Topic: Known Pedophiles How to ruin their lives? Tips? (Read 300 times)

100% assured outcome... It won't erase the deep embedded pain and trauma that he has inflicted. So why do anything at all? I already addressed this. You are a sad excuse for a human being.

possible outcomes...

So i sue him and win some money.....It wouldn't erase the deep embedded pain and trauma that he has inflicted. No this is not about money.

So i sue him and lose some money.....It wouldn't erase the deep embedded pain and trauma that he has inflicted. No this is not about money.

So i sue him and break even.....It wouldn't erase the deep embedded pain and trauma that he has inflicted. No this is not about money.

Read what he said again Captain Condescension. I know the difference between criminal and civil law. Aren't you the least bit disgusted with yourself using such a topic as a mechanism for your own personal spats?

I'm not sure. He said 7years for CIVIL, not criminal. This is not a district attorney going after the perp, but the victim himself, funding the entire thing from his own pocket. And there's no certainty of winning, there are many ways weaseling out of even what seems like a sure case

Literally nothing you do can erase what was done. Money is just one aspect of this. First of all, proving he did this in court will mean he lives the rest of his life shunned and in shame. As an older person he probably depends heavily on others. It would be hard to find that kind of help, even from family after that. Second, even if you don't care about the money, it still takes money out of his pocket, making his life that much harder. You can always donate it if you win anyways. You could use it to help fund the counseling program you participate in. That would objectively be helpful to some one.

So i sue him and win some money.....It wouldn't erase the deep embedded pain and trauma that he has inflicted. No this is not about money.

Pedophiles commit the most horrific acts known to man on the most vulnerable of all....Children. Truly they are societies worst.

Last February i found out the true identity of my Abuser. I'll sum this up in short.

My Friend and i were abused and raped by the same Scumbag when we were 8. I moved away and in 2015 i looked on Facebook to find my friend. I found a person with the same name and viewed his profile. His picture was that of my friend or so i thought. I reached out with a msg. I looked at his friends list and found the wife of my friend and sent her a msg. No replies.

Fast forward to 2019 I again reached out to my friends wife and sent a msg. She finally replied. I explained to her who i was and what had happened. We spoke for hours on the phone. Through our conversation i had found out that my friend was never able to break away from our abuser and he fed him Alcohol and drugs throughout the years in exchange for sex until my friend died at the abusers house.

My friends wife tried to break the two apart unknowing about the history of what this monster did to us. She gave me his nae Address and telephone number.

I was enraged and shaking knowing i had the power to end his life and it would be easy at his age of 82.
I filed a Police report and because of statue of limitations there is nothing the police can do.

So i ask you this....How can i ruin his life? How can i bring this Vile creature to his knees?

Ideas?

I have been for years. It does help when i council others on this subject.

You can still file charges.  Other people may come forward as well. 

Well, you might consider volunteering part time for one of the groups that counsels people  with problems, such as this. You have been there, you know what it is. Why not help others with this.

Look forward. Not backwards.

I would advise you stop making statements like "though I made plans to". I am not saying you are wrong to have these feelings, but if you want to hold him accountable, public statements like this might make that hard. I suggest you contact a lawyer, and discuss your options. There may be tangential ways to do this.

I tried last year. Detectives said statue of limitations are up. Imagine that statue of limitations on Child sex crimes??? Boggles the mind.

If he was younger and was ending up in prison, then his life would be ruined by all other prisoners...

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So i ask you this....How can i ruin his life? How can i bring this Vile creature to his knees?

Ideas?

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Ideas?

Pedophiles commit the most horrific acts known to man on the most vulnerable of all....Children. Truly they are societies worst.

Last February i found out the true identity of my Abuser. I'll sum this up in short.

My Friend and i were abused and raped by the same Scumbag when we were 8. I moved away and in 2015 i looked on Facebook to find my friend. I found a person with the same name and viewed his profile. His picture was that of my friend or so i thought. I reached out with a msg. I looked at his friends list and found the wife of my friend and sent her a msg. No replies.

Fast forward to 2019 I again reached out to my friends wife and sent a msg. She finally replied. I explained to her who i was and what had happened. We spoke for hours on the phone. Through our conversation i had found out that my friend was never able to break away from our abuser and he fed him Alcohol and drugs throughout the years in exchange for sex until my friend died at the abusers house.

My friends wife tried to break the two apart unknowing about the history of what this monster did to us. She gave me his nae Address and telephone number.

I was enraged and shaking knowing i had the power to end his life and it would be easy at his age of 82.
I filed a Police report and because of statue of limitations there is nothing the police can do.

So i ask you this....How can i ruin his life? How can i bring this Vile creature to his knees?

Ideas?