Unconcious and expectant rich peoples kids really spends more money irresponsibly because they believes there is always more tomorrow at when their parents lives but fails to maintain Such expensive live being if their parents are no more.
Because they didn't worked hard for the money and that's fine for those parents because they've worked for them, to give them the best life.
But there's something wrong with today's parenting, most parents that have come from nothing to something should also teach their children how to be grateful.
And how to maintain the wealth that they've obtained.
First, we need to understand what it means to be rich in society. Joe Biden isn't considered a rich man in the eyes of the 1 percent who control the finances of this world. Presidents and Governors are like cerebral figures. Joe Biden's child can go broke, but JP Morgan's generation can't be broke for any reason. Unless something disastrous happened to the wealth of the family. Only a few families are rich in the whole world, others claim to be rich. Lots of people we see running successful businesses are being controlled by the wealth of the 1% and we rarely hear that their generations get broke along the line after they leave the shores of the world. Instead, businesses are passed down in their name and managed by the best managers to keep the wealth rolling. That's why riches are not counted by cash or money, any amount of money can be squandered or useless by a man's children who don't care about the sweat of their dad. When a man is rich, his wealth is being managed by a cooperate body and his children can't have a single control over their father's wealth. Until proven to deserve it, or work very hard to get to the management board of his father's company. That doesn't mean he'll go broke if he doesn't work so hard to get there, but he won't be handed over those properties. Take JP Morgan Jr, for instance, if he didn't work hard to deserve his father's wealth, wouldn't he have mismanaged the whole business and run it dry? These people we call rich because they've got cars or houses aren't rich, they're just in the middle class. That's why their kids can still go broke.
Additionally, giving what you don't have is impossible, wealth is deserved by those who understand its laws and principles. Not just about management or uncalculated expenses. Sometimes an extravagant parent can still groom a child to become very wealthy. What matters is knowing who we are and the way to offer ourselves or gifts in changing society. Take singer Drake, for instance, he grew up in a rich neighborhood, financed by his mother. She didn't have much, but her only goal was to train Drake in a wealthy Jewish neighborhood. That means sending him to expensive schools and buying him costly clothes to live up to the standard of other kids in that neighborhood. Many families had more money than them, but today Drake should be richer than a good number of kids who were groomed in that same neighborhood. The most important aspect of the story is that he learned and built connections with other rich families, who also contributed to figuring out his talent as a singer before he became a star in the music industry. Wealth is different from management. Whenever something is done with the right purpose in mind, I think success will be achieved.
Most people who got from nothing to something as you called them, didn't know how it happened. Not saying they were completely lucky, but they, themselves, weren't grateful. How then do you expect such people to train a child in a way he becomes richer in the future? Op is right, many children from the middle class usually go broke when their parents are no longer there to train them. Due to the same problem of those who claim to be rich, they waste money. The very rich people, the upper class, make sure every move is calculated and don't spend money carelessly on luxury stuff. Instead, they'll buy shares or invest in a new market. These are some attributes of a rich-minded father or family. Not purchasing cars and spreeing money in the air to prove to society that they've got money. People should learn to educate themselves on the class of life and wealth. Less they'll be deceived.