Topic: Know when to stop - page 15. (Read 4606 times)

Having big ambition to win always has bad impact on every gambler and one of them is easily influenced by several things related to winning, they will have the feeling of being able to get win like the one they see.
Will give gambler sense of self-confidence and confidence in their abilities or good luck and there is another impact, namely increasing capital or the amount of bets.
If you look at problems like this, actually the mistakes that occur are caused by the attitude and mindset of the gamblers themselves because they cannot control themselves and only think about various things about success in gambling.
Blaming gambling sites or people who share references is not the right attitude and the truth is that they need to be able to make themselves aware.

This is humane attitude, but in gambling the attitude of greed must really be suppressed so that bad things don't happen which will cause various difficult problems in the future.
Moreover, I sure they will feel regret when number of wins only go to waste because they are lost again without any remaining, but they only have regrets when everything has happened.
No gambler can afford to accept any bad outcome of losing all their winnings, but from incidents like this they do not immediately stop instead adding capital by depositing money and trying to recover all their losses.

If you are really that a fan on trying out to make yourself that watching into those influencers then you are just that basically making yourself being influenced and possibly be able to
do the same thing on what they are doing or simply might really be losing off control when it comes to spending on which you should supposed not to be spending up on that way.
People wont really be messing up their lives if they are really just that sensible into the things that they are dealing with specially with gambling.
Knowing on when to stop is something that would come in someones own decisions. Speaking about your own friend and asking for some loan and you have rejected out such request
then this do usually ends up on having those conflicts on which this is something that i dont really like.

Good thing that you manage to convince him and not him to force you to lend him money, most of the time when a person already been drunk with his believe he doesn't care about the opinion of other people, he will push his way and will try to make things happen, people who really don't know and understand the power of those influencers in manipulating the outcome of their games.

They tend to be good and they display that with such samples of their winning journey, very appealing from those people who follows them and continue to watch them doing their trick.

Good for your friend that he listen else, he might create a reason for you to distant yourself as you will not going to lend him money for his gambling.

It's true, gambling that is done of course must be done carefully, don't let us gamble carelessly which can make us lose self-control and cause big losses. It is true that you say there is no certainty of winning, even in my opinion there is no certainty of winning, even though we gamble carefully it does not rule out the possibility that we can lose, the defeat will still occur, but with us who gamble carefully we can limit ourselves from gambling.

It's a good idea to think of gambling as entertainment to fill your spare time or to relieve boredom, because if with the aim of pursuing victory, of course that's not true, which can trigger our emotions to peak which leads to losses. I agree with you as much as possible we must be able to learn self-control and apply it to the gambling that is done, because if not us who else? Is that right my friend?

I think there are quite a lot of people who are victims or some gamblers come and are attracted to gambling because of something they see as very tempting, one of the scenarios is like seeing some impressions made by influencers or stremers who actually show something that is not in accordance with the actual facts, but yes on the other hand as you said that there are still many people who really don't know things like this, and I was once visited by someone I didn't really know or meant a distant friend who then said while recommending some sites that he thought could give him a lot of money, he wanted to borrow money from me to gamble, one of the things that made him so sure to borrow money because he saw that the stremers or influencers managed to get a big win that was very tantalizing to the eye, and honestly at that time I responded with a "laugh" , in the end I was really able to save him from danger with some sensible advice and statements regarding the things that stremers or influencers do.

There are people who really can't understand that, they are drunk with the lust to follow those influencers who use their influence to bring people to the gambling house and earn referral bonus, or they are being paid for advertisement and they put good efforts to make things look likes easier to beat the house, it's tough to make that person realize that he just being tricked as per his own understanding everything is true and if luck permits he will manage to duplicate the outcome.


A common reaction when you experienced that big wins, instead of quitting and enjoying the money, greed will start to manipulate and push you to seek for more, along the way, you will lose it back and will push you to be more aggressive in trying to recover and win back all your money.

Yes that's right, gambling without having any preparation that leads to precautions to minimize the amount of loss is actually like what you said that it is a way for them to end up with ruin, especially in terms of finance, on the other hand I also have one friend who is very aggressive in his gambling activities, there is nothing more interesting than gambling for him and obviously every day he always has difficulty in meeting his daily needs, such as buying food or buying something for operational needs. But somehow he still can't reach his consciousness, on the other hand I don't prohibit you or anyone from gambling but please at least you have the right understanding of gambling so that you don't take advantage of situations and conditions that will actually only make you tormented with all the problems. However, healthy gambling is when you treat gambling with all limits, especially in terms of the amount of budget and also the time of involvement, after all gambling should be fun and not a place that destroys.

Anyone that lacks self control in gambling Is on a moving train to poverty or wreaking his entire finance, I've seen what gambling does to people on the street, people use their lunch money to place bet and end up losing.
Lack of self control would get you no where, you must know when you are over doing anything and try to put a limit on yourself, if possible budget an amount to use for gambling and don't exceed that amount.

Big wins are like fuel for addiction and gambling urges, the more one sees people getting big wins, the more they want to gamble themselves. I have a relative who keeps watching gambling videos that people create by editing the outcomes and showing how much money they are making, he doesn't listen to us or understand that they are doing this only to earn referrals because he is promoting his referral link and luring people with those edited videos.

Now if someone can become mad that they will also gamble and earn money like those creating videos, how would they behave if they manage to hit a few big wins themselves? They don't stop after that, even if they are spending and wasting a lot of money on their gambling activities, they still keep doing it.

Actually, to stop from playing the game we can do it ourselves, even though there may be friends who remind us to stop but if we ourselves still want to play maybe the advice from our friends will have no effect. Therefore, to be able to stop with the game that is done, there must be your own awareness, not with other people. It's true what you said is because of their urge to get the victory that makes it difficult for them to stop, because I have also felt it. I don't think it's just a lack of money, but a lack of awareness as well, because I think if they can be aware of the loss side that is certain maybe they can stop playing at certain times, namely when they lose or win. Also with this awareness they can see their own finances if they lose the game and realize with no more money then they can stop not forcing themselves to continue gambling when they have no money.

That's right, because the key to managing finances is good self-control, now suppose we have a lot of money but on the other hand we don't have good self-control over the money we have in terms of playing betting games. Then the money owned will of course run out quickly because of the absence of good self-control. the same is the case with us if we already have our own family, of course we must have a sense of great responsibility towards our family and finances, where we must be able to control ourselves by managing finances, do not let us spend the money we have on the game alone while the other side ignores the family that should be a responsibility, therefore self-control in my opinion is the most important point that must be considered in playing the game.

With someone's help who really showing care about the person they both might find a good alternative to prevent playing back or to prevent in keep participating in any types of gambling, It's an idea where the person who are engage into gambling can find a good way to divert his attention, though it's not an easy task to someone who already have that addiction inside but if there's still a self-will which can be use if there's a corresponding help that can be provided.

Keep in mind that there's always a way to stop if you are really keen and you are really aiming to achieve in moving away from gambling.

Every player who started a session should be able to know how to end it, if not the session will help him put it to an end when his funds get exhausted. Waiting for our funds to elapse before we rest isn't a good gambling practice. Being able to control the bank roll is crucial for every gambler. Speaking of cross addiction in gambling, it's a better method of escaping problem gambling, but it's not simple to achieve especially in gambling. A gambler has multiple reasons not to avoid gambling. His money is there, and the brain has been accustomed to gambling most of the time. Hence, staying in touch with people who can help the player divert his attention, also works fine for the gambler. Trying to achieve it all alone, is not conducive for the gambler's health, he could get lost in the process and wouldn't realize what he's suffering from. It's like a gravity, the addict need another force to distract the body from engaging into gambling again.

I don't think this is a right conclusion.It may be right in the sense that rich people play more money and are carefree in their play without any stress during the session yet I don't know rich people becoming richer with gambling,in fact quite the opposite.They are a goldmine to the casinos where they play as their fat wallet becomes slimmer and slimmer if they continue gambling.The reason is simple and that is such people usually play with much higher bets compared to common gamblers.

True, making gambling a playground is a mindset and idea that is more advisable than making it a place to change fate, it's just an illusion that comes out of your head because you put your hopes on winning, and anyway I think there is enough evidence that we can make examples and lessons that most gamblers who are too serious in treating their gambling activities with their records that want to earn end up with a lot of downturns, simply put instead of earning but what happens instead is losing a certain amount of money. I think things or cases like this can really be used as lessons and considerations to reach the right decision, so I think now all your choices are in your own hands, if you can reach the awareness to consider then you just have to choose which one is better for you, and obviously I am sure that if you manage to reach the awareness to consider then it is a fact that in the end you change your mindset and make gambling nothing more than a playground when you have free time without putting any seriousness and expectations.

That is a solution that gamblers should adhere to because after all we must not be greedy and want a win that is bigger than the win that you have already obtained. We must know when to stop when we have won and also know when to stop when your initial capital has run out so there is no needs to chase losses or chase bigger win and if you already know this then you can gamble safely and don't have to overdo it just because you are greedy.

Even though casino can never be lied to, as they say, we play with machines that are smarter than us, whether they have designed them or what, but what is clear is that we all know that casinos are created for business and the owner of course get bigger profits from users, so don't ever think to be able to fool the casinos, let alone hope to get big profit because it is difficult to achieve, you will only waste more time and your winnings in vain if you don't stop immediately.

If the casino game was bad to the gamblers,he should stop the game.Because making money form the gambling site is not easiest one,the gamblers should improve their skills in the particular game.The rich gamblers will play the game as their entertainment,So they will deliver the risk free game in the gambling site.The more money you received from the gambling site will help the gamblers to increase their life standard in the gambling site.The more you play the more you win in the gambling site.The random game was common to the new gamblers,but the random games was avoided by the gamblers.

It's amazing how many abandon discipline at the sight of green. Loss seems foreign until it's faced. However, this is an opportunity to gain knowledge, not what was lost. You promote gambling as fun, not a get-rich-quick scam, but "just one more bet" enchants many. This psychological trap exploits hope and despair. Discussing counterintuitive strategies: Enjoy your losses. Yes, you heard right. Instead of enjoying losing, each loss teaches humility and reminds us that we are simply human

Setting appropriate limits is vital, not merely responsible. Know yourself, your triggers, your boundaries. Gambling with money you can't afford to lose is dumb and disrespectful to yourself and your money. Next time you're tempted by a big win, ask yourself: is it worth the risk to your health? In the end, the biggest win is leaving with your head held high, knowing you played your way

I agree with you. Knowing when to walk away is one of the biggest problems in gambling. Moreover, we are talking not only about those moments when a person has lost money on bets and can no longer afford to take money from his budget, but also about when a person has won money and wants to win more, this is sometimes no less scary

Chasing losses is like running after a runaway train. It's fueled by desperation, not strategy, and ultimately leads to disaster. Instead of seeing losses as opportunities to win back what you've lost, treat them as valuable lessons in risk management. Hitting a big win can be tempting to parlay into an even bigger one, but remember, the house always has the edge. Celebrate your victory, but don't let greed cloud your judgment. Walk away with your winnings and come back another day with a clear head.

Discipline is the key to responsible gambling. Set limits before you start, and stick to them religiously. Don't chase losses, don't exceed your budget, and most importantly, don't gamble with money you can't afford to lose. Remember, responsible gambling isn't just about following rules; it's about understanding the risks and setting healthy boundaries. It's about treating gambling as entertainment, not a path to riches. It's about prioritizing your well-being over the allure of the next big win.

That is why we have to be careful when playing gambling so that we don't use more money to gamble, especially since there is no certainty that we can win from gambling games. We should really take care of ourselves while gambling so that we won't be tempted by anything we see when we've finished gambling and won't want to try it straight away. We will also not be influenced to try to continue gambling because we know that this is just a temptation that many gamblers often face.

If we can think clearly, we can use gambling well and consider it entertainment. We will also learn to restrain ourselves and try to control ourselves so that we don't fall into gambling because that will only make us addicted to gambling. Once we experience a gambling addiction, it will be difficult for us to cure it, and there is a possibility that we will gamble more often without having clear boundaries in gambling. That is why we have to learn good self-control so that we can treat gambling as an activity like any other activity. And because when gambling, we use money, we will allocate a certain amount of money for gambling and will not interfere with the allocation of money for other daily needs.

That is why we have to be careful when gambling because there is a temptation for us to use more money so that it can use up the savings we have. Moreover, there are many real examples of people who ended up losing all their money because they gambled too often without thinking about limiting their gambling activities. This makes us aware that gambling must be used in moderation, and there is no need to use more money so that we can still have money for other things. We won't be able to buy things that we have bought and then sold just to gamble because maybe the price of the goods has gone up so much that if we want to buy them, we need more money, and we don't have any more money.

Especially if we sell property such as land or gold that has been our savings all this time and we sell it to fulfil our ego in gambling. It's really not worth it for us to do because land or gold is an investment that we are preparing for our future and that of our family. We will not be able to have a better future if we sell the things we own just because we want to win from gambling. It's better if we really limit our gambling activities so we can look after our finances well.