Topic: Newbies how do you feel when your post is criticised. - page 6. (Read 1133 times)
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I like the purpose of this thread because most humans don't know praise could ruin them while opening the door to criticism will nurture our growth and make us the best in the field. There's a particular quote that says "Criticism is like rain gentle enough to nourish a man's growth without destroying his roots." However, we need to be mature enough to make the best out of it cause they always open our sight to other possibilities we don't notice or see.
Different people have different ways of handling issues
I particularly expect heavy criticism for my posts,I mean come to think of it this forum has thousands of members who've been on it for quite some time gaining experience and insight into a lot of matters,I'm not trying to discredit newbies or anything but realistically a newbie ought to be either clearly wrong in some speculations or shortsighted hence the need for constructive criticism and I consider it a loss on the part of a newbie if he/she takes criticism to heart and doesn't consider the flip side which is correction or a source of improvement in the relevance and information contained in the post
I particularly expect heavy criticism for my posts,I mean come to think of it this forum has thousands of members who've been on it for quite some time gaining experience and insight into a lot of matters,I'm not trying to discredit newbies or anything but realistically a newbie ought to be either clearly wrong in some speculations or shortsighted hence the need for constructive criticism and I consider it a loss on the part of a newbie if he/she takes criticism to heart and doesn't consider the flip side which is correction or a source of improvement in the relevance and information contained in the post
Of course, some criticisms are constructive and some are brought down. no matter beginners or even members with already high rankings in the forum. When we enter into a discussion, of course, there will be criticism of our opinions or even our way of making quotes.
As far as I know, there are no truly extreme typings that might be more of an insult to other members. Even if there is, this kind of thing is usually done by fellow senior members who may be joking because they have known each other on the forum for a long time. or just PM.
Never be discouraged, if you want to learn more in a new environment, it is natural that you have to adapt to the environment.
As far as I know, there are no truly extreme typings that might be more of an insult to other members. Even if there is, this kind of thing is usually done by fellow senior members who may be joking because they have known each other on the forum for a long time. or just PM.
Never be discouraged, if you want to learn more in a new environment, it is natural that you have to adapt to the environment.
Criticism has a way of molding someone, either in a positive way or negative way. It encourages some people to put more effort and also make some people to feel depressed and it makes you to stop whatever you're doing.
As a newbie (back then) it happened to me which made me to avoid coming here to do anything but I found out that if I continue allowing words to get to me I won't get to any where, I'd become a stagnant water, I got up and continue from where I stopped.
But when it comes to other people and how they make corrections, they don't care how you feel and is like they don't have filter in their mouth to soften some words, they just say it and if care is not taken you might not understand why they said what they said, to me is a message to upgrade yourself and do better but if you read it without understanding all you see are critics that would bring you down. Is just an experience we as humans had to pass through to be better.
As a newbie (back then) it happened to me which made me to avoid coming here to do anything but I found out that if I continue allowing words to get to me I won't get to any where, I'd become a stagnant water, I got up and continue from where I stopped.
But when it comes to other people and how they make corrections, they don't care how you feel and is like they don't have filter in their mouth to soften some words, they just say it and if care is not taken you might not understand why they said what they said, to me is a message to upgrade yourself and do better but if you read it without understanding all you see are critics that would bring you down. Is just an experience we as humans had to pass through to be better.
Before starting this topic so many things have been on my mind because I know how it pains for someone to criticise a write up or a post.
Most of us have had the same experience and it was not funny. There was a time when I spent some hours researching and writing a post and I was expecting positive responses. But all I got was criticism and several backlash from most responses. It was very painful that I had to stop reading the comments. Quote
In a forum like this where so many intellects are contributing to a particular discussion there is always a room for criticism and the ability for you as newbie to absorb it as a learning process makes you unique and smart . For me Criticism is a process of learning because when ever I am been criticised I usually seize the opportunity to add more knowledge because I often see it as a corrective measures to widen my horizon .
Although some criticisms are not constructive because they don't deal with the main purpose of the discussion, however, these oppositions could be a good learning experience. It might not be convenient to read them, but it will be beneficial to study and apply those that are enlightening. It will help you not to make the same mistake you made and also help to improve your post quality.Quote
Additionally, I will sincerely advice all the newbies who are quick to anger or discouraged when their post are been criticised to see it as a means of learning and not to react rudely because mistake brings correction .
Anyone who has issues with anger shouldn't be on a public platform. You don't expect people to think like you or believe everything you say, therefore there will always be critics. If you react rudely because of criticism you will receive more backlash and might end up frustrated. 
For some it can be motivation that we should start gathering more knowledge and indulge ourselves in a healthy discussion rather then posting the useless things that won't benefit them but some might get discouraged feeling high rank members are not gladly welcoming them so it depends on how you see it but there are some newbies accounts in the past creating just spam threads on merits and how to earn on forum which should be criticized according to me and you should also explore forum first of all.
From the recent threads started by newbies, I have come to realize that we have a set of newbies on bitcointalk who are easily offended by words and are triggered when their opinions are challenged by other members.
Newbies are not Scums.... Learning is a Process and it's progressive.
Why I get less batching unlike before
Newbies who stay longer on the forum and grow to become respectable members of the community will understand why members react to the certain posts the way they do.
Newbies are not Scums.... Learning is a Process and it's progressive.
Why I get less batching unlike before
Newbies who stay longer on the forum and grow to become respectable members of the community will understand why members react to the certain posts the way they do.
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In some cases, criticism simply tells someone to improve themselves and get better. There's a saying that learning can come in different ways; it could come normally as cool as it can be, or it can also come in a hash manner. Rather than retaliating to criticism, the newbie should just know the reason why they got criticized and perhaps make amends. Also, there are some discussions that everyone on this forum cannot actually agree to; some people will definitely disagree and criticize the OP. I have been criticized many times on the forum and I have also criticized some persons too, it's vice versa. We are all different individuals from different societies, raised in different ways. The best thing to do to overcome criticism is to develop thick skin.
In a forum like this where so many intellects are contributing to a particular discussion there is always a room for criticism and the ability for you as newbie to absorb it as a learning process makes you unique and smart . For me Criticism is a process of learning because when ever I am been criticised I usually seize the opportunity to add more knowledge because I often see it as a corrective measures to widen my horizon
Of course, there will be always a chance to get criticism from any forum members. Sure, it is a part of learning process and we must be aware that criticism makes us be stronger. If we don't want to get criticism, how we know people's perspective on our posts? We also can't get a correction of our mistakes if we refuse criticism. As long as it is a constructive criticism, we must always accept it and take it as a lesson. It is the way to be smarter and stronger, not only in this forum but it applies for the real life.I will sincerely advice all the newbies who are quick to anger or discouraged when their post are been criticised to see it as a means of learning and not to react rudely because mistake brings correction
When you're newbies, it is normal to get criticism. Newbies probably have lack of knowledge, both related to everything about this forum and crypto in general. Newbies must have to be willing to accept criticism, it is the way to gain more knowledge. People in this forum give the lessons to the newbies through delivering constructive criticism. Newbies mustn't think that people hate them, but it indicates that people care with them.
Even in real world, criticisms are there and they're even more brutal when they do it face to face. Most of the members here are patience and respectful and don't take criticisms as if they're trying to put you down. When there's someone that's correcting us, let's be thankful to them. Not all the things we know and there is always someone who's better than us. Learning is a process and let's take it lightly seriously but don't think of the people correcting us as if they are mad at us for not knowing the other things they know, thank them instead so that you're going to learn more not just on this community but more in life because you can apply that to yourself in real life.
So far so good in this forum older users or let's say knowledgeable users didn't practice criticisms. they are too generous, and respectful to newbie not just newbie but all member here in our community. But we are not perfect sometimes we made mistakes so that some older users correct us and advised us what to do. And we must thankful, cause they don't humiliate us but they will teach us to become better. And also we are all know that in other place even in real life once we made some mistakes people around us give their negative feedback and worst criticisze us.
As a newbie I've not been criticized here before because am always careful with the kind of posts and comments I make and it's not that am afraid of criticism because criticism is a part of our everyday life.
I will feel really bad if my post here is being criticized, I'd feel dumb, imagine putting your effort and everything into leaning and posting on this platform and at the end of it you get criticized for it but as a person that wants to learn and grow l won't let it get to me too much, l will go through the critics, try to get few points, learn from it, pick myself up and we move forward. I won't let it weigh me down because even in real life if you don't get criticized you ain't doing nothing.
I will feel really bad if my post here is being criticized, I'd feel dumb, imagine putting your effort and everything into leaning and posting on this platform and at the end of it you get criticized for it but as a person that wants to learn and grow l won't let it get to me too much, l will go through the critics, try to get few points, learn from it, pick myself up and we move forward. I won't let it weigh me down because even in real life if you don't get criticized you ain't doing nothing.
Anyone, especially a newbie who gets angry after his post has been criticised is not ready to learn yet. For a post to be criticised, it means there are flaws in it which your attention has been drawn to. The essence of criticising your work is to help you improve and work on yourself/your writing skills. The tone of the criticism might not be appealing but the most important thing is that a message has been passed. To survive in this forum, we just need to have an open mind where we absorb more and more ideas. It is then left for us to apply the ideas we've gotten into the relevant places .
I have just one advice for newbies who get angry when their posts are criticised; "keep your emotions aside before coming online on Bitcointalk forum" At least it will help them think straight.
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Additionally, I will sincerely advice all the newbies who are quick to anger or discouraged when their post are been criticised to see it as a means of learning and not to react rudely because mistake brings correction .
I don't think some newbies will take that advise from you because, some newbies feel the forum users are not happy with them, that they are part of the forum based on some argument against their post to correct some things that will help them in the future. But those newbies that are comfortable with the argument against their post are the ones that are progressing today in the forum, if you can investigate it very well or check some of the reply in this thread because they refuse to give up with their mistakes. No newbies will not feel bad when their post be criticised in the forum unless those that was informed before by their mentor before joining the Bitcointalk.org and, they will not feel bad about criticize because they knew it that they are part of the learning in this forum.I have just one advice for newbies who get angry when their posts are criticised; "keep your emotions aside before coming online on Bitcointalk forum" At least it will help them think straight.
The truth is that even if criticism is painful it always help one to do better to avoid been criticise in the future . Criticism helps people to grow fast which they will be so willing to know the right thing just to avoid been embarrassed. This is something people neeef to get use of it, because in life people will always criticise expecially when things are not done in the right way. I don't see criticism as something that is bad in the forum, if people are not criticise about the information they share in the forum it can mislead other members that are also trying to learn.
Criticism can make one to feel bad but we just need to try our best not to take it personal. The reason for criticism is for corrections, I'd things are right people will not criticise your post. Newbies should learn how to endure being criticise it will surely help them in learning fast to grow.
Criticism can make one to feel bad but we just need to try our best not to take it personal. The reason for criticism is for corrections, I'd things are right people will not criticise your post. Newbies should learn how to endure being criticise it will surely help them in learning fast to grow.
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Additionally, I will sincerely advice all the newbies who are quick to anger or discouraged when their post are been criticised to see it as a means of learning and not to react rudely because mistake brings correction .
I don't think some newbies will take that advise from you because, some newbies feel the forum users are not happy with them, that they are part of the forum based on some argument against their post to correct some things that will help them in the future. But those newbies that are comfortable with the argument against their post are the ones that are progressing today in the forum, if you can investigate it very well or check some of the reply in this thread because they refuse to give up with their mistakes. No newbies will not feel bad when their post be criticised in the forum unless those that was informed before by their mentor before joining the Bitcointalk.org and, they will not feel bad about criticize because they knew it that they are part of the learning in this forum. 
Before starting this topic so many things have been on my mind because I know how it pains for someone to criticise a write up or a post.
Low quality post are criticized and not quality posts, shitposter and spammers as well we're being kicked against here, if you're not one of them, then you were only being corrected and not criticized, here we don't criticize on newbies, instead we encourage them to do more better and appreciate the little they have done, it is understood that nobody is perfect, but there are also ways we make mistakes when we are doing something and when corrected, we shouldn't feel being intimidated.
Additionally, I will sincerely advice all the newbies who are quick to anger or discouraged when their post are been criticised to see it as a means of learning and not to react rudely because mistake brings correction .
Any serious minded newbie who is indeed interested in learning will see everything you talked about as a stepping stone to what they are aiming to achieve and not as a criticism, except the newbies are doing the wrong things themselves.
Before starting this topic so many things have been on my mind because I know how it pains for someone to criticise a write up or a post.
In a forum like this where so many intellects are contributing to a particular discussion there is always a room for criticism and the ability for you as newbie to absorb it as a learning process makes you unique and smart . For me Criticism is a process of learning because when ever I am been criticised I usually seize the opportunity to add more knowledge because I often see it as a corrective measures to widen my horizon .
Additionally, I will sincerely advice all the newbies who are quick to anger or discouraged when their post are been criticised to see it as a means of learning and not to react rudely because mistake brings correction .
In a forum like this where so many intellects are contributing to a particular discussion there is always a room for criticism and the ability for you as newbie to absorb it as a learning process makes you unique and smart . For me Criticism is a process of learning because when ever I am been criticised I usually seize the opportunity to add more knowledge because I often see it as a corrective measures to widen my horizon .
Additionally, I will sincerely advice all the newbies who are quick to anger or discouraged when their post are been criticised to see it as a means of learning and not to react rudely because mistake brings correction .
There is a maxim "be positive". Now it is often seen that motivational speakers are hired in various institutions to increase the performance of the officers and employees of the institution and to make the students more attentive.It works really well.But sometimes someone can't take it easy. Many times the wrongdoer gets angry instead of correcting, the corrector should speak in a soft tone so that he can easily learn something good from the mistake. So I am saying to all the members in this forum that everyone should respect others and who gives respect to everyone obviously every one respects him, it's natural.So everybody please follow the rules in the forum.
I used to be on a seo forum from years and I came to figure out newbies actually don't know anything they ask simple questions which can be searched on google. they should be critisized they have zero researching skills.
I always feels bad to be criticized but if there's a lesson to be learnt, it should be learnt swiftly.
I have made countless number of posts and some times the comments I read either make me think hard and fast to know the best approach to take next as per making reasonable improvements.
Any old member here who criticize anyone, does so because they know better and it should not be taken as an insult but a challenge to be better.
I have made countless number of posts and some times the comments I read either make me think hard and fast to know the best approach to take next as per making reasonable improvements.
Any old member here who criticize anyone, does so because they know better and it should not be taken as an insult but a challenge to be better.
Even in real world, criticisms are there and they're even more brutal when they do it face to face. Most of the members here are patience and respectful and don't take criticisms as if they're trying to put you down. When there's someone that's correcting us, let's be thankful to them. Not all the things we know and there is always someone who's better than us. Learning is a process and let's take it lightly seriously but don't think of the people correcting us as if they are mad at us for not knowing the other things they know, thank them instead so that you're going to learn more not just on this community but more in life because you can apply that to yourself in real life.
So far so good in this forum older users or let's say knowledgeable users didn't practice criticisms. they are too generous, and respectful to newbie not just newbie but all member here in our community. But we are not perfect sometimes we made mistakes so that some older users correct us and advised us what to do. And we must thankful, cause they don't humiliate us but they will teach us to become better. And also we are all know that in other place even in real life once we made some mistakes people around us give their negative feedback and worst criticisze us.
Even in real world, criticisms are there and they're even more brutal when they do it face to face. Most of the members here are patience and respectful and don't take criticisms as if they're trying to put you down. When there's someone that's correcting us, let's be thankful to them. Not all the things we know and there is always someone who's better than us. Learning is a process and let's take it lightly seriously but don't think of the people correcting us as if they are mad at us for not knowing the other things they know, thank them instead so that you're going to learn more not just on this community but more in life because you can apply that to yourself in real life.
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