IF I SEE THAT THE MURDERER TRULY DID THIS ON ACCIDENT, AND WILL RAISE MY BROTHER WELL, THEN I WILL TOO DROP CHARGES.
Do you see the problem here?
Even you don't know if it he intended this to happen.
A jury is unlikely to convict if there's a reasonable doubt that he did it on purpose.
I assume he knows about the allergy?
Have you spoken to him? Does he seem remorseful?
Sure, it's negligence but if he truly didn't intend this then punishing him will further punish your mother and potentially your other brother.
If your other brother also has the same allergy then I understand why you're doing this.
Hopefully anger isn't clouding your judgement.
My other brother DOES have the same allergy, and I don't want this to happen to him. Not not only that, this man NEEDS to change his ways if he wants to be a good father.
My dead brother, Mason. I have LITERALLY had to stand between mason and him, while he was in a rage, to keep him from taking my brother in the car with him in his rage. And now my brother is dead. He might has well have taken him that night. He is an evil man.
When I was thirteen my mother was yelling at me and he thought he heard me call her a bitch. He chock hold, and strangled me until me sister grabbed a knife and yelled for him to stop.
We texted all day yesterday about the charity we plan to set up for my dead brother, and the discussion was respectful and hopeful even. Then when he walked in the door he slammed it, and yelled at me about a bike that had been knocked over in the garage. And a door my younger brother had left open when searching for his jacket, and blamed me for both. I asked if we could speak about the charity, as we had planned in our texts and he said "I'm not in the mood to talk to you", and it was literally in the tone of a gremlin, which makes me think he is thinking evil thoughts. So he went outside and I hid the bullets from his gun so he could not kill me then, or later in my sleep.
My step dad has told me twice in my life that he is sorry for being the dick he is (so he acknowledges it), then he does this:
I taught both my brothers to walk and talk, literally. I trained them when I was 11 or 12, and since then I have answered EVERY question they ask of me. Then yesterday he had the nerve to tell me all I do is play video games with them, and he did everything else.
Then I asked him later in the day "Can we talk about the charity" He said "I don't have time right now", then I asked "when do you leave" He said" Tomorrow". I asked, "when today would be a good time talk?"
Then he said in his gremlin voice "we will talk when I get back on the seventh", which makes me think he plans to kill me on the seventh.
And as I said before, all I ask is that he sit with me respectfully, respectfully, and discuss my dead brothers charity. OR that he be charged for his crimes.