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legendary
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November 23, 2023, 07:57:49 AM
when children are adults they must be able to choose and live their own lives, there is no coercion in that matter, but from an early age if children see their parents' behavior, for example, if they like to gamble, then they must be able to decide wisely. whether they should follow in their parents' footsteps or not. Because most children consider their parents' behavior to be the best for them as motivation for a good life.

Funny thing, my kid often see me working behind PC, all those tables, graphs, data. I am not 100% sure that when it will be time to select university to get a higher education, that something related with finances would be selected, as the kid is more interested in art, drawing, creating things. The logic of "kid will copy what parents do" does not work.

Therefore, if parents are addicted to gambling, they should still be careful so that their own children don't find out so as not to trigger problems within the family itself.

Addicted to gambling and parents that gamble are two different kind of parents. Addicted parents indeed might trigger false vision of gambling and future addiction as well. Example, the kid saw I ate a pill (omega-3) in the morning, during day place a bet on favourite team, a later got a glass of wine during birthday party. Does it means that kid gonna grow as drug addicted alcoholic that is addicted to gambling? I think we know that answer.


legendary
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November 23, 2023, 07:19:20 AM
Children absorb new information and everything that surrounds them very quickly, so in no case should this be done. Often parents do not think about the harm this could bring to their children in the future and take it lightly. And then many of them wonder why their children lose money on bets. If we want to play in an online casino or place bets, then we can wait until the child goes for a walk outside or eventually go into another room yourself if your bet does not require delay.

I personally bet from my mobile phone and quickly, planning in advance which team I will bet on. Therefore, it doesn’t take up much of my time and I take care of the children as if nothing had happened.
Children's brains are very sharp yes so they can master everything very quickly. Because of this, for the future of the children, it is necessary to bring up the children in an environment where they will learn a lot of good things.  Otherwise, they develop differently from childhood, which will cause problems in their future development.  And when a parent gambles in front of their children, they learn very quickly and consider gambling normal. And they also try to gamble and play behind the scenes for some time but gradually become deeply addicted to gambling then they do not hesitate to gamble in front of their parents.  And since his parents gambled in front of him. So at that time his parents are not able to strongly protest that gambling
Parents must lead by example, otherwise it is going to be very difficult to convince their kids to not be interested in an activity if their own parents do it right in front of them.

Does this mean that parents should give up gambling for good? Maybe, because if you were to denounce gambling as an activity your kids should not do, and then they find out you actually like it and you have being doing so behind their backs, not only you will lose a great deal of moral authority, but that attitude may influence your kids to try gambling as they may be interested in knowing why you went through such lengths to hide your hobby.
I would add to this that what is usually prohibited causes even greater interest and curiosity, especially in children, although I have also noticed this in adults. If they find out that a case of addiction was hidden from them, it will be serious, and I think this will definitely happen because one of their friends or relatives will spill the beans. And also children can hear about this while the wife screams at her husband not to play anymore.

It is still better to play sports in front of children, and not to gamble. Now I'm doing it.
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November 23, 2023, 06:31:50 AM
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Yes, kids nowadays are smart and brave enough to try and do anything they see. Also, the kids often copy the activities of their parents, whatever the parents do will be the growing activity or behavior of the kids. Kids are always curious about everything, if they see any interesting things, they will always remember them, try to learn them, and copy them the next time they have the chance to do so.
This happens because child curiosity is very high and they really know what they want so that what they have to do, they don't understand good and bad things so the role of parents is to be able to provide understanding to their children.
We all know that gambling is not very good for children or teenagers who have reached adulthood and what needs to be done is to direct children to be smarter in doing every activity they want.
As long as we always supervise and forbid them from accessing things about gambling, we can put more emphasis on them not starting to gamble and when we do this, children can slowly think that gambling is not good for them.

Some things don't have to be taught but one can learn by imitation if he wants. Gambling is one of them. A common trait in human nature is that they love to earn money without any effort. When a gambler conducts his gambling in front of a non-gambling person, he quickly becomes addicted to gambling. In gambling A person can learn gambling through friends or relatives. There is no doubt that if the parents of a family are gambling regularly then their children will be gamblers. Even if there is no person gambling within the family these days, it can be easily influenced by others.
Children can imitate what adults do easily because somehow, they can do it. If adults are gambling near them, the children can see it in a way that the adults don't, so the children can see and remember it so they can try it themselves. This is why we have to be careful in carrying out activities if there are children around us, and we shouldn't do anything that could make them curious, for example, gambling on a cellphone. We have to be able to divert their attention to other things so they won't ask about gambling or other things they don't need to know. Parents must keep their children away from gambling or other negative things so that they do not try to do it.
The living environment and also the people around them can have an influence on child development, and when parents forbid or do not allow children to be in that kind of environment then, I sure they will never see gambling activities anywhere.
I know that not all parents can always supervise activities or direct a good environment for them, but at least when there are restrictions they can avoid them.
Moreover, child still has fear of his parents anger and if this prohibition is really stated firmly then it can be very effective in helping the child development to avoid bad things.
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November 23, 2023, 06:13:00 AM
Some things don't have to be taught but one can learn by imitation if he wants. Gambling is one of them. A common trait in human nature is that they love to earn money without any effort. When a gambler conducts his gambling in front of a non-gambling person, he quickly becomes addicted to gambling. In gambling A person can learn gambling through friends or relatives. There is no doubt that if the parents of a family are gambling regularly then their children will be gamblers. Even if there is no person gambling within the family these days, it can be easily influenced by others.
Children can imitate what adults do easily because somehow, they can do it. If adults are gambling near them, the children can see it in a way that the adults don't, so the children can see and remember it so they can try it themselves. This is why we have to be careful in carrying out activities if there are children around us, and we shouldn't do anything that could make them curious, for example, gambling on a cellphone. We have to be able to divert their attention to other things so they won't ask about gambling or other things they don't need to know. Parents must keep their children away from gambling or other negative things so that they do not try to do it.
That is true, even a slight discussion of gambling or if the children heard about it, they will be curious and who knows, maybe they will research about it. That's why as a parents, we should stay away from gambling in front of our children. And most likely since we are in the stage that it is acceptable with online gambling, we really need to be very careful in front of them.

We as parents should set a good example. Of course, not everyone is a good parent, but at least we should try to avoid this kind of slip specially if we are a gambling addicts. It will really denote that gambling is good if our children are exposed early.
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November 23, 2023, 05:42:35 AM
Some things don't have to be taught but one can learn by imitation if he wants. Gambling is one of them. A common trait in human nature is that they love to earn money without any effort. When a gambler conducts his gambling in front of a non-gambling person, he quickly becomes addicted to gambling. In gambling A person can learn gambling through friends or relatives. There is no doubt that if the parents of a family are gambling regularly then their children will be gamblers. Even if there is no person gambling within the family these days, it can be easily influenced by others.
Children can imitate what adults do easily because somehow, they can do it. If adults are gambling near them, the children can see it in a way that the adults don't, so the children can see and remember it so they can try it themselves. This is why we have to be careful in carrying out activities if there are children around us, and we shouldn't do anything that could make them curious, for example, gambling on a cellphone. We have to be able to divert their attention to other things so they won't ask about gambling or other things they don't need to know. Parents must keep their children away from gambling or other negative things so that they do not try to do it.
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November 23, 2023, 05:42:04 AM
Children absorb new information and everything that surrounds them very quickly, so in no case should this be done. Often parents do not think about the harm this could bring to their children in the future and take it lightly. And then many of them wonder why their children lose money on bets. If we want to play in an online casino or place bets, then we can wait until the child goes for a walk outside or eventually go into another room yourself if your bet does not require delay.

I personally bet from my mobile phone and quickly, planning in advance which team I will bet on. Therefore, it doesn’t take up much of my time and I take care of the children as if nothing had happened.
Children's brains are very sharp yes so they can master everything very quickly. Because of this, for the future of the children, it is necessary to bring up the children in an environment where they will learn a lot of good things.  Otherwise, they develop differently from childhood, which will cause problems in their future development.  And when a parent gambles in front of their children, they learn very quickly and consider gambling normal. And they also try to gamble and play behind the scenes for some time but gradually become deeply addicted to gambling then they do not hesitate to gamble in front of their parents.  And since his parents gambled in front of him. So at that time his parents are not able to strongly protest that gambling

If it happens that curiosity develops inside their minds for sure it will be easier for them to find ways to learn more about the whatever
the interest they've got inside them.

I get your point and it's valid, young minds like that always wanting to find new things to learn, and gambling is not exempt if they see something

interesting for them and will keep them busy to take things on their own, as early as now.
Yes, kids nowadays are smart and brave enough to try and do anything they see. Also, the kids often copy the activities of their parents, whatever the parents do will be the growing activity or behavior of the kids. Kids are always curious about everything, if they see any interesting things, they will always remember them, try to learn them, and copy them the next time they have the chance to do so.
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November 23, 2023, 04:56:02 AM
Children absorb new information and everything that surrounds them very quickly, so in no case should this be done. Often parents do not think about the harm this could bring to their children in the future and take it lightly. And then many of them wonder why their children lose money on bets. If we want to play in an online casino or place bets, then we can wait until the child goes for a walk outside or eventually go into another room yourself if your bet does not require delay.

I personally bet from my mobile phone and quickly, planning in advance which team I will bet on. Therefore, it doesn’t take up much of my time and I take care of the children as if nothing had happened.
Children's brains are very sharp yes so they can master everything very quickly. Because of this, for the future of the children, it is necessary to bring up the children in an environment where they will learn a lot of good things.  Otherwise, they develop differently from childhood, which will cause problems in their future development.  And when a parent gambles in front of their children, they learn very quickly and consider gambling normal. And they also try to gamble and play behind the scenes for some time but gradually become deeply addicted to gambling then they do not hesitate to gamble in front of their parents.  And since his parents gambled in front of him. So at that time his parents are not able to strongly protest that gambling

If it happens that curiosity develops inside their minds for sure it will be easier for them to find ways to learn more about the whatever
the interest they've got inside them.

I get your point and it's valid, young minds like that always wanting to find new things to learn, and gambling is not exempt if they see something

interesting for them and will keep them busy to take things on their own, as early as now.
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November 23, 2023, 01:28:19 AM
Because they are found out, parents must immediately explain to their children what they are doing at the casino, so that children do not misunderstand and hate their parents' behavior, because if left unchecked, it is possible that their children will follow in their footsteps. parents' footsteps in playing casino and that is not good for the children's future.

Yes, by providing good guidance or understanding and slow explanations, I think it will make it easier for children to understand what gambling is.
Telling and teaching them about gambling at tender age wouldn't change anything, if the parents are gambler, there is a greater chance for their kid to do the same when he/she grows up, who knows if she start gambling at tertiary college where her parents is absent, it can only takes a high level discipline family to refocus their kids from gambling. Am talking about myself here, i grew up been taught never to gamble or i made attempt to gambling through out my university days, it really sucks funds and ruins life.
Some things don't have to be taught but one can learn by imitation if he wants. Gambling is one of them. A common trait in human nature is that they love to earn money without any effort. When a gambler conducts his gambling in front of a non-gambling person, he quickly becomes addicted to gambling. In gambling A person can learn gambling through friends or relatives. There is no doubt that if the parents of a family are gambling regularly then their children will be gamblers. Even if there is no person gambling within the family these days, it can be easily influenced by others.
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November 22, 2023, 11:01:23 PM
Children absorb new information and everything that surrounds them very quickly, so in no case should this be done. Often parents do not think about the harm this could bring to their children in the future and take it lightly. And then many of them wonder why their children lose money on bets. If we want to play in an online casino or place bets, then we can wait until the child goes for a walk outside or eventually go into another room yourself if your bet does not require delay.

I personally bet from my mobile phone and quickly, planning in advance which team I will bet on. Therefore, it doesn’t take up much of my time and I take care of the children as if nothing had happened.
Children's brains are very sharp yes so they can master everything very quickly. Because of this, for the future of the children, it is necessary to bring up the children in an environment where they will learn a lot of good things.  Otherwise, they develop differently from childhood, which will cause problems in their future development.  And when a parent gambles in front of their children, they learn very quickly and consider gambling normal. And they also try to gamble and play behind the scenes for some time but gradually become deeply addicted to gambling then they do not hesitate to gamble in front of their parents.  And since his parents gambled in front of him. So at that time his parents are not able to strongly protest that gambling
Parents must lead by example, otherwise it is going to be very difficult to convince their kids to not be interested in an activity if their own parents do it right in front of them.

Does this mean that parents should give up gambling for good? Maybe, because if you were to denounce gambling as an activity your kids should not do, and then they find out you actually like it and you have being doing so behind their backs, not only you will lose a great deal of moral authority, but that attitude may influence your kids to try gambling as they may be interested in knowing why you went through such lengths to hide your hobby.
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November 22, 2023, 10:53:23 PM
Children absorb new information and everything that surrounds them very quickly, so in no case should this be done. Often parents do not think about the harm this could bring to their children in the future and take it lightly. And then many of them wonder why their children lose money on bets. If we want to play in an online casino or place bets, then we can wait until the child goes for a walk outside or eventually go into another room yourself if your bet does not require delay.

I personally bet from my mobile phone and quickly, planning in advance which team I will bet on. Therefore, it doesn’t take up much of my time and I take care of the children as if nothing had happened.
Children's brains are very sharp yes so they can master everything very quickly. Because of this, for the future of the children, it is necessary to bring up the children in an environment where they will learn a lot of good things.  Otherwise, they develop differently from childhood, which will cause problems in their future development.  And when a parent gambles in front of their children, they learn very quickly and consider gambling normal. And they also try to gamble and play behind the scenes for some time but gradually become deeply addicted to gambling then they do not hesitate to gamble in front of their parents.  And since his parents gambled in front of him. So at that time his parents are not able to strongly protest that gambling
Whatever things that they would be able to encounter or able to see then it would really be that easily be adapted. How much more if things can be seen in your own home?
Seeing on whatever their parents been doing or getting involved into.If they are seeing that their parents are engaging in gambling then most likely they would really be following.
Why? Everything that they would be seeing on what their parents are doing which its always been a right thing. They would really be following on what they do see
and this is why as a parent then you should really be that careful on what things you are dealing into. We do know on what are the cons of gambling
so making it that visible or something that would really able for them to see is always a huge problem.
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November 22, 2023, 10:50:21 PM
Due to the negligence of parents many times their children get involved in bad habit called gambling. Many times it has been seen that young boys and girls are involved in robberies and petty thefts. It is only forced to do so when the gambler faces a large loss. I would suggest those parents who are careless about their child's future and are involved in the vice of gambling while not taking care of their child. Those parents should ensure their child's future and take care and guide them not to develop bad habits.
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November 22, 2023, 10:36:17 PM
Children absorb new information and everything that surrounds them very quickly, so in no case should this be done. Often parents do not think about the harm this could bring to their children in the future and take it lightly. And then many of them wonder why their children lose money on bets. If we want to play in an online casino or place bets, then we can wait until the child goes for a walk outside or eventually go into another room yourself if your bet does not require delay.

I personally bet from my mobile phone and quickly, planning in advance which team I will bet on. Therefore, it doesn’t take up much of my time and I take care of the children as if nothing had happened.
Children's brains are very sharp yes so they can master everything very quickly. Because of this, for the future of the children, it is necessary to bring up the children in an environment where they will learn a lot of good things.  Otherwise, they develop differently from childhood, which will cause problems in their future development.  And when a parent gambles in front of their children, they learn very quickly and consider gambling normal. And they also try to gamble and play behind the scenes for some time but gradually become deeply addicted to gambling then they do not hesitate to gamble in front of their parents.  And since his parents gambled in front of him. So at that time his parents are not able to strongly protest that gambling
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November 22, 2023, 09:44:28 PM

I will rephrase you sentence a bit - kids not just not have to follow parents footsteps (even though parents would love to see that), but must live their own life with their own experience, make their own mistakes. First of all they must choose the life they want to have, not that we dream about and want to see.

Even if we are a totally addicted gambling junkies, and we realize how addictive gambling is, how it might change or destroy lives, we should not hide the fact that we gamble, we must only explain all the negative and positive effects of gambling. Maybe we have to explain it now one, not twice, maybe even 100 times. Also we have to give reasons why we gamble, and let them make a decision if they want to gamble also or not.

I mean what is the point of being so much overprotective parent, when at 18 the kid will be free to do anything and we have no rights to to interfere. Let him be prepared for adult life with his experience and skill tree maxed Cheesy

Yes, it has to be like that, when children are adults they must be able to choose and live their own lives, there is no coercion in that matter, but from an early age if children see their parents' behavior, for example, if they like to gamble, then they must be able to decide wisely. whether they should follow in their parents' footsteps or not. Because most children consider their parents' behavior to be the best for them as motivation for a good life.

Therefore, if parents are addicted to gambling, they should still be careful so that their own children don't find out so as not to trigger problems within the family itself.

The protective nature of parents towards their children is a form of loving care, but parents should not be too protective of their children in guiding their growth and development, because this is also not good for the child's psychology, therefore they must guide them slowly. and parents must be able to understand every character that their child has so that it does not become misunderstanding and trigger problems.
legendary
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November 22, 2023, 10:11:03 AM
Children absorb new information and everything that surrounds them very quickly, so in no case should this be done. Often parents do not think about the harm this could bring to their children in the future and take it lightly. And then many of them wonder why their children lose money on bets. If we want to play in an online casino or place bets, then we can wait until the child goes for a walk outside or eventually go into another room yourself if your bet does not require delay.

I personally bet from my mobile phone and quickly, planning in advance which team I will bet on. Therefore, it doesn’t take up much of my time and I take care of the children as if nothing had happened.
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November 22, 2023, 09:53:37 AM
For me hiding ones gambling habit from the kids is not to good because whatever thing you're hiding from your kids one day they will definitely find out what you're hiding away from then so when they are aware of things you do that isn't really that good it will enable the kids to abstain from such practices when they are growing up. Even if they are to partake in that habit but they will be responsible in it since they've been taught about the do and don't by their parents.
I actually don’t see anything wrong in parents trying to keep away from their kids the fact that they gamble. After all, it’s not everything you as a parent, bring to the notice of your children.
There are adult activities that kids shouldn’t be allowed to do or even know at a certain age cause their minds are still young and may not be able to understand clearly about such activities. So it’s best to coach them about certain things at the right time and age when they’re matured enough to understand fully what they’re being taught. Parents keeping away from their young kids certain activities, is perfectly reasonable as they are quick to copy and imitate such activities without having adequate knowledge about those activities.
There are things that children don't need to know about before they grow up, including gambling, so some parents think they don't need to show their gambling activities to their children. But if their children ask about what gambling is and want to know more, their parents can explain it according to their age and also explain the impact if someone always gambles and eventually becomes addicted to gambling. These children also don't need to see what gambling games are like, especially if they are not old enough or not yet fit to know about gambling. Maybe parents can teach them about self-control and emotions, managing their money, and the things that are needed, which will definitely always be needed when they grow up and not just when they gamble.
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November 22, 2023, 08:08:11 AM

For me hiding ones gambling habit from the kids is not to good because whatever thing you're hiding from your kids one day they will definitely find out what you're hiding away from then so when they are aware of things you do that isn't really that good it will enable the kids to abstain from such practices when they are growing up. Even if they are to partake in that habit but they will be responsible in it since they've been taught about the do and don't by their parents.

I actually don’t see anything wrong in parents trying to keep away from their kids the fact that they gamble. After all, it’s not everything you as a parent, bring to the notice of your children.
There are adult activities that kids shouldn’t be allowed to do or even know at a certain age cause their minds are still young and may not be able to understand clearly about such activities. So it’s best to coach them about certain things at the right time and age when they’re matured enough to understand fully what they’re being taught. Parents keeping away from their young kids certain activities, is perfectly reasonable as they are quick to copy and imitate such activities without having adequate knowledge about those activities.
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November 22, 2023, 08:04:12 AM
Will talking about gambling 100 times really stick? Not sure, not sure.

It is not like talking about gambling all the time, but from time to time remind them what consequences they might face if they did not take gambling serious. Like telling negative and positive things about gambling when they are 6, 9, 12 or 15. At different age kids understand things differently. Also gambling changes from time to time. And there are kids that dont understand things from first attempt. That what I was talking about.

Who will teach them if we dont?

Correct. If we dont teach and tell them about everything, then all of a sudden we might be a victim of situation, when the kid get info from other, or we might be like "you are grown up now, do/try/learn everything yourself, you are not baby anymore". With overprotection, we skip middle stage. There is a baby, and next day there is a pimply 18-21yo teenager with rare mustache that "has his own life and leaves parents house". A teenager that isnt ready for anything. A perfect victim for "hey buddy, need a hand? let me explain this"
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November 22, 2023, 07:28:28 AM
Because they are found out, parents must immediately explain to their children what they are doing at the casino, so that children do not misunderstand and hate their parents' behavior, because if left unchecked, it is possible that their children will follow in their footsteps. parents' footsteps in playing casino and that is not good for the children's future.

Yes, by providing good guidance or understanding and slow explanations, I think it will make it easier for children to understand what gambling is.
Telling and teaching them about gambling at tender age wouldn't change anything, if the parents are gambler, there is a greater chance for their kid to do the same when he/she grows up, who knows if she start gambling at tertiary college where her parents is absent, it can only takes a high level discipline family to refocus their kids from gambling. Am talking about myself here, i grew up been taught never to gamble or i made attempt to gambling through out my university days, it really sucks funds and ruins life.

Everyone's views and opinions are definitely different, bro. Parents who are caught carrying out gambling activities by their children really hope that when their children grow up they won't follow in their footsteps because they know that gambling is not a good activity to do.

It is true, parents should not only prioritize gambling, because there are more important things to prioritize, namely family. If the parents of gamblers are addicted and only care about themselves in gambling, thereby forgetting the happiness or interests of their family or children, then there is a big possibility that there will be problems in the family, namely a lack of harmony. and love, therefore their children may gamble because they feel annoyed and angry, because their parents are not disciplined and wise in making the right decisions.

I will rephrase you sentence a bit - kids not just not have to follow parents footsteps (even though parents would love to see that), but must live their own life with their own experience, make their own mistakes. First of all they must choose the life they want to have, not that we dream about and want to see.

Even if we are a totally addicted gambling junkies, and we realize how addictive gambling is, how it might change or destroy lives, we should not hide the fact that we gamble, we must only explain all the negative and positive effects of gambling. Maybe we have to explain it now one, not twice, maybe even 100 times. Also we have to give reasons why we gamble, and let them make a decision if they want to gamble also or not.

I mean what is the point of being so much overprotective parent, when at 18 the kid will be free to do anything and we have no rights to to interfere. Let him be prepared for adult life with his experience and skill tree maxed Cheesy
Many gamblers win some of the time. Some do, in fact, make money. Its not just luck; you need skill, planning, and discipline. Parents being honest about the fact that they gamble? Thats the truth. Its very important to talk about the highs and lows, the wins and loses. Kids need to know everything. Will talking about gambling 100 times really stick? Not sure, not sure.

Too much protection as a parent? They can do anything at age 18. In a way, its like a video game; they have to level up on their own. Without it, life would not be the same. Its true that some kids might be really good at it. The odds arent all bad when you bet. Its exciting and artistic. Its about taking chances and moving carefully. Who will teach them if we dont?
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November 22, 2023, 05:55:47 AM
Because they are found out, parents must immediately explain to their children what they are doing at the casino, so that children do not misunderstand and hate their parents' behavior, because if left unchecked, it is possible that their children will follow in their footsteps. parents' footsteps in playing casino and that is not good for the children's future.

Yes, by providing good guidance or understanding and slow explanations, I think it will make it easier for children to understand what gambling is.
Telling and teaching them about gambling at tender age wouldn't change anything, if the parents are gambler, there is a greater chance for their kid to do the same when he/she grows up, who knows if she start gambling at tertiary college where her parents is absent, it can only takes a high level discipline family to refocus their kids from gambling. Am talking about myself here, i grew up been taught never to gamble or i made attempt to gambling through out my university days, it really sucks funds and ruins life.

Everyone's views and opinions are definitely different, bro. Parents who are caught carrying out gambling activities by their children really hope that when their children grow up they won't follow in their footsteps because they know that gambling is not a good activity to do.

It is true, parents should not only prioritize gambling, because there are more important things to prioritize, namely family. If the parents of gamblers are addicted and only care about themselves in gambling, thereby forgetting the happiness or interests of their family or children, then there is a big possibility that there will be problems in the family, namely a lack of harmony. and love, therefore their children may gamble because they feel annoyed and angry, because their parents are not disciplined and wise in making the right decisions.

I will rephrase you sentence a bit - kids not just not have to follow parents footsteps (even though parents would love to see that), but must live their own life with their own experience, make their own mistakes. First of all they must choose the life they want to have, not that we dream about and want to see.

Even if we are a totally addicted gambling junkies, and we realize how addictive gambling is, how it might change or destroy lives, we should not hide the fact that we gamble, we must only explain all the negative and positive effects of gambling. Maybe we have to explain it now one, not twice, maybe even 100 times. Also we have to give reasons why we gamble, and let them make a decision if they want to gamble also or not.

I mean what is the point of being so much overprotective parent, when at 18 the kid will be free to do anything and we have no rights to to interfere. Let him be prepared for adult life with his experience and skill tree maxed Cheesy
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November 21, 2023, 06:30:54 PM
Because they are found out, parents must immediately explain to their children what they are doing at the casino, so that children do not misunderstand and hate their parents' behavior, because if left unchecked, it is possible that their children will follow in their footsteps. parents' footsteps in playing casino and that is not good for the children's future.

Yes, by providing good guidance or understanding and slow explanations, I think it will make it easier for children to understand what gambling is.
Telling and teaching them about gambling at tender age wouldn't change anything, if the parents are gambler, there is a greater chance for their kid to do the same when he/she grows up, who knows if she start gambling at tertiary college where her parents is absent, it can only takes a high level discipline family to refocus their kids from gambling. Am talking about myself here, i grew up been taught never to gamble or i made attempt to gambling through out my university days, it really sucks funds and ruins life.

Everyone's views and opinions are definitely different, bro. Parents who are caught carrying out gambling activities by their children really hope that when their children grow up they won't follow in their footsteps because they know that gambling is not a good activity to do.

It is true, parents should not only prioritize gambling, because there are more important things to prioritize, namely family. If the parents of gamblers are addicted and only care about themselves in gambling, thereby forgetting the happiness or interests of their family or children, then there is a big possibility that there will be problems in the family, namely a lack of harmony. and love, therefore their children may gamble because they feel annoyed and angry, because their parents are not disciplined and wise in making the right decisions.
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