Topic: Let's be sincere (Read 280 times)

See bah bro, if this thing wey you talk like this so na food, person no go find stew to chop am, you get the the points and this post fit make us our mind dey for one side, no one fit talk say him never do mistake for anywhere before most especially in this forum, we all make mistakes not one or two times, and whenever we find someone in that position of mistakes we should not judge them, all of us wey dey here know how we take do to get opportunity to come this forum, people dey outside dey pray make them enter forum dey hustle like us but they don't have, we should always be thanking God for the opportunity wey him give us, you rank up and become a senior man for forum no mean say others no go rank up, na for small everybody dey start come reach that level.

Forum is a place where we should respect each other and when we dey talk about respect in forum, it means that we should respect one another even the newbie deserve to be to respected because they are also members of the forum, as my brother talk say him see a post wey senior member dey talk to newbie in a harsh way E no make sense because it fit lead to another thing during that process, if to say the newbie no be person dey respectful and if he wan reply am in a bad way them go get issue, and it will even lead to waiting both of them no fit explain, I don't have much to say oo but my advice for everybody wey dey here be say make we always remember that this forum is a place where peace most dey and we most respect each other.

Na true op talk, but you have to notice something in this life if you what to succeed in this life you have to obey your elder that is teaching you something or guiding you to the right part if you make mistakes even dey talk waiting you no like you just have to be patient and listing to them and do the right thing, because if dey no like you dey no go tell you your mistake and dey go do Something else where go cause some problem for you, if we no help each other for forum waiting you gain, so OP no dey see say dey help you correct your mistake say na insult because if dey no correct you today tomorrow you go still repeat the same mistakes, so even dey para for u since na mistake dey help you correct just know say na lesson.

sometimes what make all this senior mens dey para for some newbies be say dey like doing the same mistakes,  and some people if dey know talk to them like that dey won't learn there mistakes, everyone is not perfect is just like natural part of learning just forget about shouting on you seen you have correct your self, everyone as his on teaching some will correct you in a manner were and some will shout on you to correct errors you made, don't be thinking negative that because there are the senior mens that why dey go talk to u like that everyone have is on why to correct people.

Your talk get plenty truth inside but we no go all blame d senior men wey wan dey make some corrections when they see one. Dey get corrections wey be say if you see am, you go know say the person wan really correct you neh, no be say dem wan just criticize you. Anybody wey get intent of just seeing the bad side of you always go always find fault in anything you do even if it’s the best idea in that place. Make we just dey pray say everything wey dey happen for here go be for the good of the people here and not self entitlement.

I done hear watin the OP talk and I done finally observe am say em done talk em whole mind finish, so watin I get to talk be say, as a new comer for this forum eh, if you talk any corrections as either oppression or any how way you think am reach, nah your self you dey do and you are not really ready to learn. Everybody start from somewhere no body way just come today today and grow all of a sudden without say em learn from pipo way get ideas pass am, if you check op, you go observe say most of this senior senior men for here start in a way wey be say even you way them dey correct pass them as of when them start, so finally, I go conclude say, every mistake get correction and make you or anybody no see the corrections as insults.

In anything wey peso d do, if them no criticize you on am, that one mean sae you never start. You must receive criticism from anything wey you d do for life, and na from that criticism go make you a better being for wetin you d do.

You see as our forum board d so, we be our brothers and sisters keepers. If any of us talk wetin no d proper, it is the duty of any of us to get the person correlated irrespective of rank.

As the forum come d so, none of us the above critics. If you are being criticize of any opinion render no take am to the heart like that because we are all here to learn and be corrected at the same time.

This reminded me back then in school where some students personally dislikes a few lecturer because the lecturers are in fund of causing a public disgrace to the set of students whom they feels are only coming to occupy the seats in the classroom without the willingness to acquiring the goal of being in the classroom as to learning.
In subsequent time, these categories of persons decided to keep being absent from the said lecturers classes with a show of prides (big-guys) but fails to acknowledge exam would come where everyone is responsible to its remarks value.

Also, my inability to fit recite the 2 letters words. Eg. (it, if, is & in) during my primary schools days, my teacher termed to pour the chorus " shame -shame-shame on me before my classmates.
I was restricted to going break during school hours but to face the blackboard til break time runs out.
As time goes, I limited my free time (playing times) at home while dedicated to reciting the words til I could make it a success.
Otherwise, I was contented to being a dump head

But here in the forum, you ain't paying anyone for any means of aspirations and impactation to per individual benefits so you just have to accept it on whatever tune it is served.
When you realizes the values of what you want, you would resists to negative energies insighting oppressions with the tendency to depress your  you from your goals.

Though, abuses could serve a bully which is liable to mental touch.

It is very bad to see how people who are higher and have more knowledge than the beginners here sees almost everything a beginner is Saying as shit or low quality, it takes time to build up oneself here even they themselves can testify how they fumbled and made lots of mistakes on this platform when they started before they finally arrived.

It is good for everyone of us in this local board to treat each other with humility and respect because we all have a starting point which wasn't easy at all, give attention to whom ever that seeks for your attention and assist the beginners in which ever way you can so that we can record serious improvement just like other boards are making improvement as well.

One thing I go talk be say nobody fit control crowd, everybody go do wetin them like, everybody go do wetin dey he mind. despite the shouting and harsh words people still dey do wetin them like. To be honest anytime I see the shouting and harassment I go first laugh. Right now wetin I dey find na correction, I need person wey go fit correct me always because without correction nobody fit grow.
The higher rank members wey you dey talk them sef don receive shout countless times for this forum. One thing I observe about life anyhow you big reach people dey wey go still bring you down or shout for you.
Sincerely speaking me as a newbie no be everything I know about bitcoin so I dey here to learn about bitcoin. So sometimes if I see topic wey dey talk about the society or economy I go know wetin to comment for sure because am conversant with that area.

I no too get wetin to answer but I know day any person wey come get person wey carry am come here and the person should try him best to educate many of those people wey him bring, na wetin make you no supposed cap anyhow rather run to your mentor show am wetin you see before you go ginger because me believe say e get some people wey them bring come here wey dey claim say sabi everything for this forum. Even as me dey here I dey mind the area wey I go talk and the area wey I no go talk so that e no go too hot for me.

You ignored me when I was new and full of excitement of discovering this board. Then I knew I made a lot of errors and was corrected. You can check my posting habit now, you will notice the great change, please go through and give me a feedback if am inline or am out of place. Thanks

As part of wetin person dey to talk, this poster na naija in be . Make we check the post and the reply wey people dey give am
https://bitcointalksearch.org/topic/m.62374254
This guy topic be like e dey too authoritative and kind of rude , na so people begin nack am from right and left.

Yes my dear, I like your advice here, because this your topic is an advice to everyone,been you higher ranker or lower ranker,we are equally in the sight of God just as the bible said it,so please you been a high ranker does not necessarily mean your an the best English speaking person ok,it is because you start before the person you are harassing, just because you were introduce it this forum before the other person and that doesn't make the newbie senseless person ok,

In this forum i think it will be of a good behavior when you see someone who is beginner and you guide him or her through, I think good deed has it rewards in heaven,and it's part of being your brother's keeper, in this earth we are not equal,we have have Big and small,we must not be in the same level at a time,so please it will be more helpful when you guide new beginner that insulting him or her whenever he or she made a mistake ok..

And again as a newbie, not every insult you see you take it so serious instead of moving forward,so can just insult you just to got your attention and discourage you, and maybe along the lines you will quit just because of what someone said about you,do you know someone who doesn't want you to progress can never correct you in your mistake instead he or she will be discouraging you,by insulting your,..

Please do not be discouraged by the insult giving to you by the higher ranker because of your mistake, remember that we learn through by our mistake ok..

Please let's be our brother's keeper, remember no body is above mistake,you may be good in this field what about other fields and remember it may be your turn today tomorrow it may be another man's turn ok..

As things be for this life we know how to talk pass each other, for this forum we still dey different kind we are not the same, some people be say it depend on how dey sabi talk, e fit be say the questions wey newbie dey ask, the high ranker may be talking to him in a proper way but the newbie see it so harshly but that is the way the person dey talk as usual. We all deserve to be treated equally but you should know that we do not have the same head and manner in this forum, some people find it very difficult to be corrected,some high rank know waiting dey face when dem dey rank up in this forum.

Each newbie should understand that any place that you wanted to learn we must learn from good and bad, all we have to dey think be say na just time e be one day we'll be at the level too without giving up, because i can see that for this board we dey try enough to encourage each other not discourage anyone, nobody is left behind because that is all we are here to do. Op you are right but anytime we made a mistake and be corrected either harsh or normal talk we just to put it in mind that is all time and improve the next time.

My brother you don talk your mind, me self like this no dey even wan try to impress anyone or oppressed anyone for here, Las Las we no know ourselves na here bring us together me I see no sense say harsh words ni dem dey use address person and I dey see am say na high rank members do am pass. E dey pain but them no go understand, and some dey carry their family or life matter dey come here come carry am put for person head which e no supposed be so. Abeg make I follow beg make Una allow US the upcoming BREATH... ABEG

Op every thing you talk for here naso e be. Me personally na victim of that thread but when I reason wetting I post say e no make sense I wan delete but no way rather I lock the thread. As we all dey here we dey learn everyday. If you check the group we dey coordinate ourselves even say moderator no Dey. For example if you post already existing thread and somebody comment say the thread Dey active or say na off topic you go see say that person go lock the thread that is a sign of say we dey take correction.

If you check the forum now you go see say many Facebook topic don reduce after that thread. And any post wey no make sense people no dey comment am again. If you post no body comment on am, you already done know say wetting you post no make sense. Most of the Bitcoin topics wey don past before, people don dey go comment on am and in go come out for top Post. And people go emphasis am. Just like the way ona talk every body no be the same we from different places and so our atitudes dey show for our body. But make we take that as an advantage to correct ourselves. Sometimes people no dey no wetting Dem dey do until you tell them. But I believe with everything wet I talk for here say people don dey change.

Normally those harsh comments and attacks pain someone but we have to take them as corrections an move on, but newbies dey abuse di board any how with all the news in Nigeria. Op do even know di real purpose of this forum? Many Newbies are not ready to learn. Ok. Op how many questions have you asked in the Local Board? And how many questions has any other newbies have asked here. Newbies wey dey come here, he no dey gree learn again but busy posting local news to upgrade their ranks and dat becomes difficult 4 dem den dem con dey accused higher rank members for not doing well. Those who are here to learn ask questions on cryptocurrency related matters and learn from there but u people r only busy with newspapers.
In dis forum need thick skin to scale through because dis one na only local board nai you dey complain, wen u go face di matter for general boards, you no go complain again. As dem dey attack u for local board na help dem dey help u if u no Kno, because it will make strong to face the general boards attacks. Op so don't complain take it as corrections and face di reality.

You made some valid points, but as much as we want to encourage newbies to make mistakes, we also want them to care about the board more. We encourage them to make fewer topics and communicate more, but the new set of newbies we have are not following this advice because they barely read and contribute to their own topics. They only want to spam, fish for merit, and join the signature campaign, and some of them never return to the board after joining the signature campaign.

We welcome our newbies with open arms and criticise them when required; if that isn't enough, I'm not sure what else we can do. TBH, I have dozens of newbies from this board on my ignore list; the only reason I haven't sent their names to the G.Moderator to nuke them for spamming is that I believe in second chances, and nobody handed us gold on a silver platter when we were new.

Op I only unignored you to see what you have to say since you've been on my ignore list for a long time and I'm tired of seeing duplicates and off-topic topics every week. We want you to write fewer topics and read more. This year, I have less than 5 topics, not because I don't have any, but because I prefer to read.

I agree with you on the matter of different personalities and manner of doing things, I also support OP for his view on this matter. But the issue of trying to see a harsh approach as a homely one is not accepted by me cos that will mean me lying to myself. The tone at which the senior men in the forum sometimes correct the inexperienced one here is very much emotionally draining. Sometimes I feel they have just forgotten so quick that they were once like us and that they felt the pain of growing gradually up till their present level. There was one response I got from my early days post that made me wish I could meet the guy one on one to put am for em body woto-woto.

The truth is that most of their correction are not constructive at all, but destructive. You can imagine the emotional trauma these newbies whom are being attacked vigorously for simple mistakes are facing. most of them might end up feeling rejected in a forum where everybody should be welcomed to learn and grow in the knowledge of bitcoin and other important related topics. I strongly think the high ranked people should be sensitized on the importance of treating and educating the lower ranked with love and respect to enable them thrive in the forum

Wetting you talk generally no bad at all, na very good observation you made about what is happening in this local board which all were as a result of too many unnecessary threads that is been created recently wey come be like say them they spam the board, but na true you talk say everybody deserve some respects which I think it is been consider just be say some people too they take things personal; but e get some corrections wey suppose be a motivation for us because we are all here to learn.

We come from different background, locations, ethnicity and we have different manners of approach, but we are one and this wonderful forum unites us more. Therefore, lets all learn and forget all these kind discussions; learning about Bitcoin and we go earn and be free from government stress and others na im we they find, so make we they respect ourselves and at the same time be overlooking somethings so that we can all move and grow together,

Your talk carry weight even though e dey very funny, na true you talk u yan so, why I even bring the matter b say, the thing don dey create argument and e don dey too much.


No be for my sake oo, I b dey see say newbie for here dey somehow frustrated and the thing no go well at all. True true, some dey misbehave but make we try respect each other irrespective of rank.

The hunger wey dey this country even rish to make person misbehave. 
Anybody wey bring newbie make e also try enlight am . Like me, person wey introduce me na bounty ihn dey do even till now, na my Waka Waka make me Waka go other board con see wetin dey sup for there. Since then I Waka comot for bounty side come settle for other board. E really take me time b4 I adjust.