Topic: Making a New Year resolution plan is Important. (Read 505 times)

How many times that I fail about this new year resolution , this is like "Promises made to be Broken" to me so i stopped doing it but what I prefer now? is to act instead of making it as resolution .

Example in 2019 that I plan or target to stop smoking, then right after 12 midnight of December 31 ? i flush all my cigarettes in toilet bowl and since then never that I handle even a single cigarette .

Maybe this what tells us that perseverance is more important than Planning or promising .

Planning New Year's resolutions is good as it guides people to move in the right direction. New Year's resolutions are great for helping people try new things. Setting reasonable goals and self evaluation of your progress helps in learning new things. One of the benefits of working to assess ourselves every week and make necessary corrections is that it builds confidence in the rest of us which can come in handy. We must try a new feature every day that will help us succeed.

The last  New years resolution that I made and succeed ? that is  never to listen in my fear instead
will keep fighting and learning new , that I will never surrender no matter what happened and indeed , that
is the day I started being successful .and for me people can handle theirs but first they need to trust
themselves first.

hahaha, I remember those days that I kept making new Years resolutions and ending just failing even in the first month like what mentioned by you.
that is why I believe that this is not how we must deal in reality but instead we need to give perseverance and dedicative act.
do as you plan and regret if being failed.

Stop making new years resolutions , instead make it happen instead I mean when you made a promise to yourself you kept breaking it and that will add frustrations to you instead why not just work for it without dealing with any promises?
but it is us who will act on that , every resolutions mostly for ourself though others are having this to help someone or for others .

have done listing my New years resolution since younger time but  keep on failing that's why I ended my stupidity and just tell myself to what should I do in new year and let the process decide to what is my faith and luckily ?
I stopped my drinking and of course smoking this made me a real men without  promising myself but motivating this instead.

Someone can make a plan about what they want to achieve in the next year. But he must try to carry out every plan in order to achieve his target. Most people find it difficult to carry out the stages of their plan and in the end, they deviate from their plan and cannot achieve their targets.

Only people who are willing to try to make every plan come true will succeed in achieving their targets. They can really get a better life than the previous year. They can also achieve most of their plans. That is why we have to really focus on carrying out every plan we have made.

Only by carrying out each plan can we achieve the goals we desire. The rest we can only leave it to fate because if fate determines that we cannot achieve that target next year, we also cannot force it. But at least we have tried to achieve it. There is still plenty of time to achieve targets that still need to be achieved.

It is very good to make a new year resolution. But people are slaves of habits. Bad habits are not created by anyone. But we should get rid of bad habits and plan a new life. Even if life does not go according to plan.  There will be ups and downs in life.  I will say that life should be enjoyed instead of being managed like a robot. You should travel abroad, you should give time to your family.  At the beginning of the year, a healthy life plan should be taken forward.  And it should always be remembered that life cannot be ended by running after money. One has to learn to live life

Honestly, I don't think creating new year resolution plans are really necessary, although I would say it's a good motivation to start the new year right. Because if you aim to change something within you or improve what you have within, you can always do that any time of the year. The important thing is you have the self-determination and self-discipline to turn into action whatever plan you have set for yourself. And in case it didn't work out, at least you didn't easily give up on your goal without even trying.

Making a new year resolution plan is actually good, but as long as you never care to internalize it and make it happen through your endless efforts, that will only remain a resolution plan every year.

I have actually stopped writing down new year resolutions

Why? Because the past years, I have had a constant new year resolution and until now I still have not done it from since then i promised myself to just do whatever I want at any time of the year if i wanted to finish a book why do i have to wait until newyear’s to get it done if i could do it right now? too much goals will put so much pressure on me and would make me feel like a disappointment myself

Not a good idea to make New Year resolutions as you may go against the way you were designed to function. Ofcourse, the bad habits need to be stopped but you can't stop them by your own power since they are beyond you or have control over you. You need a Strong Hand to stop them for you.

In regards to creating plans for the future that should be accomplished. There are many factors that determine whether you are going to be successful or not. It's like a leaf resolving to fall under the tree but ends up falling by the side because it fails to factor a strong wind or cannot predict what direction it blows even if it does factor it. But there is a program that governs what direction the wind blows to, anyone with the knowledge of how the program works would be able to predict what direction it blows to and see whether it is the right place he needs to be, if it's, then he makes preparation to be blown away by the wind toward the right direction.

The CREATOR of the Universe designed the programs that governs the winds and other things beyond our control. You need to believe in the CREATOR and HE will make you a better person and aligned your destiny/future according to HIS Will for you  and you'll begin to work/move in harmony with all HIS programs rather than working/moving against them. If this becomes the case, there will be no more need for New Year resolutions as you'll move according to the program you didn't design yourself and you will effortlessly accomplish much and be fulfilled.
If you work according to the Will of the CREATOR, you will now discover that all good things you need in life have been provided for you, you just need to be at the right place at the right time to recieve them. Working against the program or your design makes you be at the wrong places and do the wrong things consequently missing the provisions.

Pretty sure that belief doesn't work cause, most of people who make new year resolutions, lapse soon after.


I don't get your statement.

If you are planning to have house and don't have means right now, will you suddenly get means on new year day? Ofc not, while if you are talking about saving money for buying house, that can be done right now without waiting for new year.

if you are talking about moving in or purchasing on that day for whatever reason, then yea you are right.

Indeed, some people wait for the new year to be able to change themselves to be better than the previous year and they will do good things to make themselves better than before and they must do this consistently so that they no longer repeat their actions which are not good in their opinion. if they can't do it consistently I don't think it will be able to sustain what it is doing for long.

You are right, we don't have to wait for the new year to be able to change ourselves in a better direction, we just need to prepare ourselves and do it consistently so that we no longer do the things we want to leave behind.

It can be done if the thing we are doing can be done instantly, like drinking alcohol is obviously something we can stop doing instantly or right now. But for other things that require a process, of course it requires planning, and one of the things that can be done is with our New Year's resolutions. For example, we want to own a house in 2024, which is impossible to do now if we don't have enough money for it. Well of course there is a process that we have to go through such as saving money and so on. So it depends on what level we want to do and want to have.

Exactly! but traditionally, people will follow this idea by starting it in the first day of the year, It's a belief that once you've done things at the first day of the year, it is possible that this will continue and you will completely stop the things you want to avoid. but for me, I agree on your opinion, if a person really wants to stop a certain thing, They can stop it as soon as they want, no need to wait for a New year, It's all about willingness to do so.

TBH, I don't care about New Year's Resolution at all when I'm still young because in the end, I can't fulfill what I put in it.
During the past 2-3 years, I did create some New Year's Resolution plan, but unfortunately I can't do it for some reasons.

Creating one's new year's resolution is important because it will motivates us, but always take note that we can't do it if we will remain lazy. I became lazy in the past thus, I didn't finish any of it, but this year, I will make a new year's resolution, and I'll make sure that I will be doing it. I'm getting older, and older now, and I need to fulfill something for myself, and for my future as well.

Having a new year's resolution will motivate you as long as it's important. Whether it will be health-related one, or career-related one, having one will be beneficial for you. Overall, having one isn't enough, but we need to do everything in order for us to fulfill it. Being lazy will lead to nothing.

You don't have to wait for new year to make resolution, whatever factor you wanna improve on, just do it right now. Suppose, you wanna stop drinking alchohol, you just stop with that right now, don't wait for new year.

What we have done throughout the year is not a big thing, but before the new year comes, we at least think that the way the last year went, we have to start the new year well. A student thinks before the start of the new year he has to be very focused on studies, an employee has to be very focused on work in the new year and must get promotion in the job. It is not only a student or a working person who plans the new year, but every professional person starts thinking about their profession in a new way and thinks about starting the new year in a new way. Maybe their thoughts are not fully successful but when a person thinks about the new year it is the motivation to focus on the work again. We are involved in crypto currency our plans may be investment trading or other things but like everyone we have plans for the new year.

Every year people comes with different resolutions. End of the year nothing could've been followed. As suggested when you want a change in you, the same can be started now what's there to delay. When we think of a resolution it is to bring positive things into our lives. Then what's there to delay, so all the resolutions for the year is just a gimmick that fades of within months.

Sure, some people find "new year, new me" motivating, but it's not a magic spell. We don't have to wait for a specific date to start becoming who we want to be. Every single day is a new chance to learn, grow, and leave behind things that don't serve us anymore. We're always changing, and it's way more rewarding to embrace that journey, with all its ups and downs, than to wait for some arbitrary deadline.

The power to change is in our own hands. We don't need to wait for the clock to strike midnight to start living our best lives. We can choose to be more self-aware, keep learning new things, and always strive to be the best versions of ourselves, one day at a time.