilliant you're as a man, your kids will pick that from their mother. Not yours. This is sad for me but it is scientifically proven. You can Google it up if in doubt. So, Mr. Bachelor look beyond the physiognomy of that spinster you want to marry and her current financial standing into her brain.
The second one is - Kids learn faster with their fathers than with their mothers. The problem here is that most fathers hardly spend that lecture time with their kids. Before you argue this with me, when was the last time you did the kids' assignments with them or read a story book with them as a father?
As a father, this is so true. I have noticed this in my kids. How many of you fathers have also noticed this?
I really don't want to believe this
Dude, this is a proven theory and not a mere speculation. All you have to do is check dull cousins/nephews/nieces of yours and then check how their mothers are instead of arguing blindly. Simple.
I really don't want to believe this
I'm pretty sure that's reliable information. I find it more and more agreeing on my mom instead of my dad.
No, it isn't true! I take after my father!
I think that you surely got something from mother to
Also, many other factors are in the game like genes, environment, society etc.
No, it isn't true! I take after my father!
You took after his physical built and attributes or what? Your comment isn't that clear but remember that what I talked about here is, "intelligence". It's not even about character. It's about the grey matter in the skull - brain.
No, it isn't true! I take after my father!
I'm not sure about this statement for 100%, because I think it also depends on how this child was raised? and what if mother and father have equal intelligence?
Very interesting, how about the environment factor though? Do you think it will or has affected our child's intelligence when growing up? Support families are there, aunt, uncles, grandpa, grandma and cousins, they could someone influence a child when growing up.
But I will keep this in mind and try to spend some time studying with my kids.
These factors you listed only impart the behavioural pattern of kids, not their level of intelligence. For instance, they may want to copy what neighbours, aunties or uncles do but it doesn't mean they can have the same level of intelligence as these people they try to imitate. The research I wrote about is purely on intelligence, not behaviour.But I will keep this in mind and try to spend some time studying with my kids.
Yes, I also read about it here: https://www.independent.co.uk/news/science/children-intelligence-iq-mother-inherit-inheritance-genetics-genes-a7345596.html
But they still said that about 40%-60% is related to the genes and if fathers keep taking efforts of teaching their kids, the kid's intelligence can be influenced.
Oh, thanks for the article. I never knew of that link. I had to read the voluminous textbook on Child Psychology for that little insight a few years ago.But they still said that about 40%-60% is related to the genes and if fathers keep taking efforts of teaching their kids, the kid's intelligence can be influenced.
Are you a father too?
No, I'm not married
I have read that even behavior traits are inherited from parents but it's not certain whether the mother or father has influence on the child. My father never took any interest in my studies and he was not good in studies while my mom was good and I am too so I am a proof that it's true
Yes, I also read about it here: https://www.independent.co.uk/news/science/children-intelligence-iq-mother-inherit-inheritance-genetics-genes-a7345596.html
But they still said that about 40%-60% is related to the genes and if fathers keep taking efforts of teaching their kids, the kid's intelligence can be influenced.
Oh, thanks for the article. I never knew of that link. I had to read the voluminous textbook on Child Psychology for that little insight a few years ago.But they still said that about 40%-60% is related to the genes and if fathers keep taking efforts of teaching their kids, the kid's intelligence can be influenced.
Are you a father too?
The problem here is that most fathers hardly spend that lecture time with their kids. Before you argue this with me, when was the last time you did the kids' assignments with them or read a story book with them as a father?
I'm proud to say I read a story most nights I think this largely varies per country, here the "traditional" mother role is shared more by both parents now.
Yes, I also read about it here: https://www.independent.co.uk/news/science/children-intelligence-iq-mother-inherit-inheritance-genetics-genes-a7345596.html
But they still said that about 40%-60% is related to the genes and if fathers keep taking efforts of teaching their kids, the kid's intelligence can be influenced.
But they still said that about 40%-60% is related to the genes and if fathers keep taking efforts of teaching their kids, the kid's intelligence can be influenced.
I am soon to be daddy. I'd like to try this since I am mostly in our home, anyway.
You should try it out. It works. More fathers should devout time to their kids and stop being masculinized. BTW, welcome to the club in advance.More than a father mum only helpful for hair child to take the chances of teaching in all the way so they had there extra ability to take care their children so the education is also in this case and they had the most chances of teaching and train them.
Sorry, this isn't about a superiority contest. I am talking a research. And this observation I have made on it to be true as a father.Scientifically it is proven, but you should not trust it, many times the quality of your child's learning also depends on the degree of interest that he or she places...
You don't trust scientific research? You sound that way here.
As an undergraduate, "Child Psychology" used to interest me (for whatsoever reasons. But now I know why as a father). Two of the few things I picked up from that enviable field of study are:
Kids take after their mothers' intelligent quota. No matter how brilliant you're as a man, your kids will pick that from their mother. Not yours. This is sad for me but it is scientifically proven. You can Google it up if in doubt. So, Mr. Bachelor look beyond the physiognomy of that spinster you want to marry and her current financial standing into her brain.
The second one is - Kids learn faster with their fathers than with their mothers. The problem here is that most fathers hardly spend that lecture time with their kids. Before you argue this with me, when was the last time you did the kids' assignments with them or read a story book with them as a father?
As a father, this is so true. I have noticed this in my kids. How many of you fathers have also noticed this?
Kids take after their mothers' intelligent quota. No matter how brilliant you're as a man, your kids will pick that from their mother. Not yours. This is sad for me but it is scientifically proven. You can Google it up if in doubt. So, Mr. Bachelor look beyond the physiognomy of that spinster you want to marry and her current financial standing into her brain.
The second one is - Kids learn faster with their fathers than with their mothers. The problem here is that most fathers hardly spend that lecture time with their kids. Before you argue this with me, when was the last time you did the kids' assignments with them or read a story book with them as a father?
As a father, this is so true. I have noticed this in my kids. How many of you fathers have also noticed this?
What you say is very real, but remember, they are children, children learn very fast, I think if they take part of their mother's brain, but they also carry implicit genetic information from their father, that is, in each neuron of your child, There is also information about you that you passed through DNA.
Scientifically it is proven, but you should not trust it, many times the quality of your child's learning also depends on the degree of interest that he or she places, the mother is very fundamental, and it is also in your hands that your child is more intelligent with the knowledge that you impose that are appropriate, and that allow it to continue developing. Remember that for him to be formed he needed you, and that you have the responsibility to be able to teach him how to think like you, what is really important, intelligence will always develop, wherever it comes from.
There is no one will replace your mum in this world so intelligence will definitely been shared by her only for you so the lifestyle of yourself only begin with the helpful thoughts from the side of your family especially your mum.
More than a father mum only helpful for hair child to take the chances of teaching in all the way so they had there extra ability to take care their children so the education is also in this case and they had the most chances of teaching and train them.
As an undergraduate, "Child Psychology" used to interest me (for whatsoever reasons. But now I know why as a father). Two of the few things I picked up from that enviable field of study are:
Kids take after their mothers' intelligent quota. No matter how brilliant you're as a man, your kids will pick that from their mother. Not yours. This is sad for me but it is scientifically proven. You can Google it up if in doubt. So, Mr. Bachelor look beyond the physiognomy of that spinster you want to marry and her current financial standing into her brain.
The second one is - Kids learn faster with their fathers than with their mothers. The problem here is that most fathers hardly spend that lecture time with their kids. Before you argue this with me, when was the last time you did the kids' assignments with them or read a story book with them as a father?
As a father, this is so true. I have noticed this in my kids. How many of you fathers have also noticed this?
Kids take after their mothers' intelligent quota. No matter how brilliant you're as a man, your kids will pick that from their mother. Not yours. This is sad for me but it is scientifically proven. You can Google it up if in doubt. So, Mr. Bachelor look beyond the physiognomy of that spinster you want to marry and her current financial standing into her brain.
The second one is - Kids learn faster with their fathers than with their mothers. The problem here is that most fathers hardly spend that lecture time with their kids. Before you argue this with me, when was the last time you did the kids' assignments with them or read a story book with them as a father?
As a father, this is so true. I have noticed this in my kids. How many of you fathers have also noticed this?
I am soon to be daddy. I'd like to try this since I am mostly in our home, anyway.
Very interesting, how about the environment factor though? Do you think it will or has affected our child's intelligence when growing up? Support families are there, aunt, uncles, grandpa, grandma and cousins, they could someone influence a child when growing up.
But I will keep this in mind and try to spend some time studying with my kids.
These factors you listed only impart the behavioural pattern of kids, not their level of intelligence. For instance, they may want to copy what neighbours, aunties or uncles do but it doesn't mean they can have the same level of intelligence as these people they try to imitate. The research I wrote about is purely on intelligence, not behaviour. But I will keep this in mind and try to spend some time studying with my kids.
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