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April 24, 2024, 06:49:07 PM
#70

Do you make bets with your friends?
What do you think about this experience  ?
We do it a lot of times before the emergence of online gambling or before we were introduced to it. We still do it today when our strong opinions about different teams "collide". The amount is not that significant and winning is mostly about bragging rights. It feels great when you win and you can nag them all day.
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April 24, 2024, 06:30:14 PM
#69
No, I don't do any bets anymore with my friends. I've got a lot of them before but when I've moved and started to lie low on them because most of them does nothing but only to gamble.

The influence that they can give me is on all time high and that's why I've decided not to do anything with them anymore except to play online games.

It was fun until I've noticed that it's no longer doing me good because that's all what they wanna do when I've got plans for myself and my family while them, they'd influence you to just keep on gambling with them and it's just winning and losing so there's actually not a lot of wins at all.
We should ready to accept our winnings and losses made in the system. We have no authoritative power over the system, so we can afford to record losses but we should always ensure our winnings ratio surpassed our loss. I've decided to stay on my own lane because I've found out about my friends, they will ensure you're broke and tends to used the money for budgets to gamble. Gambling is one of the risks to take in the realistic world, I'll not encourage or advise anyone close to me to gamble, it's not a smart decision, trust me. You will live up to regrets the huge losses that follows.
I don't record losses.

And with what you've said that they're going to ensure you stay broke is actually a real deal. If you want your life to be better, get friends that wants to stick to you until the end.

But if it's about gambling, you should just change your route. Because there can be a friend of ours that will try to pull us not to get out of it and will keep on influencing us that it's fine to gamble against them.

And sometimes, it's not about the money anymore.
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April 24, 2024, 06:28:14 PM
#68
No, I don't do any bets anymore with my friends. I've got a lot of them before but when I've moved and started to lie low on them because most of them does nothing but only to gamble.

The influence that they can give me is on all time high and that's why I've decided not to do anything with them anymore except to play online games.

It was fun until I've noticed that it's no longer doing me good because that's all what they wanna do when I've got plans for myself and my family while them, they'd influence you to just keep on gambling with them and it's just winning and losing so there's actually not a lot of wins at all.
We should ready to accept our winnings and losses made in the system. We have no authoritative power over the system, so we can afford to record losses but we should always ensure our winnings ratio surpassed our loss. I've decided to stay on my own lane because I've found out about my friends, they will ensure you're broke and tends to used the money for budgets to gamble. Gambling is one of the risks to take in the realistic world, I'll not encourage or advise anyone close to me to gamble, it's not a smart decision, trust me. You will live up to regrets the huge losses that follows.
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April 24, 2024, 05:41:36 PM
#67
I have a friend, although we get along very well, sometimes you find us getting into heated discussions, and I do not consider this a misunderstanding ,each one has a different point of view than the other on some topics, and this is what makes talking to him very interesting, by looking the huge amount of informations that we get on it, whether on his part or on my part.
This is what debate is all about; you both can't have the same opinion and still call it an argument. In an argument, you are presenting your own point while the other is stating why yours is to stand and that of the other person is invalid.
 
Even in a football debate, that's what makes it very interesting, especially when you walk into a viewing centre filled with both team supporters, where you will see real arguments and how they're being done. It's all part of the fun we find in the game, and they all contribute to why most of us enjoy watching football.
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April 24, 2024, 05:37:36 PM
#66
I think this is a pointless topic and needs moved to a different section honestly. Off topic or even locked and archived. You and your friend have disagreements and make a stupid bet and return the money, good job. Why not just sing kumbaya and call it a day?
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April 24, 2024, 05:36:52 PM
#65
I make bets with friends too, but I stopped it when it has to do with money or any material thing because I realize that it ends in disputes just like you said that sometimes one person turns on the other person. It’s a good thing to argue with friends and even better with them, but if possible don’t do it with money. It’s always fun when you figure who’s right.

When some people lose money in online betting, you could see anger in them and transfer of aggression but because they can't show that to the house or owner of the casino, they put it all on the family and people at home . So likewise those kind of people gambling against their friends, they will of course show that anger and envy that their friends have taken their money so any slightest provocation or exchange of words can lead into a fight. Very many times I have seen where friends fought after gambling and the cause is usually that one party refused to continue playing because he has more profit and wants to run off with it by not risking in more playing time not to fall into losing what he has and that makes the other losing party annoyed to insist on continuation so that he could have more chance to win back his loses.

But sometimes the provocation can be justifiable because why would someone place a bet with you if they know they wouldn’t keep to their side of the bargain. Some people try to act smart and would not want to pay you when you win them, however, when they are the ones winning, they’ll cause a fight if it came down it.
This is why we have to know what we are doing not trying to gamble with people that would end up become something else when they finish betting. It is fund when we gamble with friends but also we have to make sure we know the kind of friends we are gambling with so that we don't end up becoming a problem to ourselves. If we want to earn good money in gambling we need to gamble along with people that have the experience so that we can as well learn from them on how to can gamble without disturbing ourselves or trying to do it in a greedy way that would become a problem for us.
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April 24, 2024, 05:29:00 PM
#64
No, I don't do any bets anymore with my friends. I've got a lot of them before but when I've moved and started to lie low on them because most of them does nothing but only to gamble.

The influence that they can give me is on all time high and that's why I've decided not to do anything with them anymore except to play online games.

It was fun until I've noticed that it's no longer doing me good because that's all what they wanna do when I've got plans for myself and my family while them, they'd influence you to just keep on gambling with them and it's just winning and losing so there's actually not a lot of wins at all.
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April 24, 2024, 05:22:38 PM
#63
I make bets with friends too, but I stopped it when it has to do with money or any material thing because I realize that it ends in disputes just like you said that sometimes one person turns on the other person. It’s a good thing to argue with friends and even better with them, but if possible don’t do it with money. It’s always fun when you figure who’s right.

When some people lose money in online betting, you could see anger in them and transfer of aggression but because they can't show that to the house or owner of the casino, they put it all on the family and people at home . So likewise those kind of people gambling against their friends, they will of course show that anger and envy that their friends have taken their money so any slightest provocation or exchange of words can lead into a fight. Very many times I have seen where friends fought after gambling and the cause is usually that one party refused to continue playing because he has more profit and wants to run off with it by not risking in more playing time not to fall into losing what he has and that makes the other losing party annoyed to insist on continuation so that he could have more chance to win back his loses.

But sometimes the provocation can be justifiable because why would someone place a bet with you if they know they wouldn’t keep to their side of the bargain. Some people try to act smart and would not want to pay you when you win them, however, when they are the ones winning, they’ll cause a fight if it came down it.
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April 23, 2024, 04:07:00 PM
#62
Hi ,

I have a friend, although we get along very well, sometimes you find us getting into heated discussions, and I do not consider this a misunderstanding ,each one has a different point of view than the other on some topics, and this is what makes talking to him very interesting, by looking the huge amount of informations that we get on it, whether on his part or on my part.

But we always end the debates by making a bet, knowing that he is not a gambler, and the informations he has about gambling comes to him through me, and he realizes very well that if he enters into a bet with me, I will take his money, but when he is confident in what he says, you find him the first to present the idea and on his own terms.

While betting become  the only solution to our discussions sometimes you find us betting on trivial and meaningless things, and with regard to the profit from those bets, it is simple for example : on the restaurant bill, where the loser invites the winner to dinner and pays, but sometimes when we bet With money, there is no winner among us, and you find that one of us turns against the other, or the winner returns the money to the loser, as we realize very well that none of us can take the other’s money.

Bets with him are always great entertainment and I always have good times and funny moments .

Do you make bets with your friends?
What do you think about this experience  ?

That seems like quite a negative and unhealthy "friendship" that you've described - especially if you feel like you're consistently taking advantage. Either that or he is willingly losing to you, maybe because he feels sorry for you in some kind of way. You should be able to have debates and even accept each having a different point of view on subjects without having to twist it into something competitive like that. However if you both feel that it does no harm and in some strange way brings you together, then so be it - you don't need to change for anyone. If you know he is not a gambler though, you should not try to tease this type of behavior out of him because he might not actually like it after all.
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April 23, 2024, 04:00:29 PM
#61
When you think your friend is stupid I can't see any reason to make a bet with him. And also there is no reason to make a bet with your friends if there is no loser or winter or any of you do not take the winning money. For me, I never make any bets with my friends whether that is for fun or any serious issue.
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April 23, 2024, 02:00:13 AM
#60
Do you make bets with your friends?
What do you think about this experience  ?

I often bet with my friends when watching football matches together. This helps us be more interested in watching soccer, and all our bets stop at fun, a drink, a drink or a certain dining outing, not betting cash. This helps us be more comfortable betting with each other, not focusing on winning or losing because whether we win or lose, we will still be able to eat, drink, and have fun together.

I see many people, even though they are close friends, when betting with each other with real money, conflicts often arise and sometimes that friendship will no longer exist after such conflicts. Betting with acquaintance people around us seems simple, but if we let the money factor influence us too much, sometimes we can easily fall into more awkward situations than with strangers.
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April 22, 2024, 07:53:48 PM
#59
Friends can laugh at betting. Competition is part of the best friendships, right? It can get messy even with food on the queue, as I've witnessed before. Understand, its mindset, not money. Even without realising it, you look at your friend differently. Your situation sounds fantastic. Sounds like a friendly competition over who's buying. The best friendships, the ones that last? Not who won the Super Bowl bet. The fact that you sometimes tear up the bet and give the money back indicates you're sensible. Not taking things too seriously is respect. Continue that and you'll always be steady, win or lose.

Absolutely, it's not about the money, it's about the shared moments and the playful rivalry that can enhance our connections with friends. These small competitions, whether it's over a game or a simple bet, bring a spirited dimension to our friendships, making each gathering memorable. I totally agree that the best relationships are built on mutual respect and not taking things too seriously. Keeping that lighthearted attitude in both victories and losses is key to lasting friendships.
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April 22, 2024, 12:32:33 AM
#58
Hi ,

I have a friend, although we get along very well, sometimes you find us getting into heated discussions, and I do not consider this a misunderstanding ,each one has a different point of view than the other on some topics, and this is what makes talking to him very interesting, by looking the huge amount of informations that we get on it, whether on his part or on my part.

But we always end the debates by making a bet, knowing that he is not a gambler, and the informations he has about gambling comes to him through me, and he realizes very well that if he enters into a bet with me, I will take his money, but when he is confident in what he says, you find him the first to present the idea and on his own terms.

While betting become  the only solution to our discussions sometimes you find us betting on trivial and meaningless things, and with regard to the profit from those bets, it is simple for example : on the restaurant bill, where the loser invites the winner to dinner and pays, but sometimes when we bet With money, there is no winner among us, and you find that one of us turns against the other, or the winner returns the money to the loser, as we realize very well that none of us can take the other’s money.

Bets with him are always great entertainment and I always have good times and funny moments .

Do you make bets with your friends?
What do you think about this experience  ?
 


       -   The only thing I've ever experienced betting with my friend is that when he loses, he treats us to food at any restaurant, or when I lose, I shoulder his groceries for the whole week.
Those are the only things I experience betting on.

Sometimes I give money when, for example, we have a bet of 10–20 dollars; that's the only bet we make, for example, on who will win here in the country, the national basketball team.
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April 21, 2024, 07:24:37 PM
#57
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Bets with him are always great entertainment and I always have good times and funny moments .

Do you make bets with your friends?
What do you think about this experience  ?

It's a great experience for you, for one. You clearly said so and I see nothing wrong in making a bet on the outcome of an argument or topic of debate. At least this way, everyone has to have good facts that is true, inorder to win, because the information may be on the internet with just a click away.

Am sure you guys may be single for now or not in any serious relationship because otherwise, your partners would have somehow discouraged the act so as you and your friend don't ever have to fight incase one person feels or thinks they have been cheated or given an unfair penalty.
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April 21, 2024, 07:21:01 PM
#56
Hi ,

I have a friend, although we get along very well, sometimes you find us getting into heated discussions, and I do not consider this a misunderstanding ,each one has a different point of view than the other on some topics, and this is what makes talking to him very interesting, by looking the huge amount of informations that we get on it, whether on his part or on my part.

But we always end the debates by making a bet, knowing that he is not a gambler, and the informations he has about gambling comes to him through me, and he realizes very well that if he enters into a bet with me, I will take his money, but when he is confident in what he says, you find him the first to present the idea and on his own terms.

While betting become  the only solution to our discussions sometimes you find us betting on trivial and meaningless things, and with regard to the profit from those bets, it is simple for example : on the restaurant bill, where the loser invites the winner to dinner and pays, but sometimes when we bet With money, there is no winner among us, and you find that one of us turns against the other, or the winner returns the money to the loser, as we realize very well that none of us can take the other’s money.

Bets with him are always great entertainment and I always have good times and funny moments .

Do you make bets with your friends?
What do you think about this experience  ?
 

It's the simplest things in life like this that brings flavor and joy to me. And yes, I make bets with friends, sometimes for a can of coke so I don't have to fork out a dollar out of my pocket anymore, sometimes for larger denominations like, 200 bucks, our largest being 500 dollars over a boxing match.

Honestly, nothing wrong with making bets like this with your friend, as long as you know for sure that the guy you're making bets with is really your friend. Some people do this to test whether you're able to fork out money when they need someone to depend upon, some do this to see just how rich or poor you are, how stingy you are with your money so they know how to dupe you out of when you're not in the right headspace. Good friends will see this as nothing but a game among people who love each other platonically and wouldn't dare do something ludicrous that would take away at this friendship.

Glad that I have made ties with people that are really trustworthy and are so to speak Day ones, cause beyond the stupidity of the concept of betting with friends I'm more or less concerned more about the character of the person I'm making the bets with.
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April 21, 2024, 06:51:13 PM
#55
It is just a friendly game between them and that explains why they don't go home with each other's money even when a winner is declared, the fact that they can bet on anything tells that it is all for fun and nothing serious attached to it. The challenge, lousiness, pride and boasts are simply the love language that binds their friendship together. I am not a frequent gambler but most times, I gambler in groups with friends.  Monies are not always involved most times but the fun and entertainment we enjoy while gambling is worth the time spent. Gambling is not all about money most times.

Except that it binds their friendship together, sometimes money can affect friendship. If it's for fun, that's cool. On the other flip of it, gamblers are meant to wager on games at least to win or lose with no strings attached. Who knows what the next person thinks of such a peer to peer gambling out of discussion or arguments. Those are just a means to kill time, as it may seem. But the player will never make a kill from such plays. I mean they wager considerably; I don't think it's something huge. Settling the argument with a prove other than staking money is better.

Moods do swing, not in their case, but in terms of playing with no rules to the game. Playing a card game with friends can result to gambling, and the rules are clearly known to all participants. Sometimes when an argument erupts, the rules resolve it. In this context of gambling, where Op and his friend, only wager money to remove each other's doubt on who is more advanced intellectually, can result to bigger argument in future. Though not wishing that for Op and his friend. But that's what I see of such behaviors, because money is involved.
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April 21, 2024, 02:23:21 PM
#54
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Do you make bets with your friends?
What do you think about this experience  ?
What a story! All I can say is that you guys are not serious, I can't be betting with friends and not collect my money. I am even stricter in that regard and must have ensured that the money has been technically escrowed in the hands of a trusted third party that will only deliver it to the winner. This is so because I always like it to be a deterrent to those people who are too lousy and mouthed about their beliefs. There are some people that can't even argue reasonably and constructively, you can't have a good discussion with them without leading to arguments. These people annoy me so much and I am now taking it upon myself to do as much as possible to stay away from them to avoid unnecessary shouting and annoyance, especially if they are too perfect in their views. If such people are the ones I challenged into betting, oh boy, they should forget that money, I will not even flinch or pity them in any way.

As for your questions, of course, I do bets with friends and family members on friendly notes. And you can refer to the above opinion for the answer to the other question.

Just like you said, they ain't actually serious and the bets between them doesn't seem to me like a serious one either.  It is just a friendly game between them and that explains why they don't go home with each other's money even when a winner is declared, the fact that they can bet on anything tells that it is all for fun and nothing serious attached to it. The challenge, lousiness, pride and boasts are simply the love language that binds their friendship together. I am not a frequent gambler but most times, I gambler in groups with friends.  Monies are not always involved most times but the fun and entertainment we enjoy while gambling is worth the time spent. Gambling is not all about money most times.
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April 21, 2024, 12:22:50 PM
#53
Friends can laugh at betting. Competition is part of the best friendships, right? It can get messy even with food on the queue, as I've witnessed before. Understand, its mindset, not money. Even without realising it, you look at your friend differently. Your situation sounds fantastic. Sounds like a friendly competition over who's buying. The best friendships, the ones that last? Not who won the Super Bowl bet. The fact that you sometimes tear up the bet and give the money back indicates you're sensible. Not taking things too seriously is respect. Continue that and you'll always be steady, win or lose.
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April 21, 2024, 12:02:32 PM
#52
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Do you make bets with your friends?
What do you think about this experience  ?
What a story! All I can say is that you guys are not serious, I can't be betting with friends and not collect my money. I am even stricter in that regard and must have ensured that the money has been technically escrowed in the hands of a trusted third party that will only deliver it to the winner. This is so because I always like it to be a deterrent to those people who are too lousy and mouthed about their beliefs. There are some people that can't even argue reasonably and constructively, you can't have a good discussion with them without leading to arguments. These people annoy me so much and I am now taking it upon myself to do as much as possible to stay away from them to avoid unnecessary shouting and annoyance, especially if they are too perfect in their views. If such people are the ones I challenged into betting, oh boy, they should forget that money, I will not even flinch or pity them in any way.

As for your questions, of course, I do bets with friends and family members on friendly notes. And you can refer to the above opinion for the answer to the other question.
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April 21, 2024, 10:22:13 AM
#51
I make bets with friends too, but I stopped it when it has to do with money or any material thing because I realize that it ends in disputes just like you said that sometimes one person turns on the other person. It’s a good thing to argue with friends and even better with them, but if possible don’t do it with money. It’s always fun when you figure who’s right.

When some people lose money in online betting, you could see anger in them and transfer of aggression but because they can't show that to the house or owner of the casino, they put it all on the family and people at home . So likewise those kind of people gambling against their friends, they will of course show that anger and envy that their friends have taken their money so any slightest provocation or exchange of words can lead into a fight. Very many times I have seen where friends fought after gambling and the cause is usually that one party refused to continue playing because he has more profit and wants to run off with it by not risking in more playing time not to fall into losing what he has and that makes the other losing party annoyed to insist on continuation so that he could have more chance to win back his loses.
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